1607.Social etiquette
"Hmm~"
When Gu Cheng woke up from his sleep, he felt as if a huge mountain had climbed on his chest. Not only was he pressed so hard that he couldn't breathe so smoothly, but he also felt that the quality of his sleep had been at a low level under this pressure.
There is even an inexplicable feeling of fatigue when half asleep, which is completely opposite to the effect of replenishing physical strength through sleep.
He opened his eyes with difficulty, and when he looked up, he saw his daughter's head lying on his chest. Her breathing was very slow. It seemed that if nothing unexpected happened, the quality of her sleep was worsened, and she even felt a kind of sleep all the time.
The culprit of the oppressive feeling is the other person.
He carefully moved the opponent's sleeping battlefield from his chest to the sofa next to him. Then he immediately sat up straight and picked up the tea that had already cooled down next to him. He drank it all in one breath. This kind of mixed feeling
The feeling of restraint had slowed down a little. When he raised his head, he found that Li's mother and his girlfriend Jiang Ning were staring at her movements with bright eyes. When they saw her eyes shift, they immediately showed a look.
A very bright smile.
"Are you awake? You've been sleeping for two hours, and it's already three o'clock in the afternoon. Do you want to sleep for a while longer?"
Although there were some complaints and complaints in the words, you could clearly feel the other party's unabashed concern. After all, the other party immediately stood up after finishing speaking, filled his empty cup with another cup of tea, and at the same time
He also took out a paper towel from the side and wiped his forehead because of the cold sweat caused by being too nervous and experiencing a sudden decrease in pressure.
"Did you sleep for that long? I don't even know yet. Why don't you sleep? Let's go home when I can take a breath."
Gu Cheng rubbed his temples with some difficulty. This feeling of being hungover and not fully awake yet actually made people feel a little uncomfortable. Compared with the smoothness of drinking at the wine table, this kind of drinking has a negative impact on the body.
The torture and suffering are the most unbearable. Every time I suffer from this feeling, I repeatedly warn myself to stop drinking. However, the next time I encounter a similar situation, I will
I feel that without the aid of alcohol, it seems that it is not so suitable and appropriate for this kind of occasion, and it breaks my original bottom line and routine again.
"Why are you in a hurry? Let's leave later, after dinner. I was just saying that I was going to make dinner by the way. You guys just finished dinner and were waiting for Kuizi to come back and sit together to chat and then leave. You
Now that you are still awake after drinking, and the children are still sleeping, why are you in such a hurry to leave? Do you have anything else to deal with in the afternoon? "
While Gu Cheng was rubbing his temples vaguely, trying to regain consciousness, Jiang Ning had not yet reacted to the above words. On the contrary, Mother Li next to him seemed a little unhappy, and a series of urgent words came from his mouth.
Li said it one after another, and judging from the look on his face, it seemed that he was not preparing to leave and say goodbye now because he really couldn't understand it.
"I won't have dinner. We often meet with Brother Kui. I went to the company to visit him some time ago. We also often have gatherings in private. There is no need to stay for dinner. We just have some lunch in the afternoon.
Things need to be dealt with, mainly because there are some things in Jiang Ning's company that need approval. As the boss of the company, he definitely needs to be on site. If I have a chance next time, I will definitely come over, and I will often take the time to visit the two elders. "
Although Gu Cheng was in poor condition at the moment, he still continued to explain carefully in the face of Mother Li's eyes filled with eager concern and urgency, and at the same time, he quietly transferred the blame-taking thing.
When it comes to his girlfriend, it’s not that he doesn’t want to stay here to continue the dinner. I believe that no guest in the world can sit in someone else’s house from noon to 10 minutes late at night before going home again. This is obviously not consistent with the usual
The process of being a guest even makes me feel that it may not be so appropriate. Sometimes, a brief taste of this kind of visit is enough. Staying in this place for a long time will not only destroy the other person's normal work and rest habits, but may also cause problems.
It brings a lot of trouble to the other party.
Instead of having a great time at this gathering, it is better to keep this expectation for the next visit. In addition, after this start, I will bring my girlfriend and daughter to visit next time.
At that time, the attitudes of the two people may not be the same. They were so resistant and unfamiliar at the beginning. After the foundation of the first meeting and the relationship between the two parties, the number of times they can come will definitely be much more than imagined. It is completely
There is no need to consume all your enthusiasm all at once.
Jiang Ning, who was originally listening to her, was suddenly blamed by her boyfriend. She rolled her eyes at him with some dissatisfaction. It was obviously your decision, so why would you combine such a name with someone else's?
The question was thrown to himself, but in this situation, he would not reveal the other party's intentions, but took over the conversation with a helpless look.
"That's right, I may have to go to the company later to take care of some things. I'm really sorry, but the next time we come over it will be the same, so we won't bother uncles and aunts. You guys should pack up and have dinner early.
Take a rest, let’s come as early as possible next time and save all the time, so that we can spend more time together.”
Originally, if Gu Cheng had spoken, Mother Li might have had quite a few reasons to refute, but now that Jiang Ning had spoken, no matter what her own emotions and attitudes were, she had to make concessions at this time and made a decision.
With a very pityful attitude, he had no choice but to accept this reality. He stood up and helped pack the luggage he had brought, such as the baby's toys, milk powder and packages, and at the same time he had to select the gifts the other party had brought.
Leave some behind and let the other party take back most of the savings.
As a woman who has been dealing with this kind of social etiquette all her life, she is already familiar with this kind of thing. Although the other party came to visit you with very grand and rich gifts, you did not say that you left them all.
Choosing some things means that you accept the other person's wishes, and letting the other person take back the other things. This is a suitable way to get along with each other, instead of directly intercepting all the things the other party sends over like a big spender.
Chapter completed!