1273. Parents’ extravagant wishes
My daughter has a habit, but she is very clear about it. If the quality of the other person's sleep is not as good as imagined, or the sleep duration is not as long as usual, then when the other person is awake, she will have a bad time. 10 minutes of suffering and discomfort.
The other person will cry and cry for the whole morning, and will become more lively until the sleep is completely replenished. Moreover, the other person's crying does not mean that he can clearly express his thoughts and wishes, but that even a very small Anything may cause the other person to cry alone, and he will always ask for a hug from his father, making him even more delicate and coquettish than usual.
After this situation happened several times, Gu Cheng felt that it was a great experience and test for his endurance. On the one hand, he knew very well the reason why the other party was in this situation, and he had no way to get angry at the other party. On the one hand, always hearing this kind of crying sound around you will make people feel a little upset, and they may even subconsciously be unable to suppress their irritable emotions.
Therefore, when his daughter is sleeping, Gu Cheng will subconsciously reduce all his movements, and try his best not to disturb the other party's normal sleep, hoping that the other party's physical strength and energy can be replenished through sleep, and the whole person is still Being in a lively state as usual, instead of crying in another mode, will not only make it difficult for you to deal with it, but may even take up a lot of your energy to pay attention to the other person.
I stood there and stretched my waist. After thinking about it, I didn't seem to have anything else to do in the afternoon, so I simply cleaned up my personal hygiene, changed into more comfortable clothes, and then lay down in the second bedroom next to me. Just a quick refresher on sleep. Because I have a daughter, it is almost impossible to stay in bed every morning.
Sometimes I don’t understand how children come to be. With so much energy to make themselves lively, even adults find it overwhelming, but they still play tirelessly until late every night, and The next morning, he would wake up early according to his biological clock, so the adults who finally wanted to stay in bed all day could only break their original plans and completely lose sleep due to their daughter's urging and interruption over and over again.
Therefore, for Gu Cheng, if he can seize any opportunity to replenish his sleep, he will definitely do it and will not miss any opportunity. Sometimes having children is a happy thing for him, not only It has brought great changes to my stagnant life and made me more responsible.
But sometimes I feel that the appearance of children has changed and disrupted many of my original rhythms of life. Not only did I lose a lot of freedom, I even lost the ability to control my own life. After all, people with children Life is always full of surprises. Everything that happens in your life will completely overthrow everything you originally envisioned and planned, and start over again. This is a process that is both happy and somewhat tangled and painful.
When Gu Cheng woke up from his sleep, he immediately saw his girlfriend who was helping to fix her clothes in his room. He quietly sat up from the bed and stretched with a lazy look on his face. It must be said that there was
When you feel a little tired, you can feel refreshed through proper sleep.
Naturally, the other party immediately noticed the noise coming from the bed. After turning his eyes away, he also asked about the other party's experience and reflections on visiting friends this time. It was a pity that he could not accompany him.
It’s something that happened, so naturally I want to know more details about visiting friends.
Gu Cheng, on the other hand, leaned on the side of the bed, took the warm water that the other party next to him had prepared for him, drank it in one gulp, moistened his dry throat, and then told the other party everything he had experienced this morning.
It is also the most important way for two people to communicate on a daily basis. By sharing your life with the other person, you can let the other person understand some of your habits and have a more comprehensive grasp of yourself, giving the other person more sense of security, and at the same time, it also allows the other person to connect with you.
Our lives are closely related and intertwined with each other.
When I heard that the baby behaved politely in other people's homes, and did not have any conflicts with other children, even during play, they could be as humble as I taught them to do, and they were also polite when facing their elders.
Being able to say hello to each other, there was a lingering sense of relief on Jiang Ning's face.
Regarding the issue of children's education, Jiang Ning actually had the same idea as Gu Cheng. They did not expect their children to achieve much, but at least they had a lovable personality, full of integrity and kindness, and could treat others well.
Many disadvantaged groups have a certain degree of compassion, and at the same time they are very perfect in etiquette. It is enough to live an upright life with no shame in their heart.
Sometimes it's easier said than done. Not every parent can think like two people. Such an open-minded and open-minded hope that their sons will succeed and their daughters will succeed has happened frequently in this land. Parents hope that they can put their parents' dreams into perspective.
The life goals that have been achieved are imposed on one's own children, hoping that through the personal experience that one originally regretted, the other person can work harder and live a smoother life as much as possible.
But one thing I have never considered is that everyone is an independent self. Even parents should not excessively control other people's lives. Although sometimes, children may face many things and temptations without much resistance.
Resistance, but even if you encounter headaches and blood flow in society, this is also a part of your own growth and life. Going too smoothly may create an overwhelmed seedling that cannot carry out its normal activities after the old man leaves.
life planning and living.
The two of them never expected that their child would be such a great person. For them, there are too many talented people in the world, and there are countless people who save the world and lead the development of the world.
Sometimes shouldering so many major responsibilities is not something that is too joyful and happy. On the contrary, being ordinary is a real blessing and luck.
Chapter completed!