1213. Tenderness between father and daughter
Gu Cheng spent the entire morning bored, spending almost all of it observing her daughter. Seeing her daughter constantly talking to the doll next to her, she also realized whether her daughter lacked peers in her daily life.
The company of these peers makes my daughter feel a little lonely. In fact, in the growth process of children, these peers still play a big role. Only by communicating frequently with these peers can the baby understand more things.
At the same time, my mentality is very optimistic, but I really don't have the opportunity to give my baby the opportunity to play with more people, and I seem to be vaguely afraid of this situation.
She completely opened her heart and asked about her own soul. In fact, Gu Cheng still hoped that women could stay with her. She was worried that her daughter would leave her after meeting more people. At the same time, she was also worried about her daughter.
Arguing with each other outside, or being bullied by other children who are older than her. Every time she thinks about this kind of thing, Gu Cheng feels as if her heart is grasped by an invisible big hand, which usually makes her feel
I was a little nervous and had some difficulty breathing.
Although he also knew that this situation and this idea were incorrect, and that he should look at this problem with a more correct attitude, sometimes his ideas were so out of control. He didn't know that he was like this
Is the situation normal? Every time he sees his daughter being pushed by other children while playing, or being ostracized and standing in a corner, not knowing what to do, he feels that he has a speechless feeling.
Anger welled up in my heart, and I even wanted to hold my daughter and escape from this confusing and angry atmosphere.
In Jiang Ning's words, Gu Cheng and his daughter have been dependent on each other for too long. They always regard each other as an indispensable existence in their lives and the most precious treasure in their hands. They treat each other in general and do not want to let each other go.
Although there is nothing wrong with this idea from a father's perspective, it is not very helpful for the growth of children.
You must know that as children grow up, these experiences will also become part of their good life experience. Whether it is good things or bad things, children will always have to experience them before they can clearly distinguish them. If a child
If you only experience those good things and have never been exposed to or understand the bad things, then when you grow into an adult and walk in society, you will become an existence that can be easily deceived by others.
After listening to the other party's analysis, Gu Cheng also felt that he did have some problems in his heart, but he thought his daughter's current situation was fine. When the child goes to kindergarten, these things may appear in front of him one by one.
At that time, I will also need to find some new things to soothe my inner attention, so that both myself and my daughter can stay on the right path.
To describe it simply, it’s because Gu Cheng became a father for the first time. He didn’t know what the standard was for a good father, and he didn’t have anyone to learn from when he was growing up, so he wanted to do his best.
Although it is correct to protect your daughter and give everything you have to the other person, there is something wrong with the degree and proportion. For a while, it seems that you are using too much force and protecting your daughter too well.
In fact, it may not be a better thing.
Gu Cheng, who realized this situation, was a little unconvinced, but he felt in his heart that what the other party said was correct, and he was indeed the same. He had already made up his mind to take his daughter around more in the future.
Taking your daughter to some public places or playgrounds allows her to have more contact opportunities with peers. While taking care of her and taking her safety into consideration, it also allows her to have a more realistic and clear understanding of human nature and society.
cognition.
When children grow up, their parents will grow old, and one day they will become an older existence. Although the God of Time Travel has taken care of him and given him a chance to live a new life, he has also gained a lot.
Money is something that I dare not think about at all, but it does not mean that my life is endless. No one can escape birth, old age, illness and death. When you are too old to move and can only lie in bed dying, your children will completely
Without his own protection and support, at the same time, the other party should also fight against the world alone. Although this kind of day comes relatively long, it does not mean that it will not happen. You need to prepare in advance and deliberately
Cultivate your daughter's skills and ideas in this area, so that she can have a healthier mentality and a more independent concept, so that she can live a wonderful life by herself even without relying on anyone.
In this way, when I really leave this world one day, my daughter will become the continuation of my bloodline and replace me. She will also experience the development and changes of this society and appreciate the splendor of this world. In that way, even if I leave,
At that moment, there should be no regrets.
Although it seems a bit premature to talk about this topic and think about these things at this time, becoming a father always makes Gu Cheng become sentimental, watching his daughter slowly grow from the little baby in his arms to what she is now.
He looks so cute, and at the same time, he had to be carried by himself wherever he went, but now he can play happily alone. For Gu Cheng, this change of time is really very fast, and he has not been able to do it at all.
Feeling the passage, it disappeared all of a sudden.
It seemed that he felt his father's gaze for a long time, and when his eyes suddenly intersected with his own, the baby immediately let go of himself and was still watching a wonderful cartoon, and came to his father's side in a trot, very smoothly.
Climb all the way from the other person's knees to the other person's arms, carefully bending your head and watching your father's expression.
"Rake, hug."
It's possible that there are differences between daughters and sons. For Gu Cheng, this kind of dialogue seems to occur frequently in his life, and every time he hears his daughter making such a request, his heart seems to melt with water.
Usually, the whole person's heart turns into tenderness that wraps around the fingers in an instant. Even a tough guy who has always been steel may not be able to harden his heart when his own child calls like this.
He gently held his daughter in his arms, and then kissed her on the forehead near her hair. Feeling her daughter's petite body and breathing quietly in his arms, Gu Cheng felt that everything he had worked hard for in life seemed to be gone.
Chapter completed!