I racked my brains to think of countermeasures, but when I called Mother Lin again, the result I got was even worse than the previous time.

The Spring Festival in 2006, the Year of the Dog, was gloomy for me.

From Mother Lin’s point of view, it’s terrible to encounter this kind of thing on New Year’s Day.

We communicated on the phone for several days but could not reach an agreement. Mother Lin’s attitude was very firm, and Father Lin could not do anything about it. Lin Xiaojuan wavered for many days, and finally gave in to Mother Lin. My persuasion on the other end of the phone was ineffective, and Lin Xiaojuan cried.

Say sorry to me.

I was on the other end of the phone, crying and saying sorry.

I was almost crazy in Shenzhen. When I flew to Qingdao, they had already completed the operation in the hospital.

It's not as bloody as those shown in movies and TV dramas, but it feels even more uncomfortable than being bloody.

They refused to tell me which hospital I was in, and I didn't even know which community Lin Xiaojuan lived in.

I didn't dare to tell my mother about this either.

I stayed in Qingdao for a whole week. I searched in different hospitals for the first three days, and spent the next four days in a hotel thinking and dazing. Finally, on Valentine's Day, I sadly left Qingdao and returned to Shenzhen.

For lovers, the farthest distance in the world is not the separation between two places, but the mother-in-law-to-be who opposes her to the death.

My relationship with Lin Xiaojuan is over.

I predicted many times that we might break up, but I never expected that the process would be like this.

After I returned to Shenzhen, Lin Xiaojuan kept calling me and texting me to say sorry. As soon as I received her call, I would burst into tears, and as soon as I saw her message, I would choke up silently.

What else can I say?

Slowly, the two of us stopped repeating those words of apology to each other. Later, I often looked at her QQ profile picture in a daze, and looked at her name in the phone address book in a daze.

People always have to come out of sadness.

Slowly, I started to cheer up, and started selling lunch boxes at the Convention and Exhibition Center, and started bickering with Pan Shilong every day.

Selling fast food lasted for a whole year, until after the Spring Festival in 2007.

All my college classmates knew that Lin Xiaojuan and I broke up. Since then, Lin Xiaojuan and I have become a sensitive topic in the university group chat. Everyone who involves us avoids talking about it. Occasionally, if we accidentally talk about it, some people will make comments and distract us.

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Gradually, I became the most taciturn person in the university group.

Lin Xiaojuan seemed to have disappeared from the world.

The "Paopao Village Committee" of the Shenzhen group of college classmates also existed in name only, until one day Wan Fei disbanded the "Paopao Village Committee" and re-established a new group. All the original group members were there except Lin Xiaojuan. The group name was

The "2004 Journalism Department Shenzhen Group" was changed back to the name Wan Fei gave when he first established the group.

I refused all the gatherings of my college classmates in Shenzhen during this period.

Because I don’t want to be comforted and comforted by others.

Underneath my cheerful appearance, it turns out that I am very fragile on the inside.

But the paradox is that I have been renting the house in Baishizhou, and I have kept Lin Xiaojuan's clothes and belongings as they were.

I seem to be living in the past.

During this time, I fell madly in love with cycling, and I pulled Pan Shilong to join the cycling team.

Later, the five of me, Mr. and Mrs. Ade, Pan Shilong, and Lucy formed a relatively fixed team. After about three or four months, everyone unanimously suggested that I choose a team name. I remembered the name of the university group that had been disbanded before, and blurted out, "

"Paopao Village Committee", no one said that this name was good or bad. Later, we found a small shop that customized personalized T-shirts and hot-stamped this name on our various cycling clothes.

Five words.

I created another QQ group myself, called Paopao Village Committee, and I invited people from the motorcade into it. They didn’t know the origin of the name, and they were still shouting that they would call me village chief from now on.

Ade's sister Lucy is a headhunter. She suggested that I develop into a professional manager. The "self-employed" approach is not suitable for me.

I accepted her suggestion and tried to interview with several companies, but the salary was really low.

I feel that I have encountered a development bottleneck, or that my development has deviated from the normal track. After graduation, they all entered serious companies, fighting monsters and upgrading like playing games, but the two companies I entered before were like a hammer.

Buy and sell.

Throughout the whole year of my life, I lived very independently, as if I had never been in love or fallen out of love. I was so free and easy that people who knew my situation felt that I was too stimulated.

Pan Shilong mobilized everyone to take me to see a movie, "Crazy Stone". It was a very good movie. The whole theater was packed. They laughed. Lucy laughed so much that she leaned on my shoulder. I looked at the front row.

The couple burst into tears looking at each other.

