842.Human nature
In the course of the next few days, Gu Cheng did not just stay at home alone. While Sun Ya was still at her job, she could also help him take care of his daughter. He almost
I went through all the social activities around all my relatives and friends to prevent myself from being too busy during the coming Spring Festival, when it would be bad to leave these relationships in the cold.
This time, because there were so many accurate gifts, and because it was the first Spring Festival spent with the other person since I had my daughter, the process was bound to involve passing through this circle of connections that I usually don’t pay much attention to.
Let’s integrate the stages so that you can build a network of people around you that belongs to you in the rest of your life.
After living as a nanny for such a long time, Gu Cheng also realized a truth, that is, never believe in his own strength. In certain matters, since he lives in this relatively complex social group, he must try his best.
Find ways to integrate into this, and at the same time try to develop your own circle of friends, because only in this way, when you face some difficulties, you will not appear so at a loss and overwhelmed.
So this time, he not only visited all the homes of his subordinates, but also put down the gifts that he had carefully selected and prepared. He also made friends with those who might seem to be just chance encounters.
For example, the photographer friend I had a very good chat with before and many other familiar people who don’t seem so inconspicuous in life,
These people were naturally surprised that Gu Cheng suddenly came to visit, and at the same time, they also felt a warm feeling in their hearts. After all, compared to their social status and current abilities,
Gu Cheng naturally means a first-class big shot to them. It is really a very honorable thing for such a big shot to really visit their home.
And Gu Cheng took advantage of this opportunity to really snub people's hearts. At the same time, he also left some relatively approachable impressions on everyone. It can be expected that if Gu Cheng really needs help or needs help later,
When looking for support, these people will definitely step forward and contribute their abilities without hesitation.
After finishing all these trivial matters, the New Year's Eve was getting closer and closer. Two days before the New Year, Gu Cheng was finally able to take some time to talk to Sun Ya about what he had done before the New Year.
At the same time, we have to give the other party a relatively long holiday after being busy for about half a year. In any case, the other party's identity is only the confinement nanny in his family, and the other party also has his own family, relatives and friends.
On this day of family fun, everyone would definitely want to spend as much time as possible with their relatives and friends. After careful calculation, I chose a more suitable day and prepared to go with them.
Discuss the specific holiday time with the other party, and at the same time give corresponding recognition and affirmation to the other party's hard work in the past six months.
Gu Cheng's original idea was to wait for Sun Ya's arrival in the study, and at the same time, he took this opportunity to reorganize the topics that needed to be discussed. However, because Sun Ya had some unfinished work on hand, according to the
The other party wanted Gu Cheng to wait for her in the study for a while, and at the same time, after finishing his work, he came to the study as soon as possible to see what kind of content the other party wanted to talk to him.
While waiting for Sun Ya, Gu Cheng was not idle. What kept popping up in his mind were the changes and conveniences that Sun Ya had brought to his home and his own life in the past six months.
In fact, before he started recruiting confinement nanny, Gu Cheng did not really realize how helpful this profession was to his life. The main reason was that during that time, he was already exhausted from taking care of his baby. The main purpose of looking for confinement nanny was also to
Let himself have some time to breathe and rest. After getting through this difficulty, he still wants to take care of his daughter full-time by himself as much as possible.
Maybe this process will be full of all kinds of bitterness and difficulties, but Gu Cheng didn't feel that way at the time, and he had great confidence in his abilities. He felt that even if there were big difficulties, as long as he worked hard to overcome them on the way
The setbacks I have encountered will eventually come to an end and I will be able to get through this rather painful period of time.
With this mentality and deliberate search, Sun Ya came to his eyes. When he first started working at home, Gu Cheng also had the greatest malice to guess people's hearts, because after all,
There are only two people in his family, himself and his daughter. He cannot fully trust Sun Ya before he is sure of the other person's character.
In other people's homes, there may be various elders and couples taking care of the baby together, so they can basically maintain a lot of attention to the baby. If it is your own, whenever he leaves home, your daughter will be completely in the middle of life.
Under the care of one person, if the other person is really the kind of candidate for confinement nanny with bad character, what kind of treatment his daughter will receive is something Gu Cheng dare not even imagine.
For Gu Cheng, his daughter is not only the only light in the dark days of his life, but also a continuation of his life. She is his biggest concern in the world, and sometimes it is even more important than his own life.
When any crisis arises, he does not want his daughter to experience the unbearableness of this society and the despicability of human nature.
This is a new dad who looks at problems with the utmost softness and defensiveness when encountering problems. At the same time, it is also a reflection of Gu Cheng’s previous life after experiencing so much information explosion and despicable human nature, as well as various questions and problems that tortured human nature.
The subconscious defense after the news.
Gu Cheng always likes to think about a thing with the greatest malice, the possible crises and the various endings he encounters in the end. You must know that about the complexity of human nature, some people may not be able to truly understand it after studying it all their lives.
He said that he can understand and recognize this matter, and that human nature itself is a relatively complex problem. Too many people have seen bullies who are covered in tattoos but can smile at those children. They have also seen too many
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