Yu Xuan's mother said: "Your arrival is not just as simple as relief."

Fan Yanxuan said: "I know, you are a mother, I think I am glorious, very great."

Yu Xuan's mother said: "It doesn't matter what glorious is not glorious, great or not, I was a feeling of intoxication at the time."

"Drunk?" Fan Yanxuan puzzled.

Wu Xuan's mother said: "When I was doing a B -ultrasound, I clearly saw your existence. Later, as you grew up day by day, I was meditating every day. Are your arms and legs that have grown up?

Is it that your nails have grown? Your face shape, your nose, your eyes are like your father or me? This expectation, this feeling of joy is intoxicated. "

Fan Yanxuan said: "Your career is so strong, having children, bringing children, not bothering or not affecting your career?"

Yu Xuan's mother said: "In terms of career, I did not take the case at that time. The main energy was used on you. It was annoying and tired. But when I saw your clear eyes, one

When I hear your tender child's voice, I feel that hard work is actually a kind of happiness. It is the mother's unique happiness. Now when I think about it, my mother thinks that the most annoying and tired time is often the most meaningful time in life.

It is the most memorable. I can still clearly remember what you looked like when you first learned to walk, how you learned to teeth, you are crying and throbbing, they are like a permanent treasure in my mind in my mind

The picture is so wonderful, it is really wonderful. "At this time, the mother's face was full of happiness and intoxication.

Fan Yanxuan's heart is mixed, and it can be seen that every change in her growth will make her mother feel particularly happy. The mother let her experience the most sufficient motherly love, but she seems to be a "mother love".

The person who is insulating, even a person without maternal nature. The mother had her because she wanted her child. But she did not have the impulse of the child.

Without the feeling of love, how can such a mentality require a child? When the mother bred herself, it was full of expectations and very happy. The birth of her own is natural, and it is surrounded by strong love surrounded by love.

Yes, there is no mother's mentality of the year, which is unfair to the child. She told her mind to her mother and firmly said that the child cannot.

Wu Xuan's mother asked: "What is Jiajun's attitude?"

Fan Yanxuan said: "He wants children very much, but he also respects my attitude, and has not forced me to ask me to have children."

Yu Xuan's mother said: "It can be seen that Jiajun really loves you very much. You should cherish his love for you and give him a chance to be a father."

Fan Yanxuan said: "But, I ..."

Mother Xuan Xuan interrupted her: "Mother love is a kind of instinct for women, the most primitive, most natural instinct, and it is difficult to surpass."

Fan Yanxuan said: "Similar words, my mother -in -law told me. I always thought you were not a type of person. Now it seems that you are not much different."

Yu Xuan's mother said, "I and she are both mothers, and I have the common feeling of being a mother. Wu Xuan, I understand your current thoughts, you think the two people will make you and Jia Jun's feelings forever, but this will

It is unrealistic. Like any other things, feelings have their own development laws, passionate periods, and dull periods. No one can love it like a day of love. When your feelings are strong, you are strong.

, To have children, it is icing on the cake; when the relationship is bland, the child can fill the gully, which can help you resist the wind and rain. "

Fan Yunxuan said: "Is it fair to the child to treat the child as a wall to resist the wind and rain from the outside world? If the relationship between two people cannot withstand the test and needs children to withstand the wind and rain, then it is better to get together and break up!"

Yunxuan's mother said: "The ups and downs in the outside world are not only about relationships, but also about career. Whether it is your clothing company or Jiajun's machinery and equipment company, they are all facing fierce market competition. Due to unsatisfactory work,

Negative emotions such as anxiety, loss, and anger have become the norm for modern people. Without children, couples can only place their comfort on each other. However, in your heart

When the relationship is bad, your partner may also be under work pressure and may need your comfort. If this happens, not only will you not be able to get comfort from each other, but you may get a misunderstanding.

, may cause dissatisfaction and disputes. It is different for families with children. The children's clear eyes and simple thoughts will calm your irritable heart."

Fan Yunxuan said: "There may be another possibility. Parents will vent their grievances accumulated at work on their children, and the children may become innocent victims."

Yunxuan's mother said: "Once a woman becomes a mother, she will become a brand new self. While caring for the growth of her children, she is actually growing too. The hard work of raising children will test a woman's patience and make her become a new person.

