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Chapter 87 Child, should you come (6)

Guo Jiajun, who was standing behind Fan Yunxuan, also opened his eyes in surprise.

When the doctor who performed the B-ultrasound applied ultrasound coupling agent to Fan Yunxuan's belly, Fan Yunxuan prayed silently: "Don't get pregnant!" But God ignored her prayer. The doctor told her that she was now forty.

After a few days, you can take folic acid supplements.

Guo Jiajun looked at the B-ultrasound report, feeling excited and surprised, but he endured it and did not show anything. He was observing Fan Yunxuan's reaction. Fan Yunxuan was dumb at first. The news was too sudden, and she was a little confused, but

He soon woke up and said to Guo Jiajun: "Let's go to a gynecological clinic and have the fetus aborted."

Jun was shocked at first, but when he saw the clock hanging in the hall, he smiled, then looked at the few people in the hall, and said: "Okay, more than forty days, it's easy to fight. I'll accompany you."

You go." When they came to the registration room, it was already empty and it was already past the off-duty time. Fan Yunxuan had no choice but to leave.

Guo Jiajun drove Fan Yunxuan home. On the way, Fan Yunxuan asked if Guo Jiajun had done anything to make her pregnant? Guo Jiajun hurriedly defended: "No, absolutely not. I swear to God...", and then he smiled slyly.

He smiled and said, "We talked a lot before, and we didn't prepare those things in the car..."

"Those are all safe periods, I know that." Fan Yunxuan argued.

"The safe period may not necessarily be safe." Guo Jiajun said in a long voice, with pride in his tone.

"There are only a few times in total, how can it be so accurate?" Fan Yunxuan continued to argue.

"One time is enough for getting shot." Guo Jiajun's tone became more and more cheerful.

Fan Yunxuan wanted to come over tomorrow to have an abortion, and asked Guo Jiajun not to mention the pregnancy to her mother-in-law after returning home. Guo Jiajun agreed wholeheartedly. But Guo Jiajun was cunning. As soon as he entered the house, he exaggerated "Ouch" and said that something important had been left behind.

We were in the car. Fan Yunxuan was busy asking what?

Guo Jiajun said: "It's the ultrasound scan that confirmed your pregnancy." After saying that, he suddenly covered his mouth, as if he had leaked it unconsciously. His plan succeeded, and Jiajun's mother heard what he said. His daughter-in-law is pregnant,

She was surprised and happy, and urged Guo Jiajun to bring the B-ultrasound sheet quickly.

When the B-ultrasound scan was presented in front of Jiajun’s mother, Jiajun’s mother was so happy that she couldn’t open her mouth from ear to ear.

Fan Yunxuan was sulking alone in the bedroom.

Guo Jiajun walked into the bedroom, apologized to Fan Yunxuan and defended: "Who hasn't spilled the beans yet?"

"Act, keep acting, I think you did it on purpose." Fan Yunxuan said angrily.

Jiajun's mother came in and looked kindly at Fan Yunxuan. She asked her what she wanted to eat, sour or spicy? Then she said what she needed to buy. Just buy it and don't care about the money. Fan Yunxuan had never seen her mother-in-law so generous.

Yes, but the reason for her generosity was the child in her belly, which made her feel angry and funny. Guo Jiajun asked his mother to stew a pot of pickled fish.

Jiajun's mother happily agreed and prepared to go excitedly. Guo Jiajun knew Fan Yunxuan well and knew that her will to have an abortion would not be easily changed. He took her mother away to facilitate her ideological work. Guo Jiajun knew that no matter what the child would be,

How cute it is, how much happiness it will bring to them. Fan Yunxuan cannot be moved by these nonsense, he must talk about it from another angle.

He said: "Life without children is quite fulfilling and happy. But people cannot always indulge in the same state of life. If you change it from time to time, your life will be more colorful."

Fan Yunxuan said: "You are right, life needs some adjustments at different stages."

"Yes, you see, our children are very sensible. They know that you are so busy all day long, and it is not interesting after a long time. As for him, he appeared in time, wanting you to stop being so busy and change.

It’s time to tighten up on our lifestyle.”

"Take it easy? You mean I play every day, right?"

"When you get off work, you have a lot of time to play."

"That's because I work very hard. I sit in the office all day every day, facing the computer, which consumes my brain and eyes. Shouldn't I relax and unwind after get off work?"

"I didn't say there was anything wrong with this, nor did I say there was anything bad about it, but we can't live like this for the rest of our lives, right? It's been a long time, it's so boring!"

Fan Yunxuan asked: "Isn't raising children boring?"

Guo Jiajun said: "If you raise a child, you won't have time to be bored, because he will occupy most of your heart, and he will let you experience the multi-faceted nature of life."

At this time, Fan Yunxuan's heart was complicated. She was not in the mood to consider the multi-faceted issues in life. She now regretted why she was so careless. She had to admit that she had a great responsibility for being pregnant with the child.

According to her temperament, she really wanted to go to the hospital to have the baby

The child was aborted. But at this time, she was no longer a middle school student, she was already an adult, and she had to worry about some consequences. Once the child was aborted, she could imagine her mother-in-law's mood and attitude, even if she didn't spend the whole day

If you shed tears, you must be depressed, and may even become depressed and ill.

