Jiajun's mother asked curiously: "What's wrong?"

He Qi’s mother said: “They raised a puppy, made clothes for the dog, and called the dog son. They spent more than 20,000 just on feeding the dog and grooming the dog every year. They also had to bathe the dog and trim its hair.

They even kissed and chatted with the puppy when they had nothing to do. On Children’s Day, they took their puppy to the park. Tell me, if you had known about this, why did you do it in the first place?”

Wang Jiayi said: "In this world, there are many people who regret not having children sooner. I wonder if there are any people who regret having children?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "There must be."

Ren Li said: "Moreover, the number of people will not be small, but they are unwilling to speak out and will bear their own hardships."

Wang Jiayi said with a blank look on her face: "I wonder if I will regret not having children in the future?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "If you want to regret it, regret it early. If you regret it late, you will be asking for trouble."

Ren Li said: "Why should we regret it? How many people envy us!"

Jiajun's mother said: "They must be allowed to have children. This matter cannot be delayed any longer. It is urgent..."

He Qi's mother said: "What DINK Dink, I think they are nails, the nails that destroy family stability and social harmony. For the healthy and orderly development of society, and for us to have grandchildren, we have to work together to eliminate these nails."

Unplug it!”

As she spoke, she raised her right hand, clenched it into a fist, and made a powerful gesture.

Jiajun’s mother and Haowen’s mother unanimously agreed: “Yes, pull out the nail!”

As they spoke, the two raised their right hands and clenched them into fists to show their determination.

Ren Li said: "For freedom and a better life, we will fight to the end!"

Fan Yunxuan and Wang Jiayi echoed: "Yes, I want Dink to the end!"

As he said that, the three of them clapped their hands together in unison.

In order to persuade Fan Yunxuan to have a baby, Jiajun's mother, who had not been to a bookstore for decades, went to the bookstore and selected a pregnancy-related book. It included both the benefits of pregnancy and the disadvantages of not being pregnant.

She took the book home as if she had found a treasure and studied it carefully.

In the evening, when Fan Yunxuan came home from get off work, Jiajun's mother specially cooked a bowl of glutinous rice balls for Fan Yunxuan. Fan Yunxuan habitually thought it was cooked for her son and reminded: "Mom, Jiajun is on a business trip."

Jiajun's mother told her that this bowl of glutinous rice balls was cooked for her.

Fan Yunxuan saw the book in Jiajun's mother's hand. She could guess the content by looking at the cover, and realized that a new mother-in-law and daughter-in-law argument was about to take place. She hurriedly entered the bedroom, sat in front of the computer, and started working on clothing design drawings.

Modified, I want to use work to escape the "war".

Jiajun's mother came in and said, "I know you're busy and don't have time to read it. Mom can tell you what's in it. Mom watched it today and didn't know what it was. She was shocked when she saw it. If you don't have children,

It’s very harmful to women.”

Fan Yunxuan smiled and said: "You don't need to be so exaggerated!"

Jiajun's mother said: "It's not an exaggeration at all, it's all written in the book." As she said that, she opened the book and read from the book: "If a woman has a complete pregnancy process in her life, she can increase the number of children."

With 10 years of immunity, the incidence of many gynecological diseases, such as uterine fibroids, endometriosis, and even benign or malignant tumors of the breast, uterus, and ovaries, is higher in nulliparous women than in women who have given birth."

After saying that, Jiajun's mother raised her head and looked at Fan Yunxuan, who was also looking at her with an expressionless face.

Jiajun's mother turned another page and continued reading: "According to the latest research results published in the United States: Motherhood makes women smarter and helps prevent them from suffering from dementia in old age, because during pregnancy, their brains

Protective hormones are produced. If you have a child after the optimal childbearing age, the rate of spontaneous abortion increases by three times, and pregnancy-induced hypertension syndrome is easily complicated in the later stages of pregnancy..."

Fan Yunxuan interrupted her and said: "Mom, everything has two sides. Those who have given birth to children also suffer from gynecological diseases. If you don't want children at all, there is no problem with pregnancy-induced hypertension syndrome.

"

Jiajun's mother said: "If you are stubborn now, will you regret it later? You are not the one who suffers! Look, this aspect is also written in the book, just listen!" As she said, she read from the book again.

Said: "Older women have a higher chance of miscarriage. Statistics show that after the age of 35, the chance of pregnancy failure will greatly increase. Studies have found that

Now, when a woman is 35 years old, the chance of pregnancy failure due to miscarriage, stillbirth or ectopic pregnancy is as high as 20%. By the age of 42, the chance of pregnancy failure is as high as more than 50%. In addition, older mothers have a higher rate of fetal teratogenesis. As they get older, various

Some organs begin to age and are prone to genetic mutations, giving birth to children with congenital stupidity."