Be more peaceful, more tolerant, and more responsible. When children grow up, they will encounter various stumbling blocks, diseases and even sufferings. Mother

You must be strong enough to deal with all this. Children will make women stronger. When they encounter difficult problems in work and life, they will often solve them more peacefully and wisely. For a responsible father, children

It will have the same effect. Children will make parents mentally healthier and stronger willed. This is my experience."

Her mother did not force Fan Yunxuan to have a child like her mother-in-law did, but her words revealed her wish for her to have a child. After coming out of her mother's house, Fan Yunxuan did not go home directly, but went to a coffee outside the community.

Sitting alone in the library, she

Her mood is very confused, and she wants to be quiet. Society is progressing, but this is still not a society that allows women to freely choose their lifestyle. She can imagine that if she aborts the child, her mother-in-law will accuse her hoarsely.

She said: "That is a life, a life connected by your blood! Why are you so cruel! Tiger poison does not eat its seeds, how can you be so snake-hearted?!" She could also imagine Guo Jiajun's painful expression.

Their marriage might be unsustainable. Could it be that their marriage would really collapse because of their children? Can their marriage really be so fragile? She called Guo Jiajun. She wanted to see Guo Jiajun's attitude. Did he really love her?

Can the earth withstand the shock of losing a child?

As soon as Guo Jiajun received her call, he rushed over and sat in front of Fan Yunxuan.

Fan Yunxuan said: "I realize more and more clearly that the child is not my own, but the two of us."

Guo Jiajun said: "The child is not just for the two of us, but also for my father and my mother. We are both only children, and the three old people above us will also focus on the child."

Fan Yanxuan said: "But I don't want this child. I hope to get your support."

Her words were like a head. Guo Jiajun originally thought that when Xuan Xuan returned to her mother's house, the mother -in -law would convince her to give birth to the child. However, she still didn't want her child. Guo Jiajun drank a coffee and fixed it.

There are children and no children, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no difference in or wrong. You do n’t want to have birth, fear of pain, and fear of trouble. This is not the most important reason. You are afraid that you will lose yourself when you have children.

The machine, you can't accept a woman's inequality for men. "

Fan Yanxuan said: "Do you also know that this is a kind of inequality?"

Guo Jiajun said: "I'm talking about the thoughts in your heart. But your thoughts are actually biased, and you have given yourself a symbol. I never think that a woman is a maternity tool, and I never think you are in

For me, we have children for our Guo family. Our children came to this world because of our love. If you regard the victory of not having children as feminism and the success of resistance to patriarchal society, this is too superficial.

, Too naive, too righteous. Women have nothing to do with the behavior of giving birth to no children, but only related to the mentality. Inside the heart, with children, they will not lose themselves. "

Fan Yanxuan took a sip of coffee, looked at Guo Jiajun, and said, "Jiajun, I'm very pleased, you didn't say the tacky words such as‘ three generations of single biography ’,‘ broken incense ’...”

Guo Jiajun said: "My mother hopes that the grandson is looking forward to the demon, she has no choice but to say, don't care about her."

Fan Yanxuan said: "Can I understand her mood, old people, thinking a little old, understandable. But, you said that I am superficial, naive, overkill, I can’t agree with it."

Guo Jiajun said: "I don't say you are superficial, naive, I am talking about your thoughts."

Fan Yanxuan said: "My thoughts are not as superficial as you think. My consciousness of pursuing fairness and justice is deeply penetrated into the bone marrow. That's right, but I don't want to have a child to penetrate the bone marrow, forcibly deprive me of this.

The will really makes me feel very painful. Just like some women, she wants children very much, but some people have to force her not to have children, she will definitely be very uncomfortable. Can you understand this? "

Guo Jiajun's face showed a desperate look. After a moment of loss, he calmed down. For how to make Fan Yixuan as Fan, Guo Jiajun had considered several plans: plan one, forcibly coercion. This trick has no knowledge or no knowledge.

Women of culture may be used, obviously not working to Fan Yixuan; Plan 2, Chen Ling and disadvantages, as a daughter of a professor of sociology and a well -known lawyer, Fan Yanxuan is not so convinced, and the facts also prove this.

He really failed to persuade her. So, he can only implement the last plan. This is the most risky solution, but perhaps, only this step -by -step chess can save the crisis.

He just wanted to say that he didn't want to say, "For me, there are two options, which are born or not born; for you, there are two options, either continue or break up. My option is
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