While the children were making friends, Gu Cheng was not idle either. The two dads found a bench that gave them a chance to sit down, and began to engage in familiar and sensual communication behaviors.

In the process of continuous conversation, Gu Cheng was also able to slowly get to know more about the dad he just met today. Lan Ziqin is a professor in charge of the Chinese Department of a local university in Zhoushi. Although he looks relatively young, he

The other party’s academic achievements and experience are quite admirable. Unlike Gu Cheng’s career as a writer, the other party’s research is basically focused on historical Chinese, using his own research to make more of China’s ancient culture accessible.

Opportunity for re-release.

As for the little boy who is playing with Youyou, he is naturally the biological son of our Professor Lan. Although Gu Cheng did not ask about the child's mother himself, the other party seemed to trust Gu Cheng very much and did not wait to ask.

He came here to talk about his situation in one breath. This completely unsuspecting behavior really made Gu Cheng feel a little speechless. After all, we had only known each other for a few hours, so it was far from necessary.

So honest.

Professor Lan's wife passed away early a few hours after the child was born due to physical discomfort in the early years. This situation is not much different from Gu Cheng's situation. Because after understanding these situations, Gu Cheng

Unconsciously, I had a better impression of the man in front of me. At the same time, I could also feel the sad experience of the man raising a child alone. After all, I had also gone through this stage.

Moreover, Professor Lan is currently responsible for bringing some graduate students to work on his own academic issues, so he is naturally a very rare child who can give his son care and love in daily life. Most of the time, he is taken care of by his grandparents.

It seems that it is precisely because of this that children are extremely introverted when negotiating with outsiders, and even have some social fears.

In order to improve his son's situation, Professor Lan, who is on vacation near the end of the year, will basically put down everything he is doing as much as possible and stay with his son wholeheartedly.

"To be honest, because I don't have much experience and I am also a father for the first time, basically sometimes I don't know how to deal with some problems. Fortunately, I can have my parents help me in this process.

, it also saves me a lot of thoughts. Sometimes it’s because of myself that I can’t help but miss my deceased wife, so I care less about my children.”

It can be seen that Professor Lan himself felt a little guilty and painful when he said these words. As the result of the love between himself and his wife, he naturally cares and loves his son very much, but as a male character

, so that he basically doesn’t know how to express his inner love for his son, and he doesn’t know how to face his son’s eyes of admiration and wanting to get close to him.

It seems that through the conversation just now, Professor Lan feels that there is a lot of tacit understanding between the two of them, and some people may be like this. Although it is only the first time they meet, they vaguely feel that the other person is more in line with their three views and opinions.

Temper, if they continue to date, the two of them will definitely become good friends. In addition, I do have a lot of worries and melancholy in my heart, so I naturally took this opportunity to complain to the other person about the situation I am currently experiencing.

Of course, this can be regarded as a way to seek medical treatment in a hurry, but for Professor Lan, there seems to be no other place to confide his words except to a stranger.

Sharing these inner thoughts of my own with my parents will definitely increase their parents' worries about me. As an adult man, this is not the way I most want to choose.

"Although I don't quite understand how the situation you are encountering now arises, I think it is better to spend more time with your child. Judging from my experience in the life of a dad during this period, the child

At this time, he is in the stage of shaping his own unique world view and three views. If there are no adults to teach him, it is likely to have a certain impact on his future life. No matter how busy his career is, after all, his family is

Talent is more important, isn't it?"

Perhaps it was because the other party's experience was similar to his own, so Gu Cheng also rarely opened up his chat box. Facing the other party with a painful look on his face, he also hoped as much as possible that the other party could find some key to breaking the situation from his words.

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At the same time, he also likes to deliberately raise his hand and pat the other person's shoulder, hoping that his method can give the other person more strength. After all, he is also a single dad.

On the road of taking care of children, you are destined to encounter more difficulties and obstacles than those with healthy families. In this situation, encouraging each other and working together is the most important thing to do. I also hope that everyone can learn from each other.

Past experiences can give you more confidence and ideas about taking care of your children as adults.

"Oh, let's take it step by step. I'll look at it later and slowly adjust my time. I should indeed do what you said and spend more time with my family. But during this time, I will live in the manor with my children.

, I do feel that the relationship between the two of us has improved a lot, and the baby has gradually become more dependent on me, which is indeed a very good feeling."

Professor Lan exhaled a long breath, as if he wanted to use this method to let out all the annoyance in his heart. At the same time, he did not forget to share with Gu Cheng what he had gained during this period. It seemed that he was interested in

I am very happy that the situation has improved.

"I may also live in the manor. Around the Lantern Festival, if you feel bored at home, why not bring your children to my house to sit and sit. It is also a good thing for the two children to play together from time to time. After all,

Children are always lonely, and being alone is indeed not a good solution. Only by being with peers can stimulate the baby's happiness to the greatest extent."

After getting to know each other just now, Gu Cheng felt that Professor Lan was actually a person who was more in line with his criteria for making friends, so he showed his kindness without hesitation, so that he could find someone of the same age for his daughter.
Chapter completed!