Chapter 37 Arguing with Mother Lin(2/2)
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Lin Xiaojuan said: "My mother quarreled with my father this morning and told me that if I wanted this child, she would die for me. Wow, Brother Han, what should I do?"
I said, "Don't cry. The child must be born. Just wait for me. I will fly to your place today."
Lin Xiaojuan immediately said: "Don't come. Things will be even harder to deal with when you come."
I was anxious: "Then what will you do if your mother forces you?"
Lin Xiaojuan: "I don't know, I didn't expect my mother to react so strongly, woo woo woo..."
I said: "Don't cry, don't cry during the Chinese New Year..."
Before she finished speaking, Lin Xiaojuan said: "My mother is back, I will tell you later."
Lin Xiaojuan hung up the phone, I sat down and thought for a while, asked the network administrator to open a machine for me, logged into QQ and sent a message to Lin Xiaojuan.
The general meaning of the message is, don't worry, as long as I'm here, I will definitely communicate with your mother, and I will make her feel at ease. Don't worry too much. You see, I can earn hundreds of thousands in more than a year.
It's just the beginning. It will definitely get better in the future. You should talk to your mother about it. I think I still need to come to your place. You can talk to your parents and see if it works.
Lin Xiaojuan didn't reply to my message for a long time. I didn't have a mobile phone and didn't dare to walk away. I just surfed the Internet and waited for her reply.
I saw two strangers adding verifications as friends, one is Ade, and the other is Ade’s sister. I looked at the time and saw that they were sent at midnight last night.
I passed the verification but didn't speak.
They didn't send me any information either.
During the Chinese New Year, there were so many messages of greetings and messages from the Paopao Village Committee that I had no intention of reading them.
I logged on to Google to search for information about mothers-in-law forcing their daughters, but I couldn't find any good reference materials.
I didn’t know who to ask for advice. My mother was very impatient. I told her that not only would I not be able to help, but I might even get things into trouble.
I sent another message to Lin Xiaojuan, saying that if it really didn’t work out, I’d better come over. I can’t let you face this matter alone.
I sent a few more messages, but she didn't reply to me.
I couldn't help but ran to the front desk and called Lin Xiaojuan, and it was Mother Lin who answered the phone.
I heard that the other person was Mrs. Lin, and I quickly wished her a happy new year.
Mother Lin didn't say anything for a long time, and I waited anxiously for the possibility of a storm.
As a result, Mother Lin first wished me a Happy New Year, and then said softly: "Xiaohan, Auntie knows it's not good to ask you some questions during the Chinese New Year, but I can't help but want to ask."
What this says is that if you still ask a question when you know it’s not good, then it’s definitely not an easy question.
Besides, the mother-in-law is able to suppress her emotions in this situation. Tell me this, I feel that things are definitely not that simple.
I had a pretty good impression of Mrs. Lin when I met her before, but now I'm starting to be a little afraid of talking to her, but as an elder, I can't be rude and not listen.
I said: "Auntie, you ask, I'm listening."
Mother Lin: "Xiaohan, you are still young and not married yet. I want to ask you, tell the truth. If you give birth to a daughter in the future, and only one daughter, do you hope she will marry well?"
I thought about it for a while and replied: "I definitely hope she will marry well."
Mother Lin: "Then if you are Lin Xiaojuan's father now, Lin Xiaojuan is now in love with a young man named Gou Shuhan, but Gou Shuhan obviously cannot take good care of Lin Xiaojuan at the moment. He does not have enough food, clothing or housing, and is pregnant before she is married.
, as a father, what would you do?"
Me: "Auntie, I think that young man Gou Shuhan can take good care of Lin Xiaojuan. He has the confidence and ability to take good care of her in the future."
Mother Lin: "As a parent, you don't want your children to suffer. You and Juan'er have known each other for so long. How many clothes have you bought for her, how many times have you given her gifts, and how many times have you taken her to and from get off work? She followed you in Shenzhen. She has become darker and thinner, do you know? Now you got her pregnant at such a young age, and you have no sense of responsibility at all, do you know?"
Mother Lin asked me such a question that I didn’t know how to answer for a while.
Yes, I have basically never bought her clothes or given her any expensive gifts. Except for the expensive mobile phone and the diamond ring I bought before, there are really very few others.
I rarely give flowers. I always believe that people should be pragmatic and give useful things.
It is true that I did not take her to and from get off work a few times. Even in college, I was busy making money every day.
As for becoming darker and thinner, I really want to tell her that the darkening of her skin may be due to the severe ultraviolet radiation in Shenzhen. I really don’t feel that she has become thinner. Is it true that all parents in the world hope that their children will become fat in vain?
Fat, like a New Year pig?
But can I express these thoughts?
Of course I didn’t dare to answer like this. I thought about it and then answered: "Auntie, I did not take good care of Xiaojuan, but I will work harder. Auntie, you have to believe me. This pregnancy is indeed an accident, but when I encounter problems, I will not run away."
, I will work hard and give Xiaojuan a happy life in the future. Auntie, you believe me, okay?"
Mother Lin: "You don't have to run away."
Me: "Well, I won't escape, I will work hard."
Mother Lin: "Because I will take Juan'er to the hospital. I don't want her to live in poverty in the future. You will definitely hate me. Auntie is not afraid that you will hate me. I am doing this for Juan'er's good."
I was anxious: "Auntie, auntie, please don't be impulsive. Think about it, when you were young, right, your conditions were not as good as they are now. Then, wouldn't they be the same? I will definitely be good to Xiaojuan."
Yes, Auntie, you believe me."
Mother Lin: "I believe in your determination, and it is precisely because I have experienced it that I don't want Lin Xiaojuan to live a hard life in the future. Yesterday, I mistakenly thought that Xiao Lin and Juan'er had developed, but later I found out that I was wrong.
I'm satisfied, you said, because of you, Juan'er has been delayed for so long, and now you are causing her to be like this, can't you let her go?"
I tried to control my emotions and didn't want to quarrel with her. I said, "Auntie, you have to believe me. If you really don't believe me, can we ask Xiaojuan what she means? We can't make a hasty decision like this."
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Mother Lin finally raised her voice over there: "Don't you think you are shameless? You took advantage of my daughter's love for you and made her follow your plan step by step. Don't think that our Juan'er doesn't mind being poor and loving.
If you are rich, you can take it for granted that she wants to marry you. You are too selfish, you know?"
I also raised my voice: "Auntie, you use your own judgment to decide that it will not be good for me and Xiaojuan to be together, and you also ask Xiaojuan not to have children. Isn't this also a sign of selfishness? Can you..."
"Dududu..."
Mother Lin hung up the phone over there.
I listened to the disconnection sound coming from the phone and couldn't calm down for a long time. Am I so bad? I couldn't control my emotions and started arguing with my mother-in-law-to-be.
Chapter completed!