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Chapter 79 The Struggle Between DINK and Anti-DINK (13)

Fan Yunxuan retorted: "How can something be deprived of something that doesn't exist?"

Jiajun's mother said: "Since you have married into our Guo family, you must fulfill your obligation to have children."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Having children is a woman's right, not an obligation. Obligations must be fulfilled, and rights can be waived. Reproductive rights themselves include the right to choose not to have children. You are actually infringing on my reproductive rights by forcing me to have children.

right."

Jiajun's mother said angrily: "Okay, you are educated, but I don't know as much as you. So, please tell me, which law stipulates that a woman can not have children?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "The law does not stipulate that women must have children, which means that women can not have children. Reproductive rights belong to women themselves and should not be infringed upon by others. You can not understand but choose not to have children.

It's my right, you have to respect it."

Jiajun’s mother’s voice rose twice as loud: “I respect your right not to have children? Then who will respect Jiajun’s right to have children? Why do you deprive him of his right to have children?!”

When Wang Jiayi arrived home, Haowen's mother had already prepared hot meals.

During the meal, Haowen's mother said: "Today, I talked with Grandma Yunxuan and Grandma Ren Li for a long time, and none of them said that you Dink is right. What is Dink? It means a destitute... Why do you want to be a destitute when you are so good?

?”

Wang Jiayi looked at Haowen's mother, then turned to look at Sun Haowen. Sun Haowen was looking at Wang Jiayi.

Wang Jiayi said: "I have said it before. It's not that I don't want children. I like children very much. I really want a child of my own."

Haowen's mother said: "Then hurry up and get him. No matter what, you can pull him up."

Wang Jiayi retorted: "Children can't just be raised casually. They must be well-educated. The prerequisite for good education is sufficient financial strength."

Sun Haowen has a new response to her worries. He said: "Our company is increasing wages every year, and the economic conditions will improve."

Wang Jiayi said: "Salary alone is not enough. The rate of wage increase cannot keep up with the rate of increase in housing prices."

Sun Haowen said: "We can save some money, buy some cheap vegetables, and eat less meat."

Wang Jiayi looked disdainful: "How much money can you save?"

Sun Haowen was a little helpless: "It's better to save a little bit, otherwise what else can we do?"

Wang Jiayi said: "There are many ways to make money, it just depends on whether you dare?"

Sun Haowen asked: "What way?"

Wang Jiayi said: "Don't continue working in that unit, resign."

Sun Haowen looked surprised, and Haowen's mother was even more stunned.

Wang Jiayi said: "I checked on the Internet. Do you know how much the salary of a professional, skilled and experienced person like you is in a foreign company?"

Sun Haowen said: "You should know a little bit."

Wang Jiayi said: "How much?"

Sun Haowen said: "My classmate works in a foreign company, and his salary is three times as much as mine."

Wang Jiayi said: "So you still know."

Sun Haowen said: "My unit is very good, and the leaders treat me well..."

Wang Jiayi interrupted him: "What's the use of your boss being nice to you? Can he triple your salary?"

Sun Haowen said: "You can't just look at salary, you also have to consider stability. My classmate earns a lot, but he is unstable, especially when he gets older. Will foreign companies still use him? As soon as the technology is updated, people will

Definitely use young people, and by then, he might not have a job..."

Wang Jiayi retorted: "How come people don't have jobs? Don't they know how to open their own company? Don't they know how to start their own business? When the time comes, they become big bosses and earn more."

Sun Haowen said: "Opening a company and running a business? Do you think that is that easy?"

Wang Jiayi said: "It is not easy, but once you succeed, it will be completely different. You have to have confidence and courage."

Sun Haowen said: "Don't you know my personality? I have poor communication skills, I don't know how to socialize, and running a company is simply not what I can do. I am suitable for studying technology in a down-to-earth manner..."

Wang Jiayi said: "The technology has been well studied, but what about the children? When will the children be able to master it?"

Sun Haowen said: "What does this have to do with children?"

Wang Jiayi said: "If you have a child, he must at least have an independent space, right?"

Sun Haowen said: "Jiayi, although I am only a small technician now, I have made great achievements in the position of technician. Just a few days ago, a big technical problem appeared in the factory, and many technical experts could not solve it.

, your husband and I solved it. I am already a technical backbone. In the future, it will be a matter of time to become the technical section chief or technical director. After a certain number of years and I have made enough contributions, I may be able to pay the cost price.

Allocated to a big house, after all, it is a large state-owned enterprise..."

Wang Jiayi retorted: "Being a section chief or director in the future? That's just a 'possibility'. Have you ever thought about another possibility? With an unsociable personality like yours, you might just be a little technician all your life.

Fortune 500 companies like yours grab a lot of graduates from Tsinghua University, which doesn't show your importance at all, and you may not be able to get a house alloted to you."

