1324. Lessons
After staying in his father's arms for a short while, the baby seemed to have lost interest in the pollen in his hand. He usually broke free and jumped from the poster to the ground, and ran to the toy box next to him with great interest to rummage around. My other toys.
And this kind of rummaging seemed to have a certain purpose. After careful search, he immediately discovered his original target. A cleaned children's drawing board appeared in front of Gu Cheng. After his daughter got this toy, Immediately, he ran back to his original position very happily. While putting the previous drawing book in front of him, he opened the children's special drawing board in a decent manner.
Just when he was very puzzled about the reason for his daughter's actions, and watched the other party imitating the pictures in the picture book and drawing similar pictures on the drawing board, he suddenly understood that his daughter wanted to take pictures. Use the above look as an object for your own painting.
When he saw this, he was even more surprised to find that his daughter had mastered so many skills without knowing it, and he seemed to be a little too negligent in his daily life, missing the process of his daughter learning these things, and He didn't pay attention to the other person, and slowly became so knowledgeable.
Although the drawn lines are still a little imperfect, at least I can draw a complete circle in the shape of an apple, and it even has a decent shape. A leaf is used as a decoration at the center of the circle. This kind of imitation ability is far beyond that of children of the same age.
Because compared to other picture books, the picture book itself is full of many functions that are more child-friendly. For example, although the pen on the drawing board can also draw pictures in other places, pictures are mainly drawn on the drawing board. When eucalyptus, you can have a special eraser to wipe it clean for easy reuse. But the baby holds the paintbrush in one hand and the eraser in the other, and wipes while drawing at the same time, which seems a bit awkward. He was running around in a hurry, but his serious expression looked so cute that Gu Cheng couldn't bear to disturb him.
Time passed by unknowingly while the father and daughter were playing and interacting. After feeling that his interest and heart had been almost exhausted, the baby stretched helplessly and stretched his body again. The toys were placed according to the previous arrangement and stuffed back into their own toy box. After finishing these tasks, they patted the non-existent dust on their hands in a decent manner and looked like they were themselves. Looking miserable.
Regarding education in this area, I have to say that Jiang Ning’s training is quite good. In fact, Gu Cheng has always been very patient with his children, but it is inevitable that there will be some doting. What if his daughter runs away? If he is a big deal, he will not hesitate to reprimand and teach the other person, but for some small details and minor problems in daily life, he does not have the heart to vent such emotions on the other person, and can only patiently repeat them over and over again. Repeat these words of guidance to your daughter.
However, sometimes in the process of education, this kind of verbal guidance is not always on target. When children follow the instructions of adults, they will subconsciously forget some information that they don't like. Even if the father has made this taboo situation clear,
I have repeated it many times, but when I encounter this situation again next time, I will still adopt the same handling method as before.
Therefore, the correct way of education is to give both kindness and power. One of the two people should act as a white-faced white lotus, and one person should act as a red-faced person. Only through this mutual contrast can the baby truly remember these things that need to be learned in life in his own mind.
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The habit of playing with toys and putting them back into the baby's toy box correctly was also developed through Jiang Ning's deliberate training. Before, the baby also had the same hobby as other children.
When playing with toys, I always like to pour out all the toys and spread them all over the floor of the living room. After I lose interest, I don’t care where the toys go and just do other interesting things on my own.
Things of interest only left a mess on the floor, waiting for adults to deal with and clean up.
Although this is just a small hobby, it will not cause any major troubles in normal life, but educating children should start from these small details and cultivate their ability to complete their own things independently, so as to guide them.
The other person's character is developing in a good direction.
Gu Cheng was always helpless in the face of this situation, because he couldn't bear to scold his child, and he didn't know what kind of method should be used to educate the baby accordingly. Fortunately, Jiang Ning took over
After doing this work, I found a solution very well, and it also served as a warning, because the baby obediently followed this habit and slowly started to obey.
At that time, the method chosen by the other party seemed to be relatively novel. He told the baby that if the toys were not put back into the toy box after playing, they might be stolen by some mice, and these mice would steal the baby's toys.
Then go home and treat it as their paradise. In this way, the baby may never see these favorite toys again, and the toys will not be found the next time they want to play.
At the beginning, this statement did not arouse the baby's greater vigilance. Instead, he continued to follow this routine. After getting used to it, he remembered to scatter the toys on the floor without making any preparations to clean them up. But when he saw the baby's toys, he
When they were scattered on the ground, Jiang Ning directly used another box to collect the scattered toys, put them in the bottom layer of the storage room and sealed them tightly until the baby fixed them according to his usual habits.
When I was looking for traces of toys during the period, all I could see was an empty toy box and a clean floor.
Although I felt very sad about this result, I couldn't help crying on the ground, looking for those toys I liked. But this lesson really made the baby remember this habit, that is, after playing with the toys
, must be put back into the toy box on time, so as to keep the safety of the toys in your toy box.
After the baby cried for a while, Jiang Ning knelt down next to the baby with a gentle face and repeated the concept and the habits that needed to be maintained. After seeing that the baby had indeed understood what he said, Jiang Ning pretended
Chapter completed!