"It seems that no one can know a clear answer to this kind of thing except yourself, and if you really want to know the answer to this question, it is better to calm down and think carefully about whether you are willing and determined to talk to the other person.

After separation, do you have the tolerance and patience to look at the small differences and differences that arise in life, or do you want to solve them?"

While Gu Cheng kept repeating the behavior of eating cold dishes at home, he completely exposed his truest thoughts deep in his heart and discussed it with Shang Yan. It seemed that no one else could really help with matters such as feelings except himself.

As a friend, the only way I can help the other person is to get drunk with the other person when the other person wants to get drunk.

After listening to Gu Cheng's words, Shang Yan also fell into deep thought. In fact, logically speaking, if he was really asked whether he liked Li Nan or not, the answer to this question would naturally be without doubt.

Maybe before the marriage was confirmed, there was some possibility of abduction, but after getting along with each other, I have allowed myself to accept the other person wholeheartedly.

But the problems I encountered in my life really made me feel very uncomfortable, and even very frustrating. I felt that the experience and experience I had accumulated in the past had no place in this matter.

When it comes to relationships, he is still as immature as a primary school student who has just left school.

After sighing again, Shang Yan picked up the beer can again, drank it all in one breath, and then threw the remaining beer can aside. He crossed his legs and continued to think about this problem.

"Actually, what you encountered is not too unusual among many couples. Falling in love and living together are two completely different experiences. When you are in love, you may feel that the other person is good at everything.

And when you meet each other, you will also reveal your best side to them, and when you really live together, you will slowly reveal some of the little details that you don't pay attention to in life."

Although Gu Cheng doesn't want to get involved in the other person's emotional life, from the perspective of a friend, he still hopes that Shang Yan can cherish this partner who finally meets him and analyze the other person's feelings from some aspects and in a broad range.

and the importance of this partner.

Before meeting Li Nan, Shang Yan had always been a prodigal son floating in the sky, hanging around in different groups of women, and most of these women did it because of his good looks or family background.

In addition, Shang Yan is very generous when treating women. Almost every woman who breaks up with him or breaks up with him can receive a good reward, such as the brand-name bag she wants or other financial rewards.

Naturally, I don't think that Shang Yan has any flaws in certain issues. Instead, I think that Shang Yan is a good partner, and even a gentleman who is very in line with my own wishes.

But even Shang Yan himself is very clear about this matter. These women may have performed well as his short-term partners, but if they really want to enter into marriage with each other, they are not suitable partners at all.

He joins or gets close to him with some unfounded intentions. If he truly combines with the other person, he can imagine that all kinds of conflicts will inevitably appear in his life. Therefore, although he has been acting very dissolute,

The bottom line and principles on this matter have always been conservative and relatively firm.

And truly combining with Li Nan can save you these troubles. On the one hand, because the family backgrounds of both parties are similar, it can even be said that compared with Li Nan, Shang Yan is a pauper without many assets at all. Some pocket money or some pocket money obtained from the family before.

As for the profit sharing, almost all of it has been squandered by me. Most of the income sources still rely on gifts from my parents and my brothers and sisters.

Unlike Li Nan, because he has superb financial management skills, even without the help of his family, he can get good feedback from these fixed financial income every year with his current amount of funds, and he can fully take care of it.

own glamorous life.

Furthermore, Li Nan may have always had a special affection for Shang Yan because of his childhood experience, so he set a trap to make the union of two people as legitimate as possible. There is such an outstanding person.

Shang Yan is very lucky to have a partner who is both outstanding and devoted to him.

It can be said that if it were not for the appearance of the other party, in the eyes of Shang Yan's group of friends, he might have continued to repeat this dissolute life until he was old.

Gu Cheng has talked about this kind of thing before. When he gets married or gets old, he will reserve a special room as Shang Yan's retirement residence, because according to the other party's lifestyle, let alone future generations or retirement homes.

The thing is, maybe when you get older, you will definitely be alone, and you won't even be able to find anyone to help you. When your parents get older, they won't have more energy to worry about and worry about their children's personal life problems.

"There are no leaves with the same veins in this world, and there are no two people who are completely compatible. Since everyone grows up, they will reveal their own personality and turn themselves into stones with edges and corners. These edges and corners are their own

Personality and some special characteristics are not possessed by others, and the purpose of marriage and cohabitation is to bring two stones that are not so compatible together and polish them as much as possible, until the two people can be directly and perfectly connected.

, we can have the possibility of walking hand in hand and spending the rest of our lives together.”

Perhaps because he has been reading continuously during this period, and because he has read many works before, Gu Cheng will also add some of his own thoughts and experiences when speaking. Regarding the cognitive process of marriage, he has always felt that this is the concept.

There may not be a partner in this world who has never quarreled or been unhappy, and the great meaning of love is that when certain things happen, if the other person you are facing is your wife, you can have a heart that is willing to give in.

and a tolerant heart.

During the conflict between two people, if either party has the idea of ​​​​giving in, the reason for the argument may disappear in an instant, and the differences that may have seemed relatively large in the original eyes will become complete in this attitude.
Chapter completed!