Chapter 1262 The honor and disgrace rest with you
Zhu San: "...unhappy?"
I was shocked. Did Xu Yujin feel unhappy when he didn't notice it?!
"happy!"
Ye Yuran said it very surely, and Zhu San breathed a sigh of relief.
However, the next second, he heard his mother say, "It's true that she is happy, but there is a prerequisite for her happiness, that is, the husband and wife have a harmonious relationship and the in-laws don't make things difficult for her."
She asked Zhu San, if one day he didn't want to be kind to Xu Yujin, or if Xu Yujin, who was a mother-in-law, was disliked and kept asking Xu Yujin for trouble, would Xu Yujin be happy?
Zhu San: “…”
I didn't understand what his mother was saying at all. How could he be bad to Xu Yujin?
In addition to his love for her, he married her, and because of her family background, the two combined together made this marriage.
If her family background is a little bit short and she is still a drag, it may not be necessary, because there are more things beyond feelings.
To put it bluntly, his feelings for her are not enough to make him take such a big risk.
"Before she gets married, her life is decided by her parents; after she gets married, whether she is happy, happy, or even her life is lingered on you."
"You are my son. I know you. With your character, even if one day you no longer love her, you will respect her and be a good responsibility for being a husband and a father."
"But how can you guarantee that your future sister-in-law will treat your eighth sister like you?"
Zhu San wanted to open his mouth and said that he would find a way to stand tall enough in the future and not give anyone the chance to bully his eighth sister.
However, without waiting for him to speak, Ye Yuran continued, "I know you want to say that you are the third brother of the eighth sister. You will definitely stand on your eighth sister's side and will not let others bully him. But..."
"But as her mother, I want to give her more protection."
The expression on Ye Yuran's face became more serious and firm, "Besides you, her other brothers, and the Zhu family, I want the eighth sister to hold her own destiny. Even if one day, her husband treats her badly, even if one day, you are busy with your own small family and have no time to take care of her, she can still bear the pain of cutting her flesh, scraping her bones to heal her wounds, start over, and choose the life she wants..."
"She lives in this world not because of who she is, nor because of who she is, but because she is Zhu Shujing."
"As long as the words 'Zhu Shujing' are mentioned, she is an indestructible mountain and no one can defeat her."
...
Zhu Sanyi looked shocked.
He never expected that the life her mother planned for Zhu Bamei would be like that?!
"But... Ba Mei is a girl, mom. If you want Ba Mei to be such a person, do you know how much she has to pay?"
"She can obviously live a more relaxed life, just like the third and fourth sisters, she was loved by others when she was at home, and was favored by her husband after getting married..."
"What's wrong with this kind of life?"
Zhu San is also a person who likes to be long-term rules. Otherwise, when Xu Yujin was thinking about marrying Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei to Pushou City, he would not have accused of this matter.
He tacitly agreed that he knew that Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei would succeed in entering Pushou City, which would be a good thing for the Zhu family and would be a great help for him.
It was only at this time that he realized that the reason why his mother was so generous to let Lin Sanmei, Lin Simei, and even the three girls from the Lu family stay in the Zhu family was probably planning this matter...
He expressed his admiration in his heart, thinking that his foresight was the object of his study.
Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei can marry so well. Zhu San believes that in the near future, as the Zhu family rises, Zhu Bamei can marry better.
However, now, Ye Yuran told him that Zhu Bamei had another kind of life.
Ye Yuran: "What's the good thing about mailing your life's honor and disgrace to others? If it's so good, I should accept my fate when your father can't support his family. You can't become like this..."
Ye Yuran directly exposed this cruel fact. She used her fate to tell Zhu San that if she really sent her life's honor and disgrace to others and hid behind Old Man Zhu for the rest of her life, the brothers would have starved to death long ago.
At the risk of being disobedient and being scolded as a "old pious woman" and she also wanted to support them as a woman. Why is she going to make a fortune for them?
Isn't it just to make them live a better life?
She planned and made far-sighted, and she did many things that women dare not do.
He dares to say that all the things she did were wrong?
Zhu Sandun was there and could not refute.
Because he knew that his mother was right. If it weren't for his mother's advance, reforming new farming methods, and under tremendous pressure, sending Zhu Qi to study, and choosing the family's labor force, that is, he would accompany him to study, then...
Then, it is impossible for the Zhu family to be present.
Now when people in the village mention their family, who doesn’t say that Old Man Zhu is lucky and married a good wife?
If Old Man Zhu hadn't married his mother, how could the Zhu family be today?
"I once sent a lot of honor and disgrace to others, so when my family sold me to a wealthy family as a maid, I didn't complain. I worked hard and wanted to gain wealth."
"I'm even shameless, I dare to climb the young master's bed."
In order to make her words look real, Ye Yuran shamelessly revealed her shortcomings. She said expressionlessly, "But so what if you crawl? I thought I could let the young master's child crawl out of my belly, change the fate of my child, and make him the best..."
"How can it be turned out?"
"As soon as the new lady entered the door, I was kicked out."
"I married your father, and I will send all my honor and disgrace to him, and hope that he will work hard, support the whole family, and find a future for you."
"How can it be turned out?"
"I had a meal but no meal. How were you all hungry? Even Lao Liu was so angry that I was kicked out of the house..."
"I was forced into that way. Does anyone say I'm okay?"
"No!"
"No one said I was well, I even became an 'old pious wife' who was disgusted by everyone and was scolded."
"Do you really think I'm willing to carry such a bad reputation on my back? Wasn't I forced myself? At that time, your father could look up. He raised his head, but our family was crushed to death. Who wouldn't dislike anyone who saw our family?"
"I really had no choice but to bite the bullet and go on my own."
...
"Then look at it now, when I hold all my family's livelihood in my hands and let everyone obey the orders of an old woman," Ye Yuran stared at him tightly and asked, "What has the Zhu family become?"
Zhu San couldn't help but take a step back, feeling that he was back when he couldn't read a word, and the whole family was forced to learn to recognize words by his mother.
Ye Yuran: "At this time, do you still want to tell me, let your eighth sister go through the old path I have passed and suffer again?"
"Mom, the situation is different now..."
"What's different? Do you guarantee that the person your eighth sister will marry will be nice to her for the rest of her life? Can he never take a concubine, stay in the room, keep himself clean, and make your eighth sister happy and coax your eighth sister for the rest of his life?" Ye Yuran said, "It's you, can you guarantee that you can coax Xu Yujin happily for the rest of his life?"
Zhu San: “…”
Want to cry.
He's so fierce.
Chapter completed!