1283. Anticipation and planning of marriage
When you are prepared in this regard, you really need to solve this matter by yourself. You can't keep delaying without giving an answer. If you continue to be in this state, although you are psychologically more comfortable, but for the two
Personally speaking, this is not a relatively good news or situation.
In terms of relationships, Jiang Ning is indeed devoted to herself wholeheartedly. Not only does she take on the role of girlfriend and partner well, but she also sees her care for her daughter. If the other party is deliberately pretending,
, but after such a long period of observation, I have never seen the other party show any impatience towards the child. Sometimes, he even does a better job than his own father.
Just these exposed details make me feel very gratified and satisfied. I may not be able to find one anywhere, so suitable for my aesthetics, consistent with my three views, personality and hobbies, and at the same time, I can understand my own incomparably.
partner. In addition, as a single dad, I mainly consider the other person's attitude towards my daughter when choosing a partner. Jiang Ning's existence allows me to perfectly express any fantasies I have about my partner.
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At the same time, the two people already have a relatively basic tacit understanding on many issues. For example, the two people may step into the palace of marriage one day. This is an outcome that the two people firmly believe in.
But regarding the issue of having children next, neither of them was so urgent. When the other party revealed his thoughts in this regard, it was the main reason that prompted Gu Chengzhen to make the decision.
Although it may feel a little unfair, if you consider the problem from your own perspective, you definitely need a strategy in this regard for your marriage. For example, after you get married, the issue of how to deal with your daughter may become
I have made the guarantee that I need to make. I can have other children, of course, under the premise of having children. This is to ensure that my love for my daughter will not be lacking in any way, and at the same time, I can handle this aspect well and perfectly.
The question is when you can truly accept the arrival of your child.
For Gu Cheng, the existence of his daughter made him feel his fatherhood for the first time. During this period of time, he treated the other person as a relative who he could rely on, and it was the continuation of his own bloodline.
, it is also an important opportunity for me to accept the world and change myself. Maybe I will have children in the future, but I believe that the status of any child in my heart will never exceed my feelings for my daughter. If I have children in the future
If your partner cannot accept this aspect, you may reject the other party's proposal and continue to maintain your original life. No matter what, you will use your own body to guide your daughter in all possible crises.
Try to provide the other person with a life free from any worries and worries.
As for this issue, although he did not directly ask the other party's opinion, more or less, through daily chats, there were some guesses and tacit understandings. For Jiang Ning, it seemed that he was not ready for life yet.
Preparing for children, I also heard that giving birth may be accompanied by a lot of pain and worries about body shape. Overall, I still have some panic about the possibility of giving birth.
The most important thing is that when it comes time to get married, my mentality is still not fully prepared and changed. Therefore, I don’t have many ideas and thoughts about whether the two of them will put the matter of having children on the agenda after they get married.
Think about it, you must know that the best childbearing age for a woman is between 25 and 34 years old. I am just on the threshold of 25 years old. It is really not that urgent to have a child of my own.
And the existence of Xiao Youyou also happens to be very fond and affectionate for me. I can also feel the excitement and intimacy of being a mother from the other person. This child will not let me bear the pain of childbirth and the body shape.
No matter what happens in the future, at least I have no similar considerations now, nor am I ready to make changes accordingly. Therefore, I can fully accept Gu Cheng's concerns and wait for the other party to deal with them.
When these things happen, consider this issue again.
In Jiang Ning's view, as long as her relationship with the other party maintains its current state, these issues themselves are not that important. Her parents may have similar ideas, but she can bear the pressure that may arise.
, and at the same time, I am also willing to make concessions and contributions in this regard in my emotional state.
When both of them have made corresponding preparations, and they are just in the golden age of childbearing, Xiao Youyou may have already gone to school, and the appearance of a child will be acceptable to the two of them.
, and at the same time, I was able to live in a well-balanced relationship emotionally. The timing was not too late at that time, and it was just enough to relieve my boyfriend's worries and heart.
In fact, Gu Cheng has never stopped fantasizing about children. Perhaps because he was born an orphan, he yearns for the prosperous state of having many children and grandchildren. The less he feels about family, the more he hopes for himself.
I hope I can have more descendants so that I can never go back to the feelings I had when I was a child.
But the premise of all this must be established in a place where his daughter's living conditions are not disturbed. He also has a relatively complete idea about the distribution of wealth for future generations. If nothing unexpected happens, his investment in literature and real estate will definitely be
It belongs to his daughter, but he is still young and has a lot of time to control and manage other things. When other things achieve corresponding results, he can allocate them to himself and other descendants to inherit.
At the same time, Jiang Ning's own wealth and assets are relatively large. He and the other party's children can inherit these things, but his daughter seems to be the only one he can rely on, so he naturally needs to think more about the other party.
Since the two of them have always had a tacit attitude on this issue, some other worries can naturally be temporarily forgotten and put aside. Gu Cheng is also ready to pick a more suitable time as soon as possible.
Chapter completed!