Ye Yuran: "What makes you think others can do something that you can't do yourself? What if your eighth sister is as unlucky as me and meets a worthless man? How could you still count on it?"

Is your eighth sister going to be a beggar, begging for food?"

"It's not like..."

Ye Yuran glared at him: "That's not true, but isn't that a metaphor? Rather than wait until it really happens and then regret it, I might as well raise your eighth sister as a boy from the beginning and let her learn more skills.

.In the future, when I am gone and you are no longer reliable, wouldn’t it be better if she can still fend for herself and live a prosperous life by herself?”

"...Mother, you are right." Apart from this, what else can Zhu San say?

"Since what I said is right, you should keep it in mind. When you have a daughter in the future, you will also raise her like me. Don't raise a girl like a waste, expecting others to treat her well and live a good life.

, that’s not called husband and wife’s love, that’s called silk flowers.”

…

Zhu San didn't expect that he was just suspicious and ended up being severely scolded by his mother.

Not only was she criticized, but she also had to cooperate with her mother to raise Zhu Bamei here.

well……

A good daughter must be raised as a son.

However, he couldn't say that his mother was wrong, because rationally, he also knew that what his mother said was right.

Xu Yujin saw him coming back, soaking his feet and still sighing, with a puzzled look on his face: "What's wrong with you? Didn't you say that going to the county magistrate went smoothly? Why are you still sighing?"

"It has nothing to do with that."

"What's that? Tell me, and I'll listen. One person is trying to figure out the shortcomings, and two people are looking at the shortcomings. Maybe we can find a way to solve it."

Zhu San looked at her and said: "This matter... there is no way to solve it."

Xu Yujin has a question mark face.

Seeing that she really wanted to know, Zhu San didn't hide it. After wiping her feet, he asked the servant in the room to go down and said to her: "If we have a daughter, how are you going to raise her?"

Xu Yujin blushed a little. She didn't know why he brought up this topic when he said it well.

She said: "How else can I raise her? Of course I have to raise her well... Why, do you dislike your daughter? That's not okay. Whether it's a son or a daughter, they are all our children. You can't favor sons over daughters."

"I don't favor boys over girls. Our family has more boys than girls. If you really give birth to a daughter, maybe my mother will be happy." Zhu San held her hand and said, "What's going on in other people's families?"

I don’t know, but in our family, my mother is a ‘female’ person.”

Xu Yujin was surprised.

"Don't believe it, even among our brothers, none of us has the favored eighth sister. Growing up, everything good in the family belongs to the eighth sister. At first, the family conditions were not good, and the eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law were married in.

When the time comes, I have to prepare foot-washing water and wash clothes for my eighth sister..."

Xu Yujin: "..."

No, Bamei doesn’t look like that kind of person?

"Ahem! It's true. But later on, when the family's conditions improved and there were servants, it would be embarrassing to talk about this kind of thing, so no one spread it."

No, it's not that people didn't spread the word, but that Zhu Bamei changed her mind later and her relationship with her sisters-in-law improved, so this matter disappeared.

If you ask the elders in the village about what happened earlier, you might be able to find out.

"It's really hard to spread this kind of thing to the outside world. The girl is thin-skinned. If this is going to spread, the eighth sister will have no shame to see others." Xu Yujin looked at him suspiciously, "It's been so long, you still remember it.

, isn’t it because you are jealous of Eighth Sister?”

She found it a little funny. She didn't expect that her man, who looked mature and steady, would be jealous of a little girl like this?

Hehehehe...

She didn't think anything bad about it. After all, she had seen what kind of person Zhu Bamei was after she got married.

She thought that the eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law would prepare Zhu Bamei's feet and wash her clothes because they loved their only sister-in-law.

Seeing that she had misunderstood, Zhu San did not defend himself: "Why am I jealous of her? But at that time, several brothers in the family did not like the eighth sister. I am not telling you this because of this. Do you still remember?

My question to you is, if we have a daughter, how are you going to raise her?"

"Didn't I say, be nice to her?"

"Why do you treat her? Pamper her? Let her learn things since she was a child, raise her as a boy, and let her learn her skills..."

Before he could finish speaking, Xu Yujin laughed: "Oh, what are you talking about? A little girl, you raise her as a boy, and you are not afraid of being laughed at. Since she is a daughter, she should naturally be pampered, like the eighth sister.

, give her the best in everything, make new clothes, make hair flowers, and give her..."

Barabara, the toy room that Ye Yuran built for Zhu Bamei, the new clothes he made, and the things that several sister-in-laws stuffed to Zhu Bamei if they had any good things, were all picked out by Xu Yujin.

She also hopes that she and Zhu San's daughter will be treated like that in the future.

Zhu San looked at her with a strange expression: "You just... saw this?"

His mother forced Zhu Bamei to learn things, and she was like a cow. She asked her to do business, and to take care of Zhu's elementary school. She even threw out the matter of dealing with County Magistrate Dai...

Didn't Xu Yujin find anything strange?

Could it be that his wife is also a fool?

Isn’t it that Xu Yujin is stupid? There is a word called “one leaf blinds the eyes”.

Since she was a child, Xu Yujin has learned a lot, such as reading and writing, working as a female celebrity, being a housekeeper, taking care of a store, and taking care of her future husband...

She is a daughter-in-law who has just entered the house and hasn't stayed in Zhujia Village very much. I really don't know what Zhu Bamei does all day long.

What's more, what Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei learned are quite normal.

When they manage Zhu's Elementary School, they are still under the banner of helping Ye Yuran. Even Zhu Bamei herself doesn't know about her affairs, so how can Xu Yujin know?

Zhu San said: "Ahem... Don't you think that Bamei has a little too much involvement? She is a teenage girl who hasn't even gotten engaged yet, and she does this and that all day long, and she's still being raped.

My mother sent me to deal with the county magistrate... Which girl is so young that she can represent a family to communicate and negotiate with people?"

Xu Yujin: "...so?"

Zhu San gave her a look of understanding.

Xu Yujin: She seems to understand, but...

"Do you think it's not good for the Eighth Sister to 'show her face'?" Xu Yujin had a strange expression, "But since I married into the Zhu family, the women of the Zhu family...haven't they always been like this?"

She thought this was the Zhu family's tradition.

As soon as I got married, I discovered that all the money in the Zhu family was in the hands of the women in the family. The mother-in-law was in charge of the house, the daughter-in-law was in charge, and the girls were in charge, but there was no man.

If it weren't for Zhu San and Zhu Qi studying outside, and the fields at home being farmed by men from the Zhu family, Xu Yujin would have almost thought that the men from the Zhu family were "eating soft rice."

Another look at Zhujiacun...

Xu Yujin decided that she would just do as the Romans do, perhaps because she was so rare.
Chapter completed!