After the two of them had finished drinking and eating, they lay down on a lounge chair on one side, leisurely enjoying the afternoon sunshine and digesting the feeling of fullness at the same time.

I have to say that although I was not very interested in fishing at the beginning, after today’s experience, I did find some fun. The most important thing is that I feel extremely peaceful inside during the fishing process.

While observing my fishing rod on the recliner, enjoying this moment of tranquility, I felt very comfortable and free in my heart.

While sitting on the recliner, I was able to take time to communicate with the friends next to me about my life experience during this period and share interesting things in life. The two dads chatted together, and the most talked about topic was naturally their children. After listening,

After the other party complained, Gu Cheng felt very lucky. Fortunately, his child was a daughter, who was much more well-behaved than boys. If he were also a son, he might have far more troubles in his life than he does now.

many.

Maybe it was because a friend shared it with him, Lan Ziqin also rarely opened up the conversation much more often than he thought the other party would talk to him. Not only did he complain about himself and the unsatisfactory things at work, he also talked about the troubles in life.

As soon as he talked it out, Gu Cheng took on the role of a listener very well, expressing his opinions angrily from time to time, and most of the time he considered the problem from the other person's perspective.

Originally, Gu Cheng thought that Lan Ziqin should have relatively few worries in his life. After all, he had a glamorous career and was envied as a university professor. In addition, he had many interests and hobbies at a young age, and his life was

It should be able to meet your needs very well, and at the same time, your worries will be reduced a lot. However, after listening to the other party's sharing, I discovered that every family has a hard time to recite, and the discomfort behind the scenes is hidden as much as possible.

As a university professor, the other party not only has to bear the mental and physical exertion in the workplace, but also needs to try his best to be harmonious with this class. In daily life, he also needs to take time to deal with his parents' push for marriage and spare some of his energy.

To control his children's problems, he seemed to have completely lost himself. He didn't have much energy to devote to himself. This kind of life made him feel very troubled and boring, and he even felt a little self-defeating at one time.

a feeling of.

But in fact, from my own point of view, compared to many people, Lan Ziqin’s life is actually more comfortable and comfortable. People should not put all their thoughts on themselves as much as possible. At the same time, if you feel that your life is unhappy

If so, you can make some comparisons with other people. When you find that you don’t have a pair of new shoes and cry, you will find that there are so many people in the world who don’t even have feet. After having this understanding and experience,

A lot of unhappiness will disappear.

But sometimes advice is offensive. From your own point of view, you should not express it directly with straightforward words. Instead, you should use some euphemistic words and enlighten the other party from some roundabout angles. This is what you should do.

As a friend, speaking frankly about your feelings may not be so comfortable for the other party, and it will also have a certain impact on everyone's feelings.

However, it can be clearly felt that the other party's mood has become much more relaxed after complaining. The fishing work that night continued until the evening. It was not until the sky around them felt that it was getting dark that the two of them embarked on the journey home.

Almost everyone gained a lot from the whole day's struggle, and the final result was naturally Gu Cheng's victory. Perhaps he took advantage of the aura of having just come into contact with this hobby. He obviously received blessings from the gods today.

However, before they parted ways, he still divided some of his rich harvest among his friends, at least to make the other person's harvest look less shabby, and the other person who received his kindness did not have the intention to refuse. Because his son is more

Because I like to eat fish, having these gifts can save me the time and waste of going to the vegetable market to buy. Moreover, compared to the large-scale culture of meat in the vegetable market, the prey I catch myself seems to have a better taste.

A little more delicate.

I have to say that Lan Ziqing's service is quite good. Because the two of them had agreed before, they didn't drive the car when they came out today. The other party still followed the order of picking up and dropping off her in the morning and sent her back first.

After returning home, he said farewell before embarking on his journey home. Gu Cheng was carrying a lot of harvests and clothes with a fishy smell on his face. He couldn't suppress the harvest.

Smiling, he stepped onto the elevator of his home.

"Hey, brother, where did you catch this? The fish are quite big."

While waiting for the elevator, I struck up a conversation with a man who seemed to have met him a few times in the community but had basically not communicated with him. When the neighbor saw the fish in Gu Cheng's net bag, he was completely surprised and pleasantly surprised.

This is also a relatively novel experience for Gu Cheng. Sometimes this is what boys focus on. If a fishing enthusiast sees someone on the road who has just returned from a fishing spot, he will definitely subconsciously go up and chat.

Sharing your experiences about fishing with each other is also a way to open up a social circle.

Just like two boys playing the same game in an Internet cafe, when they subconsciously see each other's game interface, regardless of whether they are familiar with each other, they will subconsciously step forward to familiarize themselves with each other, and at the same time give their own suggestions for the game.

Share your game experience, and you may not leave contact information, but at least both of you will be happy during the communication process.

"In the pond outside the city, there are a lot of fish there and the scenery is pretty good. They are pure wild ones. Do you want them? I'll send you two back to taste them."

Although Gu Cheng is relatively opposed to this kind of relatively unfamiliar social interaction, since the other party has already revealed his good feelings, he is not the kind of character who refuses to stay away from others. He followed the other party's words and shared his fishing place, and at the same time made a

I used my kindness and gifts as a way of communication. After all, we all live in the same community. There must be many opportunities to meet each other on weekdays. It is better to have some kindness. After all, distant relatives are not as good as

Be a close neighbor.
Chapter completed!