Shang Yan once asked himself whether he really had feelings for his girlfriend, and whether the two decided to really get together because it was more suitable at this moment. After thinking about it for many days, he finally came to the conclusion.

I got an answer. Maybe I was just perfunctory at the beginning, and my feelings for my girlfriend were not as sincere as I thought. But after getting along for such a long time, I have developed a deeper understanding of my girlfriend’s personality, habits, and overall appearance.

, are very satisfied with their moral character, and hope to have the possibility of spending a lifetime with each other hand in hand. This is the real beginning of taking this emotion seriously.

The most sincere change is that since he got a girlfriend, Shang Yan can pat his chest and guarantee that he has never been ambiguous with any girl again, and even deliberately distanced himself from girls. Even the most normal greetings are subconscious.

Think about your girlfriend's feelings and try to be as restrained as possible.

And the whole person has also canceled the state of drunkenness and dreaming as before. Although I have never found a job that I can struggle and work hard for my whole life, at least during this time, I go out to play and spend money in various places a lot less.

The former friendly friends have become a lot more distant, and there is a feeling of renewal and change.

Before finding a bar and thinking of it as his own career, the place Shang Yan went to most was an Internet company. Although he did not maintain a nine-to-five job like other office workers, at least he was very good at this kind of work attitude.

I hope my girlfriend can see this change in me and have more confidence in myself, so that the two of them can get along more harmoniously.

My girlfriend was very satisfied with the change in Shang Yan at first, but people are like this, they have desires. When he gets something, he hopes that you can be better, and thinks that you can achieve it easily.

If you set your own standards, it probably means you have not maximized your potential. I hope you can continue to move forward, do better, and work harder.

And Shang Yan is also actively making changes, trying to be as perfect as possible according to his girlfriend's wishes. When he became aware of the bar industry, he was very interested in it, liked it very much, and enjoyed being a bar operator.

When he experienced this, he began to burst out with great enthusiasm, and even neglected this kind of thing. His girlfriend originally asked him to do it, but he put his whole heart and soul into this career.

But at this time, my girlfriend seemed not so satisfied, because when Shang Yan was in charge of the bar decoration before, he did almost everything by himself, whether it was the purchase of various decorative items, the determination of the decoration style, and various

The training and establishment of the process as well as the initial working standards of the bar were all completed by Shang Yan himself. While maintaining high-intensity work, it was naturally a lot more comfortable for his family. Originally, Shang Yan felt that since he had already moved on.

On the right path, my girlfriend should fully praise my work attitude at this moment, but I didn't expect that the results were not as I expected. The other party even criticized me recently. The two of them

There are even more conflicts between them than when I started wandering.

Maybe it's because Shang Yan has less experience in dating before. Although his relationship with girls is relatively ambiguous, most of those girls approach him because of their family background or with the dream of marrying into a rich family. He

The number of times I have been in love is still relatively small. Naturally, I am not as understanding and familiar with emotional matters as I imagined. Faced with the obstacles and frustrations in getting along with each other, I feel a little helpless and blocked for a while.

Even the whole person seemed depressed and unhappy.

He wanted to find some people to ask for advice or learn from as many experiences as possible, but he was also a face-saving person and didn't want others to know that he was an emotional idiot when he was living among the thousands of flowers in the bar industry.

It would inevitably have a great impact and change on their own image, and they could only suppress these things in their hearts as much as possible. The two of them relied on this cold war method to stick to their original ideas, looking forward to the day when the other party could

Think through this matter, or make a concession first and return to the perfect emotional state before.

After meeting Gu Cheng today, and because the other party happened to ask this question, Shang Yan narrated these questions and his experience during this period of time as if talking to him, although it was unlikely that he could get it from the other party.

If you get any suggestions or targeted guidance, at least you can enlighten yourself and make your mentality more peaceful, instead of being in a state of struggle and torture all the time like now.

After Gu Cheng listened to the other party's story, he and his girlfriend felt like they were looking at each other, because the problem Shang Yan encountered was actually a very simple problem in his opinion. On the one hand, it was because Shang Yan himself was engaged in

Because I work as a bar operator, I may interact with girls more often on weekdays. I can't avoid it every day. There will be some socializing over drinks. I see my boyfriend coming home drunk, and his clothes are mixed with all kinds of things.

Various girls' perfumes, and perhaps lipstick marks accidentally touched by the other party, may not be tolerated by any woman. Even if she has an open-minded heart, she will be particularly sensitive and entangled in this aspect.

On the other hand, it is also because Shang Yan cares too much about his career in the bar. He always wants to succeed, or wants to make some achievements, and looks to his girlfriend, but in fact, what his girlfriend wants is very simple, you

It is enough to maintain an attitude of hard work and regular work. As for how much achievements you can get from your work, or how much results you can make, it is not what the other party is worried about. They are just worried that Zhang Yan will return to that level.

In the days when I was wandering before, I had a feeling of solid growth, so I became extra concerned and entangled.

For a family like Shang Yan, sometimes being too successful is not a good thing, because the family background has paved the way for you a lot, and you have resources and vision that others cannot have.

At this time, you are thankful to God if you can ensure that you are on the right path and do not hold back the family business. Shang Yan’s girlfriend also has the same requirements for each other. As long as you have something to do, and do it well
Chapter completed!