Sun Haowen said: "Watching movies, shopping, eating big meals, giving gifts on holidays, these things have already been done when you are in love. Once you get married, you should do the things after marriage, and you should take good care of your children. More

Take care of the elderly and run the family well..."

Fan Yunxuan said: "The prerequisite for running a good family is to manage the relationship between husband and wife first. You cannot get married and everything will be fine. After you get married, you need to think more about how to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. You cannot be lazy in this aspect."

If you work at two o'clock and one line every day, everyone will feel bored after a long time. If you live such a rigid life, it is inevitable that someone with delicate emotions like Jiayi will drift away from you. "

"We still have to pay off the mortgage, so how can we have so much spare money to go out and spend it?"

"We usually live a tight life, so it is even more necessary to waste it once in a while. The money that can help enhance your relationship is worth whatever you spend. Your mistake is that you have too much sense but not enough interest. Jiayi is a woman, and women put their feelings into perspective.

First of all, emotional matters should not be too rational. Too

Rationality and emotional rigidity make people feel very uncomfortable, so she has to make amends in other aspects before asking you for a big house. You can't satisfy her materially, and she's so boring emotionally, so she can still live her life.

What's the point? If I were her, I would leave you too."

Sun Haowen retorted: "She is different from you."

"What's different?"

"I think you are more reasonable than her. Many times, she is unreasonable. She is too emotional."

"Most women are emotional animals. When they are in a bad mood, they cannot listen to anything. Therefore, they should talk less or not at all. If you want to talk, talk more about love."

"She is obviously wrong about many things..."

"She is also right when she is wrong. As long as it does not involve issues of principle, she will always be right. As a man, you should have this attitude towards your wife. Women are perceptual animals and emotional animals. Reason with women.

, It’s harder to reach the sky. Speak more sweet words when you have time. Don’t always think about saying this or that. No matter how many principles you say, they are not as good as saying "I love you". If you keep these three words on your lips every day, she will be able to

Divorce you?"

"Whether you love someone or not is expressed through actions, why do you have to say it with your mouth?"

"Because women like to listen! Meticulous care in life is very important, but it is also necessary to say the word 'love'. For women, the three words 'I love you' are infinitely powerful. Say these three words

Words take no time and effort, so why aren’t you willing to say them?”

"A man's sense of responsibility should be deep in his heart, not just words. How many women are defrauded of money and sex just because they like to listen to sweet talk. If they don't get down to business all day long, they will say that some of the frivolous things are not there, then basically

Just a playboy."

"Is the interest in life between a husband and wife the same thing as a playboy cheating for money and sex? Do you have to be a goose to be responsible?"

"Even if I am a silly goose and lack a little bit of romance, can she just get divorced casually? It's such a child's play!"

"Even if she is too impulsive and divorcing you is a mistake, as a man, can't you be more generous?"

"If the economic situation does not change substantially, will it be useful to just rely on generosity? In front of Jiayi, I have always lived a miserable life."

"Are you the only one who feels aggrieved? Jiayi is also feeling aggrieved!"

"She feels aggrieved because her desires are hard to satisfy. She is asking for it!"

"Oh, hey, the more you talk, the more excited you become! She is so horny? She didn't force you to be on the Forbes rich list, so why is she so horny?"

"I admit that I can't be a rich man. I think it's good to have a stable job and live a peaceful life. But in Jiayi's eyes, this is equivalent to being a loser. This is what I feel most aggrieved about.

I am recognized as a technical expert in my work unit, and I can solve many technical problems that others cannot solve. Why am I such a loser?"

"Of course you are not a wimp. A typical characteristic of a wimp is laziness. You can make your way from a poor mountain ravine to Beijing. Hard work is essential."

"It is no exaggeration to say that hard work and progress have become a character engraved in my bones. Jiayi can deny my ability. I do not have the ability to do business, but she cannot deny my ambition and sense of responsibility. Over the years

, when have I ever had the slightest hint of

Lazy and slack? But in Jiayi's eyes, the reason why I can't afford a house in the school district is because I have no ambition. Everyone has his own ambitions, and everyone should do things according to their actual situation. Only in this way can people make the most of their talents. Such a simple truth, I

I don’t understand why Jiayi doesn’t

Do you understand? I am a mechanical engineer. In the field of mechanical equipment, my ability is recognized, but Jiayi can turn a blind eye. She always thinks that doing business can make a lot of money. I have no business ability, but I have self-awareness, she said

That path is not suitable for me at all. Instead of

It’s better to live a more stable life if you hit your head and end badly. Not taking risks does not mean being mediocre. I think being a technician is my value. The truth is so obvious, but this truth is good

It won’t work at all at Yi’s place.”