The husband will feel sad about his mother-in-law's condition and put the blame on himself. No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, it will become in jeopardy. If you give birth to a child for them, your mother-in-law will be happy and your husband will be happy, but what about you?

...It is said that it is very terrible for a woman to lose herself. She

The last thing she wanted to lose was herself, but at this moment she finally understood that women have too many helpless problems when it comes to children. Fan Yunxuan's heart has never been so conflicted, never so entangled, and never before.

I never thought that married life would be so complicated...

The mother-in-law cooked the pickled fish and let Fan Yunxuan eat. She served Fan Yunxuan with the fish very graciously. She was overly attentive and made Fan Yunxuan very uncomfortable. What made her even more uncomfortable was that the mother-in-law said that they

After three generations of the old Guo family, there was finally a successor. Fan Yunxuan asked: "What if

Where's the girl?" The mother-in-law said: "If it's a girl, let's have another one. We can't cut off the incest." Fan Yunxuan's face turned ugly. Guo Jiajun knew that Fan Yunxuan was most disgusted with hearing such words, so he hurriedly smoothed things over: "Boys and girls are both.

They are treasures, they are all the incense of our old Guo family."

Fan Yunxuan was not in the mood to eat. She wanted to be quiet and returned to her parents' home alone.

When she left, Fan Yunxuan's face was gloomy, which made Jiajun's mother very worried. Her daughter-in-law was so determined that she didn't want the child, so she wouldn't secretly abort the child? Guo Jiajun also had this worry, but he knew Fan Yunxuan.

, Fan Yunxuan has always done things openly and is an open-minded and aboveboard person. If she wants to abort the child, she will definitely inform him in advance.

And she will discuss with him and try her best to persuade him. This is what she did on the DINK issue. She knows how much pain aborting the child will cause him. She loves him, but she will not

Acting rashly without caring about his feelings. He comforted his mother and said: "We have to give her time to think alone. Talking too much will make her have a rebellious mentality."

As soon as she returned to her parents' home, Fan Yunxuan complained to her mother: "It's been more than a hundred years since the Qing Dynasty was destroyed. How come people's ideas still remain in the past? Can women keep their marriages and maintain their status only by giving birth to children?"

Yunxuan's mother understood immediately upon hearing this that her daughter must have had a quarrel with her husband's family over the issue of whether to have children. She tried to persuade her: "If you want to live a DINK life, this is your right. Jiajun wants to have children, and this is also his right."

right. Even if he doesn’t want to lose you and chooses to compromise, he will not be happy deep down in his heart. Your DINK life will not only

It won't be as happy as you imagined. On the contrary, it will leave a big psychological shadow. Your happiness, Jiajun's happiness, and even your mother-in-law's happiness are tightly tied together, regardless of them.

You can't pursue the happiness you want without your feelings. When it comes to your children, you really should think more about them."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I really don't like children from the bottom of my heart. If their happiness is based on my pain, then this kind of tied happiness is too unfair to me."

Junxuan's mother understands her daughter's nature. To a certain extent, her daughter's nature is also the result of her own education. Her daughter pursues independence, has her own thoughts, and dares to do whatever she wants. From childhood to adulthood, she has never been forced to

Her daughter does things she doesn’t want to do. If her daughter does something too outrageous, she will reason with her daughter and ask her to follow the rules. At this time, the grown-up daughter

My daughter knows what "norms" are and what "irregulars" are. I have no reason to force my daughter to do things according to some so-called "norms" recognized by others. Other people's "norms" may not be the "norms" recognized by my daughter.

.But for the sake of her daughter's happiness, there are some truths that she must explain clearly to her daughter. As for what choice her daughter will make, that is her own business.

Yunxuan's mother said: "I didn't expect that mentality can be inherited. Your current mentality is very similar to that of my mother back then."

Fan Yunxuan was shocked: "What? You didn't want to raise a child at the beginning?"

Yunxuan's mother said: "No. The child cries and fusses, poops, urinates, eats, sleeps, and has to take care of everything. It's too much to worry about. What's the benefit of having a child?"

Fan Yunxuan sighed with emotion: "What a risk, what a risk. I came into this world not only by chance, but also by luck."

Yunxuan's mother said: "No. Your dad and I only got you in the sixth year after we got married. Before you were gone, your dad and I had a wonderful life. We traveled, went to the gym, and didn't have children.

Tielu, life is colorful every day. But since having you, I have realized how insignificant the previous richness is, because the happiness you bring me is unmatched by anything."

Fan Yunxuan could not understand her mother's words. She frowned and continued to listen.

Yunxuan's mother continued: "There were many reasons why your father and I didn't want children at the beginning, and they were very similar to your reasons for Dink. For the development of our career, for the realization of the value of life, and for the beautiful world of two people, in short, there were

There are all kinds of reasons for not having children. But later, we slowly discovered that although life without children is wonderful, there is always a feeling of emptiness in our hearts, especially when we see our classmates or friends with their children.

The feeling of emptiness is even stronger..."

Fan Yunxuan said: "So, you suddenly realized that you should have a child, so I was lucky enough to come to this world."

Yunxuan's mother smiled.
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