1460. One-sided cognition
After learning over the phone that his friend had no problems and that he was now much more motivated than before, Gu Cheng put aside his worries and could handle his current situation with peace of mind.
Before I made the call, I made all the worst plans. For example, the father and son of the other party had relatively large conflicts and differences, and even reached the stage of breaking out. If it really came to this moment, then I would definitely need to do it first.
I rushed home in a hurry, and I was even ready to start packing my luggage. But since this matter has become peaceful, I don't have to use the preparations I made before. This is something I am happy to see.
situation.
Now that Zhou's matter has come to an end, he naturally needs to get in shape and continue to work hard on his current affairs. The main reason for coming to this city is to get the permission of the other party's parents so that the relationship between himself and his family can tend to a peaceful and stable state.
, the current progress is quite impressive. At least the other party's mother regards him as his own son, and he has also been highly praised by the other party's grandparents. During this period, he almost feels like a lucky person.
Things are the same. Some close friends or relatives often come over to the house. The main purpose is not only to see the excellence of oneself with one's own eyes, but also to catch up with Jiang Ning.
As an urban woman who rarely goes home, Jiang Ning's daily contact with relatives is not as cumbersome as she imagined. Even in her daily life, she often communicates by phone throughout the year. Young people are too disgusted by that kind of excessive communication.
They maintain family ties and friendships through tedious contacts, and a small number of people hope to get closer to each other through the resolution of things.
It is precisely for that reason that it was almost a very surprising situation to see Jiang Ning come home at that time. Relatives and friends from far away also heard similar news, and they also hoped to maintain the same attitude by visiting to greet each other.
Family affection and friendship between small families.
Speaking of Jiang Ning and Gu Cheng, their friends and social circles are completely the same. Although Jiang Ning is a seventh-generation rich person, and even the legendary Bai Fumei, his circle of friends is not the same.
It's because the people around me are of lower class and family background, but there are fewer special people living there.
As soon as it was over, Gu Cheng didn't expect that kind of situation. Before seeing the detailed reality, he felt very surprised. He even asked about the specific reason when the two of them were alone. Regarding that situation
Speaking of which, Xie Hao felt that it was very abnormal, and even felt that there was nothing worth wondering about. Does anyone stipulate that the family you are born in should lead to the kind of people you should associate with? I have always been very disdainful of that concept.
In interactions between people, more emphasis should be placed on moral character and character compatibility, and whether there is no money or money with the other person, or whether the other person was able to help him in his previous life, and whether there is any contact or interference.
I even feel that the niche and special people there don’t have too few misunderstandings about our class. People of our class basically have parents who pay more attention to education and the cultivation of daily quality and character. There are arrogant and unruly characters in these movies and TV dramas.
The tame rich seventh-generation group basically only appears when families suddenly become rich. Compared with those of us who have been raised up, they are two completely different entities.
You must know that people who can develop from this poor era of calm competition to the present and have very good achievements at the same time basically have very simple experiences and people they deal with. We have seen these people who are not very talented but
I have received examples of reuse, and I have also seen groups that have little ability and rely entirely on luck to get to where they are now. It is precisely because of this that no one understands the importance of lakes in the cultivation of children better than us. We want to give birth to children.
Passing our small empire to the other party's hands, we continue to operate and maintain the glory of the family. Raising our children in this way has become the most important thing to us, and it is also an oversight that no one will take lightly.
I have never been in contact with people of the same class. Xiaojia has always shown understanding and daily reception of social matters, and done them very appropriately. He even loses his temper easily and reveals himself easily.
The idea of being able to accept the existence of begging on the roadside, and being able to laugh and make noise in the club where students live, so my stereotype of that group is basically guided by these movies and TV dramas or some wildly speculative descriptions.
This resulted in correspondingly accurate judgments and one-sided cognitions.
Take Jiang Ning as an example. The schools I have been attending since the end of college have basically been special schools. Although I may have taken some elite courses before going home, there is nothing too different in my daily life from the classmates I was born with.
Few differences.
In Jiang Ning's words, the value of an item may be 10 yuan, and you will only spend 10 yuan on that thing. Once the amount increases to 11 yuan, you will be absolutely determined.
I agree with the existence of that item. I know that the item itself is only worth 10 yuan, but I still want to use 100 or 1,000 to show my strength. This is called having no money and it is called squandering. It is a completely fool-like behavior.
After listening to what the other party shared with him, Gu Cheng didn't feel anything new. He seemed to feel that his eight views had been washed away again. It turned out that his cognition had always been affected by the inner influence, so for us
The imagination of that group is still relatively one-sided. I originally thought that the existence of Shangyan was just an example, but I thought that this way of raising children is the norm for families with no background. They will also deliberately choose styles with relatively large logos when wearing clothes.
, as much as possible, it will cultivate children's arrogance and overbearing cognition. The classmates Xiaoshao who play badly in daily life are also the children of special families. The industry that no one is engaged in now may be the smallest one.
No one is a bus driver or a taxi driver, and no one can work as a cashier in a cheap supermarket. We do the most special things in the most boring jobs, although we may earn a lot of money.
Our wealth is only a dime, and without it, the other person can accumulate more money in a whole year, which is even more than what we spend on a meal, but it doesn't stop our deep love at all.
At least through that kind of special training, Jiang Ning's character has always been very kind, and in daily life, just like a human being, he will also show his kindness when he encounters some things that he can't do. We can't ignore it.
I have no scruples about sitting under a roadside stall and eating the most special food, and I can't go in and out of these simple restaurants with my elders outside the family. I have a relatively rational concept of wealth and will spend it according to my own plan.
money.
Chapter completed!