"Jiayi is indeed more emotional. Fortunately, you are relatively rational. I quite agree with your analysis. The question is, why do you agree to divorce so hastily for such a rational person?"

"She said it all, is it okay if she doesn't agree?"

"You can't stand her saying a few unpleasant words? Can't you drag it out? Can't you grind it out? Of course, you may think that would be undignified. In emotional matters, being thick-skinned and being undignified are two different things. In order to

A stable marriage sometimes requires a thicker skin."

"It all seems to be my fault? All the initiative is in her hands. Is it useful for you to tell me this?"

"Of course I know that the initiative lies with Jiayi. The problem is that if your misunderstanding of Jiayi is not resolved, there will be no prerequisite for your reconciliation."

"I don't understand what you are talking about?"

"I mean you have a deep misunderstanding of Jiayi. She and I shared bunk beds when we were in college. After that, we worked in the same company. We have been together longer than you. I know her better than you. In fact, she

Her requirements for money are not high, but her requirements for relationships are particularly high. The so-called financial pressure is actually an external manifestation of unsatisfied relationships." ωωw..net

At this time, in Wang Jiayi's rental house, Wang Jiayi was complaining to Ren Li about her dissatisfaction with Fan Yunxuan: "I usually pretend to be generous and can help me, but at the critical moment, I have to make a double blow.

I am blind and regard her as a good friend."

Ren Li said: "You have known her longer than me, so you should know her better than me. She is not the kind of person you said."

"You saw what happened today. She and Jiang Rui have known each other for a long time, and their relationship is very unusual. They can actually hold hands together. Maybe Jiang Rui is her first love."

"Stop guessing."

"Am I just guessing? Seeing is believing. Two people can hold hands together. Is this possible in a normal relationship?"

"She has such a good relationship with Guo Jiajun. Even if it is her first love relationship with Jiang Rui, it is a pure first love, and there will be no shady things."

"She likes the new and never gets tired of the old, and starts playing fancy games."

"The more you talk, the more outrageous it becomes. Drink some water and calm down." After saying that, Ren Li poured a glass of water for Wang Jiayi.

Wang Jiayi was still upset, "It's hard to find someone who's attracted to me, but she has such an unclear result. How can I calm down? I've known Yunxuan for so many years, and I can do anything with her."

Tell her, she is so nice, she has never mentioned Jiang Rui to me."

Ren Li continued to speak for Fan Yunxuan: "It's normal not to know their affairs. Even the closest people can't reveal all their privacy."

Women are really animals that easily lose their rationality. At this time, Wang Jiayi was like an angry lion, unable to tolerate any rebuttal. She continued to vent her dissatisfaction with Fan Yunxuan: "When she was studying in school, she always argued with me.

, always wants to put me down, but now it’s even more extreme, and he actually treats me like a monkey..."

Out of her understanding of Fan Yunxuan, Ren Li knew that Fan Yunxuan was not who she said she was. But at this moment, she realized that the more she refuted, the more angry Wang Jiayi became. She decided to shut up and let Wang Jiayi vent her anger.

Let it out, let it out

It was quiet. But Wang Jiayi seemed to be a ignited oil well. The raging fire was endless and burned so hard that Ren Li had nowhere to hide. Her ears felt uncomfortable and her body felt numb. At this moment, the doorbell rang, and Ren Li hurriedly opened the door.

, it’s Fan Yunxuan here.

Ren Li said: "Yunxuan, which song are you singing about? She has been deeply trapped by Jiang Rui."

Fan Yunxuan said: "So I have to help her out."

Wang Jiayi asked angrily: "Let me ask you, what is your relationship with Jiang Rui?"

Fan Yunxuan said calmly: "Classmate relationship."

"Classmate? I'm afraid it's not that simple!"

"It's that simple, it's just that we have a good relationship. Jiayi, don't be too blind in your expectations for love, otherwise, you will definitely lose miserably. Jiang Rui is a passer-by in your life. You should think about it calmly.

, is it possible to remarry Sun Haowen?"

"If you want me to remarry Sun Haowen, just tell me directly. Why are you teasing me like this?! Let me be laughed at by you like a big fool!"

"Don't you let me see too many jokes? You have been on blind dates with so many men, which one is not a farce?"

"The biggest farce is Jiang Rui! You actually set up such a trap for me, is it fun?"

"The purpose of setting up a situation is to make you sober and make you make the best choice for yourself."
Chapter completed!