1456. Father Shang’s thoughts
While Shang Yan was shouting and howling in pain, his father kept a quiet posture. He originally wanted to use this momentum to create an unforgettable memory for his son, but unexpectedly he let himself listen.
I heard some voices that I never had the chance to hear before.
Speaking of which, it seems that my way of disciplining my two sons has always been a bit strict, but for me, this is a common thing, because I also grew up in this way when I was young, and I have never had it.
I feel that there are some problems with this kind of education. More importantly, the reason why I have always rejected those crooked ways is because the education I received when I was young allowed me to maintain my bottom line and principles very well.
Let’s not talk about when my family was relatively poor. As my family’s wealth increases, the number of people it comes into contact with becomes more and more diverse. If I don’t have a tough attitude to exercise restraint, my two
This son has been around for a long time, and under the guidance of those who helped him with ill-intentions, he embarked on those crooked ways that he didn't want to be exposed to.
It is precisely because he attaches great importance to his two sons and hopes to make each other's future life brighter and more glorious that he maintains his long-standing principles with a tough mentality and believes that filial sons emerge from under the stick.
, the identity of a father is always full of majesty and intimidation for boys. If there is a girl in the family, the situation may be reversed.
Maybe it was because he was too strict when he was a child. After passing through the rebellious period and truly becoming adults, the two sons seemed to be full of fear of themselves from the bottom of their hearts. They even subconsciously maintained a fearful mentality towards themselves. Fear.
Naturally, I enjoy it with some respect, but if I maintain this attitude for a long time, it will make it impossible for the relationship between father and son to become closer. If there are some things buried in my heart, I may not be able to truly communicate.
Perhaps because of my belief in the eldest son inheritance system, I have always focused most of my attention on teaching my eldest son to take over his business. But when my second son just became an adult, I could not help but neglect him.
But I am also worried that the other party may learn bad things, so I can only treat the other party with a more severe attitude. I have maintained this attitude for a long time, and it seems that I have developed corresponding habits, but I always have no way to reverse it.
Come here, sometimes you are very concerned about each other's life, but the words you say are more like scolding, making the relationship between father and son that may have eased become farther and farther away.
The main reason why I am so angry today is not because of what kind of industry Shang Yan is engaged in. I do not really approve of my son going to bars and spending money. I even rejected it for a long time.
But I didn't expect that my own rejection and reprimand could not stop my son's behavior. The other party was also an adult with his own thoughts. He could act freely and had no imagination of the deterrent effect his majesty had on the other party.
It's so strong.
The main reason why he doesn't want his son to go to bars and spend money is not because he has any discrimination against this industry. As a veteran businessman who started from scratch and worked hard to reach his current status, the relationship between people in their era
The competition and the intrigues in the shopping mall are even more fierce. When the laws and regulations are not so clear, I have also experienced a lot of things, and I am not as rigid as everyone thinks.
But it has to be said that in the final analysis, there are indeed some hidden evils in the bar industry. Even in this place and the place where desires are poured out, there will always be various crimes, and it is the cradle of many criminals.
.Out of concern and love for his children, he really does not want his son to have too close contact with these groups of people, let alone the possibility of his children having any contact with them.
Although the bar industry itself does not have any problems, the people who come to the bar are a mixed bag. I have finally spent so much effort to educate my two children to be very upright, but I don’t want to, because of my negligence when they grow up.
, allowing the other party to embark on a path different from what he expected. In fact, he did not have too many requirements for the two children. The other party could abide by the law and stand upright in the sun without any
The emotion of fear.
Maybe it's also because the father and son have less communication, so Shang Yan actually has some misunderstandings about his father. The biggest reason for these misunderstandings is that he always feels that his father doesn't have any care and love for him.
Everything I have done has never been truly recognized, and it is because I am always the ineffective one in the eyes of the other party. But sometimes, it is clear that what the other party wants to express is words of concern and encouragement, but it is because of the different way of speaking.
It also led to many deviations in the original meaning.
After Shang Yan's father really calmed down, he carefully thought about the information he had investigated. He had to say that his second son was somewhat similar to himself. He did have a lot of talent in business, and he could turn someone into a businessman.
The stagnant industry has been turned upside down, and it has revitalized the general atmosphere through its own means. It is also because of the existence of this self-run bar that it has stimulated the local market and forced everyone to start changing. It is also a relatively excellent business method.
Moreover, according to the knowledge of the officials he is familiar with, there are almost no crimes in his son's bar. The requirements in this regard have always been relatively strict, and there is even a saying among those who are in love with bar consumption.
If you want to truly experience the feeling of a bar instead of having some other purpose, then Shangyan's bar is the best place to go.
The most important thing is that my son, from preparing the bar to now, has done almost everything by himself, without relying on others or relying on the power of the family business. More importantly, after experiencing so much experience,
Both his son's attitude towards others and the way he gets along with others have undergone earth-shaking changes. It makes me feel that the other person has indeed grown and matured a lot. The experience of this bar and this entrepreneurial stage has brought great changes to him.
Chapter completed!