Fan Yunxuan said: "Yes, I really do it for myself. In order for me to be more quiet, I don't want to worry about your troubles all day long."

Wang Jiayi said: "If you don't want to worry about it, you can ignore it. If my mother-in-law comes to you, you can ignore it. No one is forcing you. Why did you bring up Jiang Rui? What do you mean, you?!"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Why did you divorce Sun Haowen? It's because you still have the fantasy of a little girl, yearning for the extremely illusory love of flowers in the water and the moon in the mirror. Okay, I'll let Jiang Rui help you experience it.

, to satisfy your fantasy of being far away in the clouds. Now that the fantasy is over, you can return to the ground in a down-to-earth manner."

Wang Jiayi said: "I divorced Sun Haowen because my marriage with him had huge flaws..."

"It is extremely unrealistic to hope that there will be no flaws in a marriage, just like hoping that there will be no shadows in the sun."

"If Jiang Rui and I can get together, will there be those flaws?"

"Jiang Rui's perfection is just your fantasy. It is very unfair to Sun Haowen to compare the fantasy perfection with Sun Haowen in reality. Be more tolerant and less picky, and your marriage will not have so many flaws.

Sun Haowen doesn’t have so many shortcomings.”

"What's the use of saying this now?! I've fallen in love with Jiang Rui, I'm so in love that I can't help myself!"

Fan Yunxuan looked at Wang Jiayi distressedly, hesitated for a moment and said: "Jiang Rui is indeed worthy of love, but he is even more worthy of worship. To worship a person, you don't need to know much about him, but if you know the other person's situation well

Love as little as possible, this kind of love is too blind

, is not true, and may not be true love. In essence, it is still worship. It is not a bad thing for a girl to have a lingering heart. Then keep Jiang Rui in your heart. Sun Haowen is your reality. You should treat Jiang Rui well.

Re-examine your marriage to him."

Wang Jiayi said: "You are not me, and you cannot understand how uncomfortable it is for me and Sun Haowen to live together."

Fan Yunxuan said: "If I were you, before making a major decision like divorce, I would calmly sort out my thoughts and examine the problems in the marriage. Once I have examined and sorted out the issues, I will decide whether to divorce or not."

Or repair it within marriage?”

Ren Li said: "Divorce is a means to solve problems, and repair within marriage is also a means. If the problem can be solved through repair within marriage, it will be better than divorce after all."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Although the problems in your marriage with Sun Haowen will make you feel uncomfortable, these problems are just small problems similar to headaches and fever, and there are no major problems of principle at all. Do you think this is the case?

Marriage is irredeemable. In fact, this is your misunderstanding. Your requirements for the purity of marriage are too high."

Ren Li said: "I think what Junxuan said makes sense. You have such a good mother-in-law, but you regard her as an impurity in the marriage. If my mother-in-law were half as good as her, I would wake up happy even when I sleep. And Xiao Beibei

, so cute. With the love of you and Sun Haowen, she will definitely grow up happily every day like a little princess. You and Sun Haowen

Haowen is always so awkward. She is growing up day by day. When she becomes sensible, will she feel better? She cannot be a little princess. She will definitely become Cinderella, without self-confidence, withdrawn, and introverted. When she grows up, she may even

Have you ever considered that it will cause trouble and go astray? Are there not enough reports like this on TV, newspapers, and magazines?"

Wang Jiayi said: "It's not that I don't understand what you're talking about, but the problem is that Jiang Rui has occupied my entire heart, and all I can think about now is him. Even if I want to let go, I can't."

Ren Li looked at Fan Yunxuan and said: "To untie the bell, you must tie the bell!"

For many people, fantasy can be extinguished at any time. But for Wang Jiayi, fantasy is like opium. Once you take it, you can't quit it. Wang Jiayi's thoughts turned into a poisoned bee, hovering around Jiang Rui.

Beside the charming flower of the male god, I don’t want to leave.

The whole morning of the next day, Wang Jiayi had no intention of working. She was like a young girl in love who was thinking about her idol. She knew that there would be no ending, but she still hoped to meet Jiang Rui again. To her great surprise, at noon,

, Jiang Rui actually took the initiative to send her a message and asked her to meet at the tea bar. Wang Jiayi couldn't believe her eyes, so she read the message over and over again, and after confirming that it was true, she rushed to the tea bar.

Sitting opposite Jiang Rui again, Wang Jiayi had complex emotions, loss, and pain mixed with a hint of unwillingness. It was this unwillingness that inspired Wang Jiayi's courage. How could obtaining happiness be so smooth? Even if there was a glimmer of hope, she

She has to work a hundred times harder to fight for it, because the man in front of her is worth fighting for. "Not enough effort"

, if you let happiness pass you by, you will regret it for the rest of your life." Wang Jiayi gradually calmed down, and while cheering herself up in her heart, she also regretted that she had been too impatient in the past two days. If she could gradually understand Jiang Rui from the side

, it wouldn't be so embarrassing. She warned herself: Don't be too impatient, let alone lose your temper, treat him as an ordinary friend first.

