Chapter 1918 1793 Awkward father and daughter
I felt that if I stayed here again, I might destroy the majestic image I maintained. So Gu Cheng tiptoed and slowly controlled himself with the least movement. When he went down the stairs to the living room, he shared with his girlfriend the scene he had just seen.
Although no sound came out to destroy this particularly miserable cry, sad as if it was abandoned by the world, it can be seen from the two of them's constantly shaking shoulders that the two of them obviously endured their laughter and endured it very hard.
Gu Cheng kept drinking water to calm down his mood, and Jiang Ning also buried his head in the sofa, using a snickering to relieve his mood. Perhaps adults really cannot understand what the child's worldview is, but no one can imagine it. Why do they plunge their heads into a pile and deal with it in an ostrich-like state when encountering sad things?
It has been almost 5 minutes since time passed, and the baby may be tired of crying. The originally sharp crying slowly calmed down. At the same time, the two people's moods gradually calmed down. Perhaps they realized that the child was crying on it, and the two guardians laughed in the living room. It was really not good. They tried to calm down their mood that had been shaken by this funny scene just now.
"Okay, okay, go up and coax it. It's not a big deal to cry like this. Just remember the lesson."
Gu Cheng swallowed a sip of tea again, and then sighed helplessly. In the process of educating children, sometimes it is indeed quite troublesome and headache. The educational method I followed was to never take action and use persuasion education to guide it. However, when encountering some things, even if I was already 10 minutes of suppression, I still couldn't control myself and had the idea of taking action.
Many people may not be able to realize the seriousness of this problem at all, and think that it is just a little bit of a child playing with scissors. After education, it will be over. However, this is not the theme followed in education. When encountering such a situation, you must make the other party remember it very clearly so that you can recall this experience the next time you encounter a similar situation.
Look at the problem from a different perspective. For example, this time I just play with scissors and call the other party to stop, but the other party has no movement. If the scissors are replaced with wires, you should know that it is possible that they are in a state of being in a shortcut and stopping in time. If you stop it in time, it may not cause any danger. But if you don’t learn from this lesson and continue to stop the movement, the result may make people feel particularly regretful.
Or maybe you are converting the matter of playing with scissors to crossing the road. You have already predicted that a car is coming. If the baby cannot stop, he may be injured. However, the baby still does not listen to the adult's guidance and continues to move forward regardless of the situation.
There are many similar examples. The reason why Gu Cheng is so serious is to avoid many things that make him feel particularly sad later.
It may feel that he is worried about it, but he would rather let his daughter remember the lesson this time by getting beaten on weekdays than to wait until the real thing happens, he can only kneel on the ground and cry.
After hearing what his boyfriend said, Jiang Ning nodded, touched two candies from the cabinet next to him and walked towards the stairs. It is unknown how the two of them communicated, but it is obvious that the other party is much better than him.
When the baby came out, there was a candy wrapped in his mouth, still with tears in his eyes, lying on the aunt's shoulder, sobbing quietly, but looking at the other party's dependence, he almost walked out of the lesson of being beaten just now.
Originally, his mood had calmed down, but when his daughter came out, Gu Cheng still looked very angry to disguise himself, but his eyes often looked at him secretly, and he used his light to observe his daughter's expression and every move. When he saw a look of guilt on his daughter's face, his whole body felt much more relieved.
"Okay, don't cry anymore. Look at how you made your dad angry. Do you remember this time? Why did dad beat you up?"
Holding the baby in his arms and carefully soothe the other person's emotions, Jiang Ning also spoke up to act as a peacemaker, lowered his head to ask the baby for the specific reasons, and saw if the other person remembered the lesson this time.
"Because I'm playing with scissors."
The baby whispered to the aunt, lowered his head at the same time, without any expression, but the sob sounds kept twitching from his body.
Seeing that the baby was indeed feeling a little regretful, Jiang Ning patiently continued to explain and educate. Being beaten was just a process and means, not to try to punish the baby. His real idea was to hope that when encountering similar situations in the future, the other party could make the right choice.
“对吧,你还是做错事了,爸爸才会打你的,平时爸爸又不会揍你,爸爸多爱你啊,对不对?爸爸都明明说了,让你停下动作,你应该第一时间放下手里的东西不能够再继续了,不然的话你受伤了怎么办?你下次记住了吗?”
"Um."
Although the baby was also very aggrieved, his emotions became much more stable under the guidance of his aunt. He also realized the mistakes he made during the process. He fiddled with the corner of his clothes with some anxiety, and would occasionally look up at his father with his eyes.
"Okay, then since you know you are wrong, you have to apologize to your father. Is it okay? Look at you making your father so angry. A disobedient baby is not a good baby. If you want to be a polite good baby, you must say sorry in time. This is the attitude of being sorry after making a mistake."
With the encouragement of the aunt, although the baby was a little reluctant, or was afraid of his father's face that he had just beaten him, he still mustered up the courage and moved his steps in small steps. Gu Cheng seemed to pretend to be careless, but his eyes still showed a hint of expectation.
"sorry!"
"I can't hear what you said?"
"Dad, I'm sorry."
"Okay, I know."
He pretended to be fiddling with his cell phone. He wanted to hold his daughter in his arms and comfort her well at this moment, but Gu Cheng still pretended to be serious and waved his hands indifferently. Finally, the baby after apologizing, as if he had lifted some burden in his heart. He ran back to his aunt and pierced his head into the other person's arms. When Jiang Ning saw the father and daughter's pretending and awkward look, he rolled his eyes helplessly.
Chapter completed!