After dinner, Mr. Xie's old wife came to invite Chu Qingguo to the backyard as a guest.

This is also considered a very formal invitation.

Mr. Xie and his wife lived in the school, with only a little bookboy accompanying them, who only served to pass messages and letters.

The two sons were not ready to study and were not obsessed with taking exams. Instead, they chose to farm in their hometown with great self-awareness. They were hardworking and capable. As soon as they had some spare money, they bought a few acres of land and gradually became small landowners. If you want to be rich and noble, you will be contented if you are well-off.

Mr. Xie is a person who loves education and is willing to be with the school and children. As long as he does not need to take care of himself, he will always be a teacher.

In the early years, I taught in a government school, but I didn't like the atmosphere there, so I resigned directly.

Because I was acquainted with Village Chief Wu, I stayed here to teach. Although Shu Xiu was not comparable to Fu Xue, the people here were relatively simple, and the children were innocent and innocent, without any unhealthy habits.

Mr. Xie went home and told his old wife about Qingqing's suggestion today about letting students participate in collective labor. The old wife sighed very much and said that this lady was silent all day, but whenever she spoke, she seemed to be very expressive. She looks reasonable and is open-minded, unlike those women in the village who get coy when asked to talk about something serious.

Mr. Xie really wanted to explore Chu Qing's thoughts, so his wife said it would be better to invite him to his home.

Just like that, Chu Qing came to visit.

This was Chu Qing's first visit to this world, and he felt it was new.

He led Xiaobao through the door, saluted Mr. Xie and Mrs. Xie and said hello. Although Xiaobao was silent, he still bowed as he should, which was very polite.

When he sat down, Xiaobao didn't let Chu Qing hold him. Instead, he climbed onto the chair next to him and did the job without letting Chu Qing help.

When Mr. Xie asked Chu Qing how he came up with the idea of ​​collective labor, Chu Qing couldn’t tell the truth, so he said:

"I saw that every household has to farm. Those with a large population are in full swing, and those with a small population are working together. Every household is a small group. The children in our school are connected because of the existence of the school, and they are also a small group. .When a small group works together, it is not collective work.”

Mr. Xie nodded repeatedly and said: "Today you also mentioned teaching and educating people. Do you think there is not enough content in books about educating people?"

This question cannot be answered casually. The books contain the wisdom of the sages. Who dares to say that others are not wise enough.

You have to think it over before you can say it.

Chu Qing organized her thoughts and said:

"No, sir, that's what I think. In the past few days, I have been copying the "Thousand-Character Classic", which contains nurturing sentences, such as, 'Be trained by the master outside, and worshiped by the mother. All aunts, uncles, and sons. "Bi'er. Konghuai brothers are like brothers. Make friends and share opinions, and cut rules and regulations." These few sentences teach the norms of behavior between disciples, children, brothers, and friends. This is educating people. "

Pick out some easy-to-say parts and try to think of how to explain them clearly.

"But the regulations say, how should we do this? Brother Kong Huai, how should we be conceited? The communication between people is two-way. If one party does something improperly, how should the other party be conceited? The children are still young, I think we should Let’s make these knowledge more concrete.” Chu Qing didn’t know if he made it clear.

"Concrete? What does this mean?" Mr. Xie was a little confused.

"Just to give a single example, the saints and sages have left us precious principles of life, but you can tell the children how to think and do everything."

"For example, if Xiaobao does a good thing, I say Xiaobao is great," Chu Qing said, using Xiaobao as an example.

"Xiaobao may be happy once or twice, but after a long time, he will not take it seriously. But if I tell Xiaobao clearly what is good about this thing, how good it is, and how proud it makes me, then over time Xiaobao will feel happy."

I will use this thing as a standard and slowly do better and better. When encountering problems, I will also analyze how to do it well."

"Similarly, if Xiaobao does something wrong, if I say that he is disobedient, it will be very general, because he will not know why he should be obedient and what the consequences of disobedience are. If I can tell him this, you

If you do something wrong, what is the mistake, what will be the consequences, and how will the world view this matter? Then over time, Xiaobao will be thoughtful in his actions in the future and will not be reckless."

For example, giving examples is the most annoying thing. It can easily make people think that they are trying to teach others, but when Mr. Xie asked a question, Chu Qing had to answer it. "This is just a narrow idea of ​​a little woman, and it is not appropriate." Chu Qing quickly said it.

Recycle.

Mrs. Xie listened very carefully and seriously. At this time she looked at Xiaobao and asked: "Xiaobao, has your mother always taught you this?"

Chu Qing was a little nervous. She had only been Xiaobao's mother for a few days, and Xiaobao didn't even acknowledge him as his mother.

Xiaobao nodded seriously. Mrs. Xie smiled: "Well, it can be seen that Xiaobao has always been well-behaved and polite, and he is a good and well-educated child."

Chu Qing secretly breathed a sigh of relief. Xiaobao, I give you 100 likes, that’s quite interesting!

Mr. Xie also agreed at this time: "It makes sense. Only by analyzing specific examples can students know why."

"Yes, 'receiving training from outside and worshiping the mother's rites', school and family education are inseparable, and it should be 'co-education at home and school'. Even if the family education is biased or insufficient, my husband can correct and help in time."

Make up for it, so that we can better cultivate talents."

"Co-education between home and school, good, very good!" Mr. Xie praised: "Ms. Yuan, you have put forward very good suggestions!"

Sir, it’s really not me who mentioned it. Nowadays, parent-teacher conferences in elementary schools are all about these things. I’ll take you to observe them if I have the opportunity. Chu Qing thought to herself.

Xiaobao stared at Chu Qing with bright eyes.

"Sir, that's ridiculous." He quickly humbled himself.

"Ms. Yuan, what do you think, in addition to collective work, should students learn in school? Well... be more specific." Mr. Xie learns and applies.

"Sir, you are so flattering." Chu Qing looked uneasy, "How can I, a little woman, know these things?"

"Don't be uneasy," Mrs. Xie reached over and patted Chu Qing's hand, saying kindly:

"Your idea is very good. The old man often told me that the knowledge of students is uneven and it is not difficult to teach. The difficulty is that some children have bad tempers and insufficient vision. No matter how