Jiang Rui spoke first: "You are a good friend of Junxuan, and I am also a good friend of Junxuan, so I think we are also good friends now and can have a good chat calmly and without emotion."

Wang Jiayi nodded, "I didn't expect that our meeting was deliberately arranged by Yun Xuan."

Jiang Rui said: "Yunxuan and I were classmates in high school. At that time, she was like a tomboy, full of energy every day, and sometimes she even played basketball with me!"

Wang Jiayi said: "No matter what, acquaintance is fate."

Jiang Rui nodded, "Yes, acquaintance is fate."

Wang Jiayi said: "I cherish this fate very much."

Jiang Rui nodded again, "I'm also very happy that Yunxuan can introduce her best friend to me. I heard from her that you had a fight yesterday because of me, and I should apologize to you."

Wang Jiayi is very clear about the meaning behind the word "apology". Next, he may say: "I caused you to misunderstand." Yes, she misunderstood, and misunderstood that the two of them had a God-given destiny. Although the truth is already clear.

, this is a misunderstanding, but Wang Jiayi still wants to turn the misunderstanding into a beautiful reality, so she cannot let Jiang Rui say the word "misunderstanding". Once she says it, there will be even less room for maneuver.

She interrupted: "I'm curious, as an emotional counselor, would you and your ex-wife quarrel before you divorced?"

Jiang Rui said: "She and I will also have disagreements and disputes."

Wang Jiayi said: "Just like Yun Xuan and I, it's not a big deal if we have some disputes occasionally. You don't need to apologize."

Jiang Rui nodded, "That's good."

Wang Jiayi said: "But if two people are too stubborn and always refuse to give in to each other, it will be difficult. Just like my ex-husband and I, separation is the best choice."

Jiang Rui said: "When my ex-wife and I have a dispute, if we really can't make sense, we will choose to compromise with each other at the right time. We all understand the truth that compromise itself is a part of marriage. If we don't give in at all, then

The marriage really cannot continue."

Wang Jiayi asked: "I have long heard that quarreling is an art, but I have never been able to figure out what the essence of this art is."

Jiang Rui said: "As long as your reason is still there, you must exercise restraint and not say anything just to suppress the other party. Try your best not to expose the other party's shortcomings or stimulate the other party's self-esteem."

Wang Jiayi recalled the scene when she and Sun Haowen quarreled, and what she said to Sun Haowen still lingered in her ears——

"Reality has cut our love into pieces."

"What is left of our relationship now? The romance between each other has become a luxury. Even the most basic need of understanding each other has become a luxury. Does such a marriage still have any meaning?"

"Haowen, we are not cars running on the same road at all. If we are tied together, we will be very tired and awkward. If we continue to be tied to each other, we will lose the opportunity to achieve happiness."

"Many people are willing to make do with it, that's their business, but I don't want to make do with it. I think that kind of marriage is meaningless. What is the purpose of getting married? It is to live a better life, but I am not good at all now, not at all

Neither of us are happy. We are really not suitable to be a couple because our values ​​are not on the same page at all. It’s good to be separated and we can be friends. As friends, there won’t be so much trouble. If our values ​​are consistent and inconsistent, it doesn’t matter.

, no one is qualified to force anyone."

"Yes, I am greedy and you are noble. Therefore, we have different aspirations, different ways, different feelings, and different intentions. So parting ways is the best choice."

"I've gone so far, why are you still begging me not to divorce me?"

"We did have a wonderful past, but it is difficult to have a wonderful future. Although the future has not yet arrived, I have already foreseen how bleak the future will be with you."

"What is reality? This is reality. It is like a knife that will cut feelings into pieces."

"My heart has changed because my love has changed. The love before made me feel relaxed and happy, but the love now makes me feel tired. I feel like I am spending time with you."

"We can't go on like this any longer. If we go on any longer, we'll be in trouble. Instead of wasting our youth, it's better to get divorced as soon as possible."

"If I don't act impulsively, my happiness for the rest of my life will be completely ruined."

"Impulses are also angels and can save people from the abyss of pain."

"I only know that a marriage without feeling love is a sad marriage."

"Don't put too much pressure on yourself, honeypot? Are there any honeypots like you?"

"Fundamentally speaking, there are differences between north and south and between urban and rural areas in our living background. There is only one way to solve these differences, which is assimilation. Either you are assimilated by me, or I am assimilated by you. This is just to solve the differences between us.

The premise of this problem. But we cannot solve this premise, because none of us can assimilate anyone. Then, there is no need to solve a series of other problems. The only thing that needs to be done is to separate, completely separate."

Wang Jiayi said: "When we are quarreling, can we still care so much?"

Jiang Rui said: "Yes, it is indeed not easy, and you have to do your best even if it is not easy. Many people think that the reason why they are not having a good life is the other person's problem, and they put more resentment on the other person. In fact,

As long as you adjust your thinking, many things actually don’t matter at all.”
Chapter completed!