Chapter 101 Confinement (3)
As soon as Sun Haowen came home from get off work, he held his daughter in his arms. He liked her very much.
Haowen's mother said: "If this is your son, you are not allowed to hold him in your mouth."
Sun Haowen said: "A daughter is better than a son. A daughter is a caring little cotton-padded jacket. When Jiayi and I grow old, my daughter will be able to take care of us both coldly and hotly."
Jiayi's mother said: "No, raising a son is about face, raising a daughter is about dignity. When people grow old, they mainly rely on their daughters."
Sun Haowen said: "I have a colleague with a six-year-old son. Every day he is so noisy that he is either climbing to high places or crawling to low places. The most annoying thing is that he actually takes advantage of him when he is not paying attention.
His mobile phone was thrown into the vegetable soup. He couldn't eat every day and was so angry."
Jiayi's mother laughed: "No, raising a son means worrying. He was naughty when he was a child, and he might cause trouble when he grows up. He might cause trouble. It's tiring and expensive, so it's better for a daughter to worry less."
Haowen's mother said: "In a big city like Beijing, it is really cost-effective to have a daughter. If a little boy grows up, you have to buy him a house. There is no need for a daughter, because she will go to someone else's house in the future anyway."
Sun Haowen said: "So, my son works for China Construction Bank, and my daughter works for China Merchants Bank. We have to help him build Construction Bank, and we have to spend all our life savings; for China Merchants Bank, we just need to be careful when recruiting investment.
You don’t have to worry about buying a house anymore.”
Jiayi's mother's face darkened. The child had fallen asleep. Jiayi's mother took the child into the bedroom, put it in the crib, closed the door, then picked up the comb and helped her daughter comb her hair. They firmly believed in the old principles and sat down.
During the confinement period, Jiayi's mother could not take a bath or wash her hair, so she used combing her daughter's hair to relieve itching. While combing her daughter's hair, she complained in a low voice: "Did you hear that? My daughter is from China Merchants Bank, and my son is from China Construction Bank. It's better for you."
, turned itself into China Construction Bank, and turned it upside down."
Wang Jiayi knew that her mother was still worried about buying a house, but the matter was over, and bringing it up again would only cause trouble for herself.
Jiayi's mother continued to complain: "Not only does he not have a house, he doesn't have a car, he doesn't even have any savings, and he has no staff in the first and third departments. Except for a rag-picking mother, he has nothing."
Wang Jiayi said: "You have to look at the bright side. They come from the countryside and do not favor sons over daughters at all. How rare this is! Especially the child's grandmother, most rural people of her age favor sons over daughters.
female."
Jiayi's mother said: "You are quite content to be greedy for such a poor mother-in-law."
Wang Jiayi said: "Whether my mother-in-law is poor or rich, good or bad, it doesn't matter. What matters is how the man is. During the time you were here, you also saw Haowen's various performances. At work, he worked hard;
He's good at housework, washing and cooking. He's diligent and does his duty well. What kind of son-in-law are you looking for?"
Jiayi's mother said: "You are looking for a husband, not a nanny. What's the use of just working hard, washing and cooking? Mom would rather you find a man who can't do housework and has a lot of money."
"Mom, you are so vulgar."
"Are you not vulgar? Look at how elegant you are living your life. You owe a lot of debt to the bank and your salary is just a month. You are really elegant."
"Mom, fortunately I am your daughter. If I were your son, you would be so critical and you would not torture your daughter-in-law to death."
Jiayi's mother looked unconvinced: "Am I nitpicking? What I'm telling you is the truth. Marriage is a big deal for a woman. House, car, and money are all indispensable. You're so nice, silly
Just do it like this
I threw it away to others, how can you let me swallow this breath? You said that after graduation, you returned to Chengdu and were with your parents. What kind of good son-in-law can't be found? There are so many sweet fruits that you don't pick, but pick this one.
Eat the bitter fruit."
At this time, the doorbell rang. Sun Haowen went to open the door, and it was Lingzi. Lingzi was holding two plastic bags in each hand, one plastic bag containing fruit, and the other plastic bag containing a processed chicken.
Sun Haowen let Lingzi in and said: "You are a poor student, don't spend money randomly, I have everything here."
Reiko put the fruit on the table and put the chicken in the kitchen. In addition to the chicken, there was also an old wild ginseng. Reiko said: "Now I am going to school and working part-time. After removing the expenses, I still have some savings."
Sun Haowen said: "Girl, buying cosmetics and other things is quite expensive. I don't lack anything. You said you bought a chicken and ginseng. Isn't this a waste of money? I don't need you.
Food?"
Lingzi said: "This is not an ordinary chicken. This is an authentic local chicken. I went to the rural market to buy it. And this ginseng, this is not an ordinary ginseng. My father sent it from my hometown."
Yes, I haven’t been willing to use the old wild ginseng for many years. My sister-in-law is in confinement, so she needs to take a good supplement. The old wild ginseng stewed with native chicken is a great supplement. This is what my mother said. When my mother gave birth to me, she ate this.
The bones of the body recover very quickly.”
Haowen's mother said happily: "In my hometown, I eat this all the time during the confinement period. Local chicken stewed with wild ginseng is a great tonic. It's so good!"
They were communicating in their native dialect. Wang Jiayi and Jiayi's mother heard their conversation, but they couldn't quite understand what they were saying.
Lingzi walked in and greeted politely: "Hello, auntie, hello, sister-in-law." Then, she walked to the crib and looked at the sleeping baby lying in the crib, with a look of affection on her face, "My little niece is so beautiful.
She is so beautiful. In the future, she will be even more beautiful than my sister-in-law, which is really rare."
Just after giving birth, Fan Yunxuan couldn't take a shower yet, but her head was itching unbearably and she wanted to wash her hair.
Jiajun's mother objected: "We can't wash it now."
Junxuan's mother said: "You cannot wash your hair in the bath. As long as the water temperature is appropriate and not too cold, you can wash it. But it is best to wash it with ginger water to prevent dampness from invading the body."
Yunxuan is her daughter. A mother would never harm her daughter. Jiajun’s mother didn’t want to say anything. She went to boil a pot of ginger water. Add cold water to the boiled ginger water and adjust the temperature to a suitable temperature.
Xuan's mother washes Fan Yunxuan's hair.
Guo Jiajun said: "Junxuan is so lucky to have two mothers."
Yunxuan's mother smiled and said: "As a mother, I should love my daughter. Having a mother-in-law to love her is a blessing!"
Junxuan's mother closed the bathroom door and while washing her daughter's hair, she wanted to say some thoughtful words to her daughter.
Yunxuan's mother said: "Children, you still have to take care of them yourself. After all, you are the mother of the child. Even if the child is young, he will soon enter the clear period of attachment relationship. No one can replace the mother in terms of the child's emotional needs.
.”
Fan Yunxuan said: "I originally wanted to live a DINK life, but they forced me to choose to have children. I don't want my life to be so at the mercy of others."
Yunxuan's mother said: "Choice is very important, but commitment to reality is even more important."
Chapter completed!