Gu Cheng has always believed in the view in a work he once read. Love is not the prerequisite for two people to go on. Giving in and being tolerant are what make two people more comfortable, and at the same time, they have the courage and confidence to face setbacks.

After listening to Gu Cheng's words, Shang Yan became a little confused. He used to always think about the problems between the two people with a very angry mind, but he never felt that he should make corresponding concessions on these issues.

, after all, in comparison, Li Nan seems to have put more effort into this relationship between the two, and he has always been relatively passive in catering to the other person's humility, and has even taken this humility as a matter of course.

relationship model.

Every time he was aggressive, the other party would make corresponding concessions. However, when such concessions were made too often, Li Nan himself would feel that he did not have much confidence in this relationship. In this pessimistic mood,

In the future, there may be more disagreements, and the originally very small details will become extremely demanding.

The main reason for arguing with Shang Yan was not the problem of the incident itself, but Li Nan's eagerness to seek a sense of seriousness and security in dealing with this kind of relationship from Shang Yan.

Maybe it's because Shang Yan's previous way of treating relationships has always been more dissolute, so Li Nan is eager to make the other party take it seriously and truly treat the relationship between two people, instead of treating others the way he did before.

She treats herself with the attitude of a girl. After all, the two of them are about to get married. They must have a completely different way of getting along with each other than before. She is not expecting Shang Yan to achieve much or achieve anything.

How big the achievement is, in itself, may not be that important to their family background.

As long as Shang Yan does not engage in any profession that is against the law or very inconsistent with the status quo, he is already in line with his family's expectations of them. When you have such a family background, there may be many restrictions on you, but you also learn from the family.

Able to obtain various opportunities. Even many parents only hope that their children can become a relatively ordinary person. As for how outstanding they are, or how to become better on their own basis, this kind of thing has always been

I won't have too much confidence.

Because these parents who are often ups and downs in the business world are very aware of the nature of this world. As the times develop, there may be fewer and fewer opportunities for the people who come after them. If there are no relatively big opportunities, their original trajectory of life will almost be lost.

It's already 10 points destined.

And they themselves took advantage of the turmoil of economic reform to seize the opportunity and jumped up to achieve their current achievements. If they were asked to do it all over again, they might not be where they are now, or even only.

He might just be a relatively ordinary person.

It is precisely because of this that their requirements for future generations have become very low. As long as they are on the right path, there is no big difference. If they become just a little bit better, it will be enough.

They were overjoyed.

It can be said that if it weren't for Gu Cheng's enlightenment and the instillation of some opinions, Shang Yan would still be in the process of great anger and sadness, because he himself did not realize that he had made any major mistakes in his emotional relationship.

I even feel that I am doing better than any previous relationship experience, but I just ignore one point, that is, the relationship I am experiencing now is completely different from the previous one. It can even be said that if I continue to treat other partners the same way as before,

If you treat Li Nan with that kind of attitude, the road ahead for the two of them will become very narrow, and they may even completely fall apart.

It was precisely because of this conversation that he realized that Li Nan was not like the girls he had dated before. As long as he received a bag or money in return, he would feel ecstatic. What they wanted more was love.

A sense of security in terms of security and how seriously one takes this relationship, and these things are precisely the areas and shortcomings that I have not done well at all.

In the quiet process, I carefully recalled every stage and time I spent with Li Nan. It seemed that I had been avoiding such more positive questions, and I had always felt very satisfied with Li Nan's concern for me in life.

Of course, you must know that in this society there is no reason why anyone owes anyone, and you cannot rely on this preference to become emboldened just because the other person likes you.

Opening a can of beer again, Shang Yan might not drink it as fast this time as before. While he savored the aroma of malt and the taste of alcohol fermenting in his mouth, he reminisced about his relationship in this relationship.

After comparing the deficiencies or incorrect things that I had done, after carefully thinking about it, I realized that I really owed a lot to Li Nan, and most of the quarrels seemed to be entirely because of my mistakes.

After just realizing this problem, Shang Yan completely entered a state of sage time, and the anger and sadness in his heart disappeared instantly without a trace. Looking back now, it seems that the whole person's heart was completely

It was because of Li Nan's guilt and uneasiness that he truly realized what kind of position the other party occupied in his heart, and even began to consider what his life would be like if he really lost the other party.

posture.

It can be said that during this period of time under Li Nan's care, Shang Yan has become accustomed to this kind of life. Once the other person's role really disappears in his life, his eyes will feel as if he has lost the right track.

Likewise, the train that was originally traveling would temporarily come to a standstill due to the derailment.

This sense of panic about the future made it impossible for him to continue sitting quietly where he was. He even began to worry about gains and losses and began to think about what kind of state his partner and girlfriend were in now. Li Nan had nothing to say about himself.

I felt regretful for leaving home at once. If nothing else happened, Li Nan should be hiding in bed alone and crying secretly. Thinking of this, Shang Yan felt that his heart became extremely stinging, and even a little bit.

The unbearable feeling.

"Cheng Zi, I may need to go home temporarily. This night conversation between us can only end temporarily. I'm really sorry. If I have time someday, I will definitely come over to visit you again, but right now I feel
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