Fan Yunxuan turned to the computer impatiently and continued to revise the clothing design drawings.

Jiajun's mother looked up and saw that Fan Yunxuan was not listening at all, so she said angrily: "Why can't you listen carefully?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "I'm listening. The book is right. Giving birth at an advanced age is not good for the child and the mother. But it has nothing to do with me? If I don't have enough determination, I won't be a DINK."

Jiajun's mother said angrily: "Dink, Dink, will you be happy if you don't even have a child?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "As long as two people have a good relationship, they will be happy whether they have children or not."

Jiajun's mother said: "No matter how good the relationship between two people is, they will still be boring after decades together. Without children, your personality and mentality will become abnormal. When the time comes, you will regret it and you will have no chance to make up for it.

Already."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I will not regret it. Even if I regret it, I can afford it. Regret is also a kind of beauty."

Jiajun's mother said: "Every kind of medicine is sold in the world, but there is no regret medicine. Why can't you listen to my advice?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Mom, life is my own. I have the right to choose the life I want to live. Please stop meddling in it."

Jiajun's mother asked: "Life is your own? Then why do you want to get married? Why do you want to marry into our old Guo family? Can't you live alone?! Are you trying to trick us?"

The Guo family?"

Fan Yunxuan stopped operating the mouse and sat there blankly. She wanted to turn her face to look at Jiajun's mother, but she didn't dare. She knew that Jiajun's mother was well prepared and had prepared enough "cannonballs".

Defeat her...

Jiajun's mother's tone softened again, and she said: "What Mom just said was a bit harsh, but she is also doing it for your own good! How can you, a woman, not have children? Only when you have children can you have hope for life.

, only then can there be hope.”

Fan Yunxuan said: "Whether your life is good or not is your own business, why should you place your hopes on your children?"

Jiajun's mother said: "You are young now and don't understand the importance of having children. When you reach my age, you will understand what a child is? A child is a light in the heart. Without Jiajun, I would not dare to

Imagine what my life will be like. Sooner or later, you will reach your mother's age. Without the light of your child, how can you make your heart bright?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Boring people will still be bored even if they have children. If you have children just to solve the problem of boredom when you get older, it is really unfair to the children. Jiajun and I are both

I have many interests and hobbies, so I won’t get bored when I get older.”

Jiajun's mother said angrily: "No matter how many hobbies you have, you will get tired of them after a long time!"

Fan Yunxuan said: "We will develop new interests and hobbies."

Jiajun's mother said: "The book says that a woman who has never given birth to a child has no maternal feelings and is not considered a complete woman."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Having children is just one of the abilities of a woman. It does not mean that you have to give full play to a certain ability. Without children, Jiajun and I can have more time to participate in colorful social life. This

It’s more complete than being bored at home and raising children.”

Jiajun's mother said: "Junxuan, think about it carefully, use your imagination and think about it, how happy it is to have a lovely baby growing up by your side day by day!"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Children can indeed bring emotional satisfaction to many people, but there are many other channels to meet emotional and spiritual needs. It is not necessary to raise children. Everyone has the right to choose what they like.

Life style."

Jiajun's mother said: "Why can't you understand the old man's heart? I look forward to my grandson so much that I don't even have the mood to eat."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Mom, you have to understand me. If you have a child, I will be the one who can't eat."

Jiajun's mother said: "You want to piss me off to death! At this age, I don't have anything else to think about. I just hope that you and Jiajun can live well and have a child. You are so kind, you insist on it."

Cut off this thought of mine. If this continues, I won’t be able to live for a few more days.”

Fan Yunxuan said: "In the past, you focused all your attention on Jiajun. Now, you are preparing to raise your grandson again. What about you? Where is your life?"

Jiajun's mother said: "Is it wrong for you to worry about me while you are worrying about me?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "It's right that you want to have a grandson, and it's right that I don't want to have a baby. But it's wrong for you to force me to have a baby."

Jiajun’s mother said: “As a human being, you can’t just care about yourself, and you can’t be too selfish!”

Fan Yunxuan said: "This is not selfishness, this is ego. We women also need to have a life of our own, and we cannot underestimate ourselves too much."

Jiajun’s mother said: “It’s right to value yourself, but you must also value your children. To only value yourself and not your children is hedonism!”

Fan Yunxuan said: "The pursuit of quality life and hedonism are two different things."
Chapter completed!