Junxuan's mother sighed and said: "You feel it is a pity that you have not been able to live the DINK life that you yearn for. But if you really have no children, you may also feel regret after a few years. Life

There will be many choices, and no matter what you choose, you will always have regrets, because people's mentality changes at different times."

Fan Yunxuan said: "No matter what period of time, one aspect of mentality will never change, that is, the yearning for happiness. Only a life that meets one's own wishes will make people feel happy. A life with children is not what I yearn for.

, On the contrary, this is the life style I least want to live and dislike the most. It seems that your daughter will say goodbye to the word happiness in the future."

Yunxuan's mother said: "Whether you say goodbye to happiness or not is entirely up to you. If you continue like this, my grandson will be so pitiful. It is right for a person to have his own ideas, but when the situation changes, his ideas should also be changed."

Change, if you continue to be so stubborn, it will do no good to anyone."

"It's not that I'm stubborn, it's that they are stubborn. They insisted on forcing me to give birth to this child. It is not my wish to have a child, and it is not my wish to take care of the child."

"Yunxuan, you have done very well in many aspects. You are so good that your parents are proud of you. But when it comes to such an important matter as raising your own children, how could you be so confused and selfish?"

"Since you pity the child so much, I will leave the child to you and you can take care of it."

"I will not overstep my authority."

"It seems that after you made such a big statement, it turns out that Mr. Ye is just a fan of dragons."

"This is not because Ye Gong loves dragons. My responsibility is to raise you. You are my next generation, and your next generation should be raised by you. This is your unshirkable responsibility."

"With his grandma, there is no need for me at all. There is no shortage of food and plenty of clothes. No matter who takes care of him, he will grow up."

"When a child grows up, he needs more than just food and clothing. He also needs the love, care and careful and patient education of his parents. Compared with his father and grandma, the mother's emotional responsibility is greater. This is an obligation given to you by God.

, you have no reason to escape, not even the slightest reason."

"He is so young, what does he know? Who can raise him or not?"

"Shifting the parenting responsibility to others may not cause any harm to the child in the short term, but it will definitely leave traces in his life. When he becomes an adult, it will gradually develop into a psychological disease. By then, it will be too late.

Already."

"Some psychologists frequently trace the psychological problems of adults back to infancy, saying that failure to establish a good attachment relationship with their parents in infancy is likely to lead to difficulties in interpersonal communication and lack of self-confidence in adulthood. What is this theory?

How credible is it? Is human life that fragile? You actually brought this theory over, how can you ensure that what they said is right?"

"Mom really doesn't know how accurate this statement is, but she doesn't want to use her grandson as a guinea pig to test the accuracy of this theory."

After washing her hair, Yunxuan's mother wiped Fan Yunxuan's hair with a dry towel. Then she wrapped Fan Yunxuan's hair with another dry towel.

Yunxuan's mother said: "Wrapping in a dry towel is to prevent excessive heat from being taken away when the water evaporates. My mother cannot confirm that you will definitely catch a cold if you don't wrap it in a dry towel, but I can confirm that if you wrap it in a dry towel, it will be better than if you don't wrap it in it."

If you do it well, you can avoid possible discomfort. Just like

If you don't give Ruirui the care he deserves, mom can't be sure that he will have psychological problems in the future, but what he can be sure of is that Ruirui getting enough care from you during his infancy will definitely have a positive impact on his future life.

Have a positive, positive impact."

Fan Yanxuan looked at her mother from the mirror, and was teased by her serious expression, "Mom, you see your tone, like it in court. I see you, it's a occupational disease."

"This is indeed a serious thing. Mom said these, both for Rui Rui, but also for hello. Mom hopes that he can become a positive, healthy, sunshine guy in the future.

Become a indifferent, anxious, who do not know tolerance and trust, you will not worry about it. "

"If he really has such a big personality defect, I will tell him that the reason why you become like this is not to blame you. Blame your mother can not build a safe attachment relationship with you when you are young.

. ""

"By that time, it's too late to say anything."

"It's too late now, and I shouldn't have him. I have expected all the troubles he can bring to me. Without him, there is no trouble."

"Children are born, this established fact cannot be changed. What needs to be changed now is your mentality."

"It's really annoying to have children."

"When you were naughty when you were young, it caused me so much trouble. Now you should also realize that it is not easy for being a mother."

"When I bother you, have you regretted giving birth to me?"

"Mom never regrets it. Those troubles you caused me when you were a kid. Mom now recalls sweet memories. If there are no troubles, life is pale and boring."

"You are a mother -in -law, but you have not inherited this maternal nature to me. I now think of the troubles that may be faced now, and I am very irritable."

"This has nothing to do with whether there is a mother.

Ah, we are living in the world, not living in heaven, miscellaneous things, trivial matters, and troubles that are troublesome. "

"Many miscellaneous things, trivial matters, and troubles are actually self -founding. It was originally avoided. The secular power pushed people into those complicated." After that, Fan Yanxuan opened the door and walked out.

Obviously, her bitter mind has not achieved substantial results, but her mother is not in a hurry. She knows that her daughter's temperament does have a very paranoid side. To be a daughter's ideological work, she needs patience.

