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1267. A warm lunch

 Sometimes, the elderly are actually relatively lonely in their lives. There is too much generation gap with young people, and there may be no way to communicate on many topics. At the same time, they also have completely different attitudes and views on problems.

This may lead to fewer and fewer topics between the elderly and young people. In addition to necessary chat content, they also try to maintain a posture of not disturbing each other in life.

But in fact, in the process of life, the elderly have quite a lot of life experience that can be shared, and these experiences of the other party seem to be relatively old-fashioned and traditional. When encountering certain things, they can still learn from many different experiences.

Knowledge and solutions. When the process treats the elderly, he always treats them with a more respectful attitude. When the other party talks about their problems and experiences, even though he may not use them at all, he will maintain an attitude of listening carefully.

, echo the other party as much as possible.

Sometimes being good at listening is also a magic weapon for interacting with others. When the other party talks about the problem, correcting one's attitude is also a way of respecting others. It is precisely because of this that Lan Ziqin's mother actually has a good heart for Gu Cheng.

His sensitivity is far higher than that of others, and he even recognizes each other very much. This good guy who seems kind-hearted and respects the elderly very much. After a short while of chatting and sharing experiences, the two people seem to have created a deep relationship.

Friendship, the other party's attitude towards Gu Cheng became more enthusiastic, and the original unfamiliar title also transformed into the relationship between aunt and nephew.

Although Lan Ziqin may be more respectful and filial to his mother in life, these filial piety and respect are only superficial, and he does not understand that what the elderly really need is not only companionship, but sometimes more communication.

After marrying his wife, the other person became a little taciturn in life. This is actually not a relatively normal life attitude. When the elderly see it, it hurts their hearts even more, and they slowly lose a lot of emotions.

Being suppressed in the heart is also very detrimental to normal physical health.

Through today's exchange and chat with Gu Cheng, the other party's mother felt very fulfilled and comfortable inside, and even had a sense of satisfaction that she had not had for a long time. She looked at Gu Cheng with more appreciation and praise.

So after Lan Ziqin finally came out of the kitchen, what he saw was that the other party's daughter was playing very happily with his son. The two were playing relatively childish games, and the joyful laughter of silver bells was ringing.

The whole room was covered, and the mother and friend sitting on the sofa on the other side seemed to have become a pair of friends. It seemed that he had not seen his mother's hearty and cheerful smile for a long time, and Gu Cheng also matched the other's smile,

It seemed that the communication was very smooth, which made me feel very surprised and shocked.

"What are you talking about? Why are you so happy? I heard your laughter in the kitchen. And Mom, how come you two are still talking?"

While wiping the water stains on his hands from working in the kitchen, Lan Ziqin asked curiously. After hearing the other party's inquiry, Lan's mother naturally rolled her eyes at him with dissatisfaction and showed no mercy.

showed his position.

"I'm telling you, you don't care what we talk about. You don't usually chat with me and you don't allow others to chat with me? And is your meal ready? Go to the refrigerator and take out the beef and cut it.

A plate, and those good tea leaves you put, hurry up and take them out to entertain the guests. I tell you that Gu Cheng is now my nephew, and I am already his aunt. When you interact with others in the future, you must

Be patient with the other person. After all, you are older and cannot bully others easily. If I hear him complain, I will not spare you."

Seeing his mother's completely different attitude, he was a little dumbfounded for a moment. He didn't expect that he just went into the kitchen to make a meal, and the other party actually captured his mother so smoothly. Now.

She seems to be an independent person at home, and her son is almost impossible to count on. As long as there are playmates, the other party seems to have forgotten the existence of his father. And now his mother actually stands in the other party's position.

Above, this made me feel very hurt, and even made me feel isolated and helpless.

"Okay, okay, I listen to you. I'll get the best tea. Besides, no one is bullying the other in our relationship. We are just friends with similar interests. I won't invite people to my house for dinner."

Okay? This doesn’t show that I take enough care of you. You are really like this. After a brief chat with someone, you forgot about your son. Okay, okay, everyone is washing their hands and getting ready to eat. I have already cooked the food.

It’s almost done.”

He shrugged helplessly and sighed. Lan Ziqin's words were also full of resentment, but he was actually quite happy to see his mother in this state. Maybe it was because he was not very good at expressing himself.

Although I am relatively close to my mother due to emotional reasons, I really don’t have many better ways to communicate in daily life.

The appearance of Gu Cheng put a smile on his mother's face that she had not seen for a long time, which also made her make up her mind to invite her to come to her home more often, so as to keep her mother in a happy mood as much as possible.

, at the same time, my heart is full of joy when the other party comes. This seems to have set off a new wave in my long-term living situation, and it also gives me a completely different feeling. Since I met the other party, my life seems to have changed.

It has also become more vivid, completely different from the previous state of a pool of stagnant water.

After hearing what the other party said, Lan Mu naturally invited Gu Cheng to stand up immediately and go to the living room to sit down first. While she stayed here, the two children came to the bathroom next to them. After cleaning their hands, they hugged the two children respectively.

On different stools, one child should be on your left as much as possible, and the other child should be on your right, so that you can take care of both.

Influenced by Gu Cheng, she may also have some thoughts of loving Wujiwu. The current Lan mother is also very happy with the existence of the baby. Seeing this lively little girl who is completely different from her usual grandson, she seems to feel it too.

The vitality is majestic, and the eyes that look at each other inwardly are full of praise and love.

When Lan Ziqin placed the last soup in the middle of the dining table, all the dishes were thoroughly prepared, and he warmly greeted everyone to sit down. After everyone sat down, he looked at the rich lunch and felt
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