1139. Couple’s mode of getting along
"There is nothing to do in the afternoon. I am just bored at home. If you are busy with other things in the afternoon, you can go and do some work first. I have nothing to do here. After taking care of the baby, I may just sit in the living room and watch.
Read a book."
Gu Cheng looked helpless when talking about this matter. Because of his status as city spokesperson, he minimized the number of trips he made during this period and limited his activities to his home as much as possible.
Although he prefers the convenience brought by this kind of city spokesperson status, he is not so fond of the responsibilities he has to bear and the fact that his face is well-known to everyone. Although everyone admired him when he was young,
You can also become a star-like person. You can be sought after and loved by everyone no matter where you go. You can even receive cheers and excitement from many people every time you appear. But when this feeling is truly realized in yourself,
Sometimes, not everyone is so adaptable.
Gu Cheng did not treat this matter with this attitude at the beginning. After he completed the initial contract signing, he regarded this matter as just an episode in his life, and still did not take any precautions.
I went out to the vegetable market to purchase ingredients and daily necessities for the day. However, I didn't expect that just after entering the vegetable market, I happened to encounter a hanging TV at the entrance of the vegetable market, which was playing the news that I had become the spokesperson of the city. And everyone
All eyes were focused on him at once. After all, this face was relatively easy to recognize, and the lingering temperament around him could tell at a glance that he was not an ordinary person.
Of course, some of the people who suddenly gathered around may be fans of my own books. They prefer their own works in life and have always admired me. However, more groups suddenly gathered around after reading the news.
Lively, the nature of gossip is inherent in human nature. Maybe you don’t know this person at all, but if you suddenly hear that everyone is favoring him, you will subconsciously follow him to join in the fun, and you can follow him at a close distance.
This kind of opportunity to meet people is also a good source of conversation for me in the future.
It can be said that that experience made Gu Cheng very helpless and fearful. His whole body was like a small boat tossed by the wind and waves of the sea. There were crowds of people everywhere. Without any support or protection, the insecurity in his heart suddenly disappeared.
of to the maximum.
If no one had helped Gu Cheng to break away from the crowd that time, so that he could escape from the scene in a state of embarrassment, it might have become the time period that he least wanted to recall, and even long after that, he didn't want to think about it.
Taking the initiative to bring up these experiences makes me feel very helpless and embarrassing.
"I don't have anything important to do. I can stay with you at home this afternoon. Do you have anything you want to do? We can do it together. How about playing games? I have a special TV at home.
game console."
Jiang Ning also knew that her boyfriend might be a little too emotionally depressed because he was holding back at home during this period, so he tried his best to use his own methods to ease the emotion in the other person's heart and let the other person recover as much as possible.
In a normal state, this is what happens between lovers. They need to take care of and pay attention to the thoughts and mentality of the other half at all times.
Because he himself doesn’t have much experience in dating, he doesn’t know what boys like to do when they feel depressed. After eliminating some options, Jiang Ning decided to follow the solution he saw on the forum.
The method is to ask your boyfriend to play games with you. This may be the case for boys. When you encounter something unhappy, venting this emotion into the game can alleviate a lot of things.
Gu Cheng was a little dumbfounded after hearing Jiang Ning's suggestion. Things like playing games were already relatively distant memories in his memory. Since time traveling, he didn't seem to pay too much attention to this aspect at all, and he didn't seem to pay much attention to it.
I don’t have too many experiences. After all, I believe everyone is the same. After experiencing the explosion of information and the impact of various games in the previous life, it is difficult to have the mentality to play games with clumsy pixels and graphics nowadays.
.
However, since his girlfriend specially arranged this kind of leisure time to enjoy and be happy with him, he was too embarrassed to refuse, but agreed to the other party's proposal with a cheerful face, probably because of this matter.
, the two people couldn't help but speed up their cleaning. After quickly finishing the mess, they returned to the bedroom drowsily with their baby in their arms. They completed the work of putting them to sleep in a few seconds, and then looked at it with a look of surprise.
Jiang Ning took out the long-dusted game console from his home and connected it to the TV according to the instructions.
Rather than saying that Gu Cheng has great expectations and interest in the next game, it is better to say that this emotion appears because of his gratitude and love for Jiang Ning.
It is a privilege for every boy to have a partner who understands your bad mood and a girlfriend who will think of you when your mentality returns to normal. It may be because the slogan of equality between men and women is shouted louder.
Nowadays, the public's attention involuntarily turns to women, a relatively vulnerable group. In a normal relationship, men's psychology may or may not be subconsciously ignored.
When encountering any problems, everyone will think that men have relatively strong psychological abilities and self-regulation abilities. Not many people can truly understand the psychological harm men suffer and the depression they encounter in life.
, although the starting point of the slogan of equality between men and women is relatively good, after some or no liberalization, it has slowly transformed into a kind of moral kidnapping of men, so basically the happiness index of men's lives is far higher than that of women.
Even more depressed.
It's just that this issue has not been taken seriously by everyone, and not many people are even paying attention to this situation. It may also have a lot to do with the fact that men have always been more responsible and capable, but this kind of responsibility
And being capable is not an excuse for everyone to subconsciously ignore.
And Gu Cheng is very grateful to himself for being able to find a partner who can understand and forgive his emotions and poor performance in life. It is precisely because of the other person's understanding that he and the other person can be in a happy relationship mode, and it also makes the two people's lives better.
Chapter completed!