When life has reached a level of stability, Gu Cheng's daily life has also returned to normal. He spends time with his daughter every morning, plays briefly for a while, and then eats lunch at home.

I will accompany my daughter to enter the state of lunch break together, and then simply take some time to read a book before my daughter wakes up. The baby who has been fully rested in the afternoon will be in a very stable state emotionally, and

It's suitable for you to do something you like, such as dealing with some things that the company needs to give your opinion on, while drinking tea and soaking in the sun, and simply supplementing your study time.

After reading the book and before dinner, I will spend some time with friends I haven’t seen for a long time, simply get to know each other through phone calls and the Internet, and enhance each other’s feelings. At the same time, I will also set aside a few fixed times every week to talk to each other.

In a few days, you can get together with your friends. No matter what kind of relationship you are in, if you don’t work on it deliberately for a long time, you will inevitably have some risks of deterioration.

Generally speaking, life tends to have an overall comfortable atmosphere, and before going to bed every night, Gu Cheng will deliberately take time to have a simple exchange with his girlfriend, understand each other's troubles in life, and listen to each other's work problems.

pressure, and at the same time give some of your own opinions and guidance, and share with the other person what you have learned throughout the day. At the same time, you will also do things to enhance the relationship between the two. Their living conditions are as harmonious as water.

Feel.

When the living conditions return to this moment, for Gu Cheng, there is an issue that needs to be dealt with urgently, and it has reached the point where there is no need to delay. The lives and trajectories of his and Jiang Ning have extremely overlapped, and they get along at the same time.

It has been in such a long-term state for a long time, and the other person's family also understands his existence 10%, so take a suitable time to go back with the other person, meet his parents, and thoroughly characterize the relationship between the two people.

, it becomes an action that one needs to take.

If two people get along with each other for such a long time, they will have a relatively comprehensive understanding of each other's hobbies, personalities and preferences. At the same time, they will also accept some imperfections in each other's life and feel that they can tolerate the other's imperfections.

Perfect existence, then at this time, you need to have the idea of ​​​​pursuing the victory, defining the relationship between two people as soon as possible, and at the same time, using a more comfortable mentality to meet the future life state.

At the same time, as a male character, Gu Cheng feels that he has always been in a passive state in this relationship. For example, when two people are dating, it seems that the other party first proposed the idea. Although he also had unilateral considerations, but for the first time

It was the other party who made the change, which has always been something that I feel a little regretful about.

His personality itself is that of a happy-go-lucky person, and he passively greets many changes in life. However, when it comes to relationships, he still hopes that he can be more proactive and control the steps of pursuing happiness by himself.

Rather than all of it being paid by your partner.

Compared with other couples and couples, it seems that whenever the two of them take a step, Jiang Ning caters to her immediately, instead of Gu Cheng taking the initiative to make changes. He has always been very clear about these things.

Yes, although this state is slowly progressing in my own half-thoughts, it is generally not in line with the conventional process.

Taking into account his feelings for his girlfriend and his recognition of her, as well as the relationship between the two of them and the fact that he is not very good at expressing his love, Gu Cheng feels that he should be more proactive in this regard and let the other party feel that he is

The thoughts and feelings make the other party more confident in the relationship between the two people, and also give the other party an arm to rely on and a safer mentality.

To put it simply, now, the relationship between two people can be properly considered for the next step. I have never thought about what would happen if I lost the other person in my life, and the other person does not seem to have such considerations.

Deep down in their hearts, two people have recognized each other as partners who can spend the rest of their lives together. At this time, it is also a very smooth problem to change the identity of the two in a timely manner.

At the same time, if you consider it from the perspective of the other party, it is indeed time to give the other party an answer and a stable mentality. At the same time, you should also give the other parent an explanation so that the other parent can stop worrying about their daughter's emotional state.

This is the guarantee and answer that a man must make in this relationship, and it is also something that he must give.

Although Jiang Ning has never deliberately mentioned this matter, he cannot wait until something is imminent or is already approaching before he considers it. He should also show his positive side and let the other party's family and

The other party received corresponding feedback for his efforts.

The main reason why Gu Cheng has not taken the initiative to consider this aspect all the time is because he is not really mentally prepared to meet these changes. At the same time, he is also quite uneasy about the future. After all, he already has a daughter.

He is a father, but he has not made any plans for meeting his parents-in-law.

After all, I have never experienced anything like this before, and suddenly I need to take the initiative to welcome the emergence of these things. I do have some worries about gains and losses, such as whether the other person's parents will recognize me, and whether the other person's parents will recognize me.

Will you be picky about yourself and your status as a single dad? Will your partner's parents be picky about your family environment, your previous experience and your status as an orphan? Will they be disdainful of your own abilities and that your status has not reached the corresponding level?

These are issues that are easier for me to consider. If you want to have some confidence and sufficient psychology in this regard, you still need to have some preparation and self-adjustment process. And now I seem to have gone through some things.

After practicing, it will be easier to make predictions in the right direction.

For example, although I am a single dad, I can guarantee that I will put all my love for my partner on Jiang Ning, and I am not one of those flirtatious characters. I am sincere and dedicated.

On the one hand, it is quite trustworthy. At the same time, although my family environment and personal identity cannot provide me with much help, it has also honed my character and allowed me to deal with many things in a way that is not afraid of setbacks.

To face it, I am more tenacious, and in terms of status, I have achieved some successes. Although it is not comparable to what the other party's parents expected, it can still ensure that I and my family can live in a state of poverty.
Chapter completed!