Sun Haowen said: "Even if I don't get a share, isn't it good that we have this house?"

Wang Jiayi said with a look of dissatisfaction: "This house...look at it, it's such a big place, how can you raise children?"

Sun Haowen looked around the room and was a little at a loss.

Wang Jiayi said: "Not only is the area small, there are no good schools nearby. We have to change to a room in the school district."

Sun Haowen was shocked: "A room in a school district? It also has a large area? Even if you squeeze me dry, you won't be able to squeeze out that much money?"

Wang Jiayi said: "If it doesn't work out, I'll sacrifice my face and borrow another loan from my parents."

Sun Haowen said: "This is not a small sum of 18,000 yuan. The price of a house in a school district is not a little higher than a house in a non-school district. Your parents have already helped a lot to buy this house. How can we have the shame to talk to them again?"

borrow?"

Wang Jiayi mocked: "Okay, you are ambitious! If you are ambitious, find ways to make more money! With the dead salary you earn as a little technician, do I have any hope of living in a big house with you in this life?"

Sun Haowen said quietly: "Are you disappointed in me?"

Wang Jiayi said: "Only when you have hope can you be disappointed. I have no hope for you at all now, so I can't say I'm disappointed."

These words greatly hurt Sun Haowen's self-esteem, and he said angrily: "Then I'm confused, why did you marry such a hopeless and worthless man like me in the first place?"

Wang Jiayi said: "What does cow dung with flowers mean? I understand now." After saying that, she got up and went back to the bedroom alone, not wanting to eat anymore.

Sun Haowen no longer had the appetite to continue eating. Wang Jiayi once again trampled on his self-esteem. Sun Haowen felt very uncomfortable in his heart. He grew up in a poor family and worked hard all the way to the present. During this period, he suffered so much hardship and suffered so many grievances. He had to swallow it alone.

Only Sun Haowen himself knows how many tears he has shed. It is this kind of growth experience that has created his tough character. This kind of character was used in his studies. He was successfully admitted to a prestigious university and also studied as a graduate student; he was also used in his work.

, he is down-to-earth, able to endure hardships, and can work hard, and is deeply appreciated by his leaders. Now, his character has played a role in maintaining peace in family life. Knowing that his self-esteem was trampled on, he did not fight back or explode. This is due to his character

, it is a helpless choice after rational thinking about the actual situation.

Sun Haowen left the dining table and entered the bedroom, saying: "Although the school here is not top-notch, it is at least average! Why can't I study here? The teaching quality in my hometown is so poor. I can't just rely on my own efforts."

Did you pass the exam in Beijing?"

Wang Jiayi said: "Don't mention your hometown. Our current platform is Beijing, not your hometown! We must now give our children the best possible environment on this platform."

Sun Haowen said: "Do the children who live in good school districts all have good grades? Don't the children who live in our community have good grades? Whether the grades are good or bad, the future life is not determined by the good school district.

You have to rely on your own efforts.”

Wang Jiayi said: "The parents who need to work hard first, not the children. Sun Haowen, what you need to do most now is to find ways to make more money and move our home to a good school district as soon as possible. Instead of quarreling with me here."

Sun Haowen was silent, with an aggrieved look on his face. He felt it was too much pressure to marry such a wife...

Wang Jiayi looked at Sun Haowen and became even more angry and said: "Sun Haowen, do you know what I am most dissatisfied with you about?"

Sun Haowen said: "I don't have the ability to make a lot of money, and I don't have a strong family background."

Wang Jiayi said: "It's because you don't have the courage to make big money that I can't see the future... Not only can't you afford a house in the school district, you can't even buy a car, but you are very calm..."

Sun Haowen said: "Beijing is full of cars and the pollution is so serious. It's better not to have cars. From another perspective, this is called environmental awareness."

Wang Jiayi said: "Environmental awareness? This is an excuse for not having money."

Sun Haowen said: "Rich or not, we should all promote environmental protection. This is called self-cultivation."

Wang Jiayi said: "Cultivating? If you don't have the ability to make money, don't talk about cultivating."

Sun Haowen was very disappointed. Jiayi was not like this before, so why has she become more and more vulgar now? But he could only say this in his heart, and he did not dare to say it out. He knew Jiayi, and Jiayi's self-esteem was very high.

Strong, not exciting.

From the children to the school district housing, from the school district housing to the car, from the car to the environmental protection and self-cultivation, the conversation got further and further. At this time, he was willing to talk to her. The further the conversation, the less worried he was, even though it was

A kind of self-anaesthesia cannot solve the actual problem, but at least it can prove that they can still continue to talk. If they continue to focus on children, money and houses, they will only be in a stalemate. It is better to have a topic to talk about than a stalemate. So Sun Haowen
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