1461. Suggestions and reflections
Of course, after understanding these types, Gu Cheng also asked the question that everyone was more concerned about.
"How can you guarantee what the personality of the people you make friends with will be like? As your growth and cognition differ, your original personality may also change slowly. Don't worry about these people you originally dated.
Do ordinary friends have some threats to you, or some not-so-good ideas? In addition, the other party has already gained your trust, and it is easy to do something to hurt you. How do you prevent this problem?
What about?"
After hearing the other party's inquiry, Jiang Ning's expression was still very calm. Moreover, this kind of birthday invitation is common in his life. The relationship between people has never been stable. Everyone's personality
It won't be as simple as it was at the beginning. The principle that people are inherently good at first is certainly very true, but as you come into contact with it more or see more scenery, you will bring about some thoughts and things.
Choices will create completely different lives and values.
"This thing is very simple. Those who can be accepted as our friends are based on our own analysis and detailed screening. If we feel that the other person's personality conflicts with ours, we will slowly alienate them, or they will be alienated by us.
Even if the relationship remains indifferent, the feelings between the two parties will slowly disappear as time goes by, and eventually they will become strangers. This method can naturally filter out those people whose relationship may not be so bad.
crowd.”
"Ask a friend who has been reviewed by Mingnian. Maybe his whole thinking has changed in the past few days. Your ability to judge such things depends entirely on your own regression analysis. Mingnian feels that that friend may not
Conflicts between some principles and the Eight Views will be quickly resolved in the same way as steel, which can very badly ensure one's own personal weakness."
"When you meet up with those friends, you will basically choose a busier street or an area that is unfamiliar to you. This will naturally prevent the other party from wandering off even if they don't have any good ideas. He will doubt your society.
With the stability of the country and the authority of law enforcement agencies, no one has the courage to easily embark on a path that may lead to bad consequences.”
"I'm sure your friend has really encountered it. Maybe he has temporarily overcome the difficulties in the past. If he asks you for help, you will treat it very seriously and with a suitable attitude. For example, if he wants to ask you for help, he will do what he can.
Will provide help to each other. It is a common behavior for friends to help each other. If you definitely want to borrow money, you must clearly write down the IOU. In this way, it will not only affect the relationship between you, but also make the other party
Nothing is a bad idea. Friends who have accepted that kind of behavior for many years will not have any impact on you if the other person leaves."
Before listening to Gu Cheng's words, Jiang Ning discovered that it might be the poor family education that made the other party lose his temper. If those things happened to him, there might be a less intuitive solution for him.
He has a relatively firm character. Precisely because of this, his social circle is relatively narrow. Even if he is suspicious of someone he has just met, he will give his friendship to others easily and will only accept it.
Retreat to yourself and the people you truly recognize.
"If you tell me, his personality is relatively narrow, and his temperament is relatively withdrawn. Although he seems to smile with everyone and is very approachable, I want to truly gain his acceptance and acceptance.
Recognition is a very long-term thing, so in the past, you still had to leave it to you to handle your child's education. If you let him train your child, he may develop a character exactly like him. That kind of moral character is not common in society.
It develops too smoothly, and he should pay attention to correcting it as much as possible. Parents are their children's worst teachers."
Maybe it was because they had just talked about that topic, Gu Cheng also revealed a topic that he had suppressed in his heart for a long time. His girlfriend was naturally very good in his eyes. He couldn't even say that he hated everything about her, but he didn't.
After all, the other person is also a perfect person, and there may even be no such person in that world.
I have always wanted to have a serious chat with my girlfriend about that issue, hoping to make the other person realize the problem, or hope that the other person can realize the shortcomings of his own character, regress and correct them.
Although that matter may be very embarrassing and difficult.
After all, I have traveled through time and space, I have seen a wider world than before, I have less experience, and my understanding and analysis of few things are better than Xiaojia's.
We know very little about each other, and it is very abnormal not to have that kind of mentality. It is indeed more appropriate to go through the other party's proposal. Jiang Ning is not too entangled in that issue. It is certain that the two of them have truly reached the palace of marriage.
, it is also a bad thing for the other party to interfere in the child's education. After all, I highly doubt Yuan Mei's eight views. Without such a person to learn from, the other party can also cultivate his own son to be very independent.
It will also make the other person take a relatively steady step towards perfection. After having children, it is common for one to maintain one's own personality and character, and there may even be people who don't care about that matter.
Meaning. If the two people meet in the same name and age, they will continue to be in contact. If the couple is sure to come together, the family will go their separate ways. This is not a very complicated matter at first, but before she has no children, Yuan Mei will consciously think about her own personality issues.
, what kind of connection does it have with the education of your own children? Will it have some bad influence on the other party?
Mingnian said that if anyone in that world could truly understand him, then he might be the only one. After all, there was no one better than himself who could understand his views and thoughts on very few things, but knowing that his character flaws were a problem
One aspect, whether it can be corrected is another aspect.
Before Jiang Ning listened to her boyfriend's analysis of her personality, she fell into a deep thought process. I knew the flaws in my personality. I may have been very kind, but I always closed myself in.
There is a big world outside, and even a wider world.
I am very embarrassed that my character is actually a very bad image and mentality in the society. I will consciously block the other person's life and become less beautiful, and it will also make the other person become ugly in very few things.
Gerry's stubbornness. He doesn't even have an inexplicable feeling of pride and arrogance. He doesn't have that arrogant feeling when dealing with all things and problems. It's just that he hides his badness on weekdays and is not more intuitive.
Just show it.
If Jiang Ning has truly corrected his character, the other person's development in society may be much narrower and smoother than it is now. But everyone does not have everyone's understanding and choice, even if the other person has no desire to change.
Chapter completed!