Go in, but she believes that the role of these words will be fermented over time. She has confidence and patience to change her daughter's mentality, but she is worried that the son -in -law and the mother's mother will not have the patience, so before leaving, she deliberately said to her daughter's daughter

A few words: "After giving birth, women are fragile, and their temper can easily become stubborn. She has any inappropriate words and deeds, so you need to be tolerant!" Both the son -in -law and her mother said that they would understand more and more.

Treating. The mother of Xuan Xuan knew that the son -in -law's statement was sincere, and the mother -in -law's statement may not be honest. I hope that the son -in -law is a "double -sided glue" with excellent quality, which can stick to the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law.

Haowen's mother -in -law was carefully stewed by the daughter -in -law, and she was in a pot. She was full of a large bowl of Wang Jiayi.

Jiayi's mother -in -law was shocked, "What are you? Laoshan ginseng? Are there any ginseng here?"

Hao Wen's mother said: "Lao Mountain stewed with native chicken, my village, my daughter -in -law confinement, all eat this, good!"

Jiayi Mom took away the bowl angrily and poured into the toilet. Everyone was shocked and puzzled.

Jiayi Mom, who came out of the toilet, put the empty bowl hard on the table, humming and said, "The mother who just gave birth to a child, can not eat ginseng."

"Why?" Hao Wenma puzzled.

"This is common sense!" Jia Yima said angrily, "Just after giving birth to a child to eat ginseng, ginseng is poison, are you not harming Jiayi?!"

"Eat all the villages." Hao Wenma was reluctant.

Jiayi's mother is even more annoyed, "Your village, your village, your village does not even understand this common sense, it is really ignorant!"

Sun Haowen, Wang Jiayi, and Lingzi looked at it. I didn't know who was right. Lingzi was clever, took out her mobile phone, and started searching for the information of the maternal ginseng. Soon, she found the relevant information and said frustratedly: "

I am not good. Both the chickens and the mountain ginseng are brought by me. The mother who has just gave birth to a child really can’t eat ginseng. "

Sun Haowen took her mobile phone, looked at the content of the mobile phone, nodded, and said to the mother -in -law: "Mom, you are right, you really can't eat it."

Jia Yima hummedly and said, "Fortunately, I'm here!"

Haowen's mother still puzzled, and asked Lingzi: "Can't you eat ginseng?"

Lingzi said: "Ginseng will hinder the healing of damaged blood vessels by itself, which may cause major bleeding."

"My obedient ..." Hao Wenma was shocked. "So, is it that people in our villages have eaten wrong?"

Sun Haowen opened an excuse for his mother: "Maybe, the people in our village are real, so there is no accident. Next time I go back to my hometown, we have to give them a good publicity and propaganda.

"This ignorant old lady, my baby daughter is almost killed by you!" Jiayi's mother scolded in her heart.

Haowen Mom's dissatisfaction is not only the problem of eating ginseng. Many of the behaviors of this rural lady are very ignorant in the eyes of Jiayi's mother. For example, when she wrapped her children with a small blanket, she put her legs.

The wrap is particularly tight, saying that the legs have been straight. Jiayi Mom stopped, saying that this would affect the growth and development of the child. For example, at night, the child did not sleep, and she would not turn off the light.

It is said that opening the lights to sleep will reduce the child's immunity.

In order to tease the child, Haowen often sings children's rhymes, lyrics content, almost the sketch of rural scenes:

"Big radish, water spirit, small cabbage, green Yingying, tomatoes like lanterns, cucumber bit crispy, eat more vegetables and good health, and get sick less."

"Little fat pig, fat, eat full meal, sleep and call. Little goats, glowing, uphill, eat grass, grass to grow well, sheep is full."

"Cucumber crispy, loofah long, sweet watermelon, winter melon fat, vegetable melon, melon and pumpkin, one by one with nutrition. Spring planting a seedlings in spring, autumn melon is full of fragrance."

"A small flower dog, squatting at the door, black eyes, and wanting to eat meat bones."

"Little mouse, go to the lamp, steal oil, can't come down, squeak the grandma, grandma refuses to come, roll it down."

"Carrots, Chinese cabbage, red red and white white, eat radish, eat cabbage, round face is so cute."

"Duckling, a yellow, flat -banged red palm. Singing high loudly, shook it down and put down the pond."

Watching the grandmother singing a funny performance in front of her, the child smiled endlessly. Haowen's mother was so happy to see her granddaughter, even more interesting, one by one, endless.

Wang Jiayi felt very interesting, but Jiayi's mother was very angry. To her daughter, "You see no, ask her to bring the child, and then bring it like this, the child will have to plant land in the future."

"Where do you follow this?" This kind of no logical inference made Wang Jiayi feel angry and funny. "After listening to the rural related children's rhymes, you will go to plant land in the future? If you listen to the song related to the army,

, She has to go to be a soldier in the future? After listening to the song related to the grassland, she will be grazing in the future? If you listen to the "international song", you will have to be an international warrior in the future?

What?"

"This is called subtle way, just like fetal education. Before the child is born, he is a prenatal education. Why? Isn't it just to affect the child in order to subtly influence the child?"

"Pregnant education is to help children develop better. This is teasing children happy. This is two different things."

"Hey, your child ..." Jia Yi's mother was a little uncomfortable, and her daughter actually guarded her mother -in -law everywhere. She inexplicably ate her leisure vinegar. Although she was very clear, her daughter did not climb out of her mother -in -law's belly.
Chapter completed!