864. Troubled
After hearing Gu Cheng's inquiry, Shang Yan spread his hands helplessly. After struggling carefully, he felt that there was no need to hide this matter from the other party, so he simply answered the other party's question directly.
"I'm staying at your place today and won't go back. Remember to pack a bed for me. After I finish packing these things later, you can put the baby to sleep. Let's come to the living room to get two bottles of beer and chat for a while."
Now that the other party has talked to this point, Gu Cheng is not such a slow person. Judging from the other party's expression, it is no surprise that there must be some emotional problems between him and Li Nan. As the relationship between the two people gets closer, it has always been
The two people who were separated moved directly to a new house not far from their parents' home.
When couples are in a sweet state, they enter the state of cohabitation together. This is a stage that love and romance must go through, and the two people also want to know each other better and accept each other through this cohabitation experience.
The shortcomings of the other party that are not usually obvious, slowly and wholeheartedly accept the other party, and then smoothly enter the stage of marriage, so they are not so resistant to the current cohabitation matter, and both parents are happy to see it.
After all, if two people can truly live together and get pregnant and give birth to another baby as soon as possible, this is the situation that both parents are most eager to see.
But neither of them has ever experienced living with others before, so when they suddenly enter this state, there will be some uncomfortable situations. Moreover, everyone must be in a normal state in private.
It's different. When you really enter the state of cohabitation, you will find many shortcomings of the other party, such as not changing clothes frequently or stuffing smelly socks everywhere, or other messy habits, which may cause
The other party’s resentment.
Shang Yan and Li Nan are in this running-in state. Originally, the two of them suddenly gained freedom. They truly lived in the same house as a couple and felt nothing but sweetness. But when the passion subsided,
Many differences in life and joints are revealed. For example, Li Nan is a very clean person, and the floor at home basically needs to be kept clean every day. However, last year, this kind of
It is enough to mop the floor once every two or three days. In addition, both of them are hygienic-conscious people and will not throw all kinds of messy things on the ground. Under normal circumstances, the ground
It's quite clean and tidy.
Originally, the differences between the two people on this issue were just a joke, but after this happened more times, everyone became very insistent on their own opinions and beliefs, and naturally the original discussion turned into a quarrel.
It turned into a quarrel. In the end, every time Li Nan urged Shang Yan to complete the cleaning work, it would arouse the other party's resentment. The two people's bickering on this issue has almost become a major factor in intensifying the conflict.
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Originally, when they were arguing about these issues at the beginning, Shang Yan would subconsciously admit his mistake and bow his head, but when he calmed down and really thought about it, he felt that he had not made any mistakes in this matter at all.
That kind of stubbornness suddenly came to mind again, so when facing these problems, I always maintained an unyielding attitude and expressed my true views very forcefully.
Originally, Li Nan was not so satisfied with Shang Yan on these issues. Coupled with the other party's unyielding attitude, it really annoyed him. Originally, Li Nan felt that she was a weak woman. In the process of getting along with her husband,
You should receive preferential treatment from the other party, but in Shangyan's world view, right is right and wrong is wrong, and nothing will change because of the other party's gender and identity.
In the eyes of everyone, it may be a very small thing, but in some subjective consciousness or intention, the two people are in a state of quarrel almost whenever they meet, and Li Nan even really thinks about giving up this relationship and marriage.
After all, in her eyes, Shang Yan didn't seem to truly accept himself at all, nor did he give himself the normal love in his heart, making her feel that she was always a dispensable character.
Shang Yan also feels a little tired of the torture and entanglement of this relationship, because when he communicates and negotiates with other girls, he never seems to have such a hard time, no matter what kind of opinions he expresses, he can
Arouse the admiration of others, unlike Li Nan who always directly refutes his own opinions without mercy, and always sticks to his original position, and even does not forgive himself much no matter what the occasion.
In front of the other party, everything that I was originally proud of, whether it was appearance, figure, family background, or the way I treated girls, seemed to be of no use, and even became a part of the other party's contempt for me, even in the face of the other party.
During the quarrel between the two people, they would hear Li Nan's merciless words, which would hurt Shang Yan's heart.
"If you hadn't been reborn as the second son of a businessman, and you were from an ordinary family, you would definitely be the best example of accomplishing nothing. And after abandoning your family background, there would be no one among the women if you were
Looking at you squarely."
This sentence really made Shang Yan feel very hurt, and to a certain extent, he felt that he was the most viciously criticized. Because of his own family affairs, the injured person became very sensitive for a time, and he was very eager to get
He received recognition and approval from others, but after Li Nan said these words, Shang Yan felt as if he would never be able to get rid of his family's support for him.
He was also really thinking about whether, as Li Nan said, he was a person who had accomplished nothing, and didn't even have any characteristics that made Gree worthy of survival and existence, as Li Nan had said.
When Gu Cheng was on the phone, Shang Yan was sitting alone on the balcony, thinking about these tortured questions. When he received a call for help from his friend, he immediately put aside these questions that were lingering in his mind. First
Time rushed to the scene, ready to lend a helping hand, but after he really calmed down, he felt that there was no way to treat this relationship correctly, and even felt that he would never fall in love, so he wanted to take time out
Chapter completed!