Before the Spring Festival in 2006, I returned to western Hunan and stayed at home for almost a month. After the Spring Festival in 2007, I returned to Shenzhen.

Looking at the deposit of more than 200,000 in my card, I thought about how to develop in the future.

The monthly salary of my college classmates has increased from about 3,000 when I just graduated to about 10,000, which makes me start to think more about how to plan myself in the future.

I picked up the phone and told Lucy that I decided not to fight guerrillas anymore. Please help me find a better company. I don't want to sell lunch boxes anymore.

She asked me, are you sure? It's not just a whim?

I said no, I meant it this time.

The advantage of headhunting is to help you quickly find a position that better matches your career development, rather than simply looking for a job.

Through her introduction, I went to a clothing company to interview the planning director.

The interview with the head of the planning department came to an end, and the guy in the yellow shirt and I were the only ones left.

The three interviewers took turns asking us two different questions, and our answers were always the same, each with its own merits.

I clearly felt that the interviewers were embarrassed.

Finally, they whispered, and after a while, one of the interviewers asked us: "You all have girlfriends, right?"

Huang Shan replied: "Yes."

The interviewer looked at me.

I remember that this item was not specified on the form. After asking for so long, I was hungry and a little impatient. I felt that the company Lucy introduced was a bit unreliable, but I restrained myself and said, "No."

The interviewer asked Huang Shan again, what do you think of love? What do you do on a daily basis? What do you plan to do in the future?

Huang Shan talked eloquently, talking about his ideals and ambitions, saying that he wanted to be good to his girlfriend in the future, what he was doing now, and what he planned to do in the future...

Listening to it makes me want to sleep.

Finally, the three interviewers took turns asking him questions about love, and they finished.

Then he asked me: "You are 25 years old, why don't you have a girlfriend? How many times have you been in love before?"

I said, "I was dumped because I didn't have a house."

The interviewers paused for a moment and stopped asking me any more questions. One of them said, "I didn't have a house at the time, and I was dumped by my girlfriend. Okay, you two go back and wait for notification."

The next day, I received a call saying that I was admitted because they felt that I was more suitable for this position than the yellow jersey.

I thought maybe the interviewer had the same emotional experience as me, maybe.

Because I taught myself a lot of design software in college, I have been fond of drawing since I was a child, and I have a certain talent for drawing. In addition, I am serious and responsible at work. I have taken the initiative to help the company solve problems at work many times. After three months, I was appreciated by my boss.

Huali transferred from the planning director to the deputy manager of the design department.

The salary has been greatly improved.

The title of deputy manager of the design department may seem big, but he is actually a team leader who supervises three designers. The work he has to do is also very simple. He takes copies of popular styles from well-known companies in the industry and abroad.

Plagiarism, including the company of Director Lin Fenqiang and Lin Fenqiang.

Although the salary of this job is quite considerable, the deputy manager of the design department earns more than 7,000 per month, but it makes me feel very insecure. How can a company that relies on plagiarism develop in the long run?

I was too embarrassed to bother Lucy anymore, so I resigned and went to work as a planning manager in an LED company. I spent half a month traveling around the country, participating in different exhibitions, and giving different presentations.

Another year passed like this, and by the beginning of 2008, I had a deposit of 300,000 in my card.

This year, I was single. Ah Yue, who had previously been trained by Huding, knew that I had broken up through other training teachers. She took the initiative to contact me many times and also hinted at it, but I politely declined.

Because I have been hit hard, I feel that poor people do not deserve a beautiful love.

I'm afraid of starting over.

It's not because Ah Yue and I are not compatible.

I told her how I really felt.

She wished me happiness and told me that the house and money were all external possessions. Her family had these external possessions. If I wanted to, I could contact her.

I felt like I was being targeted by a little rich woman.

In 2007, due to the credit crisis of subprime housing in Western countries, which affected the global economy, starting from the beginning of 2008, the economic situation in Shenzhen, which was at the forefront of reform and opening up, was not optimistic. Many companies and factories began to lay off employees, and some small businesses could not escape the end of bankruptcy.

The company where I worked also started to lay off employees. As the most expensive project, I was laid off.

Perhaps, I am not suitable for this path as a professional manager, and it would be better for me to have a smooth time during the guerrilla war.

With 300,000 yuan in my pocket, I thought, although I am single now, I will still get married in the future. It is impossible for me to leave Lin Xiaojuan and I will die alone. So on a sunny day, I rode alone.

I went to look at houses on my bicycle and only entered one house before I was so angry that I went home.

The female salesperson who received me was quite good-looking, but her eyes reached the top of her head. She thought I might not be able to afford a house. She was not very patient and serious in her introduction. After asking me a few questions, she felt that I sounded like I was bragging.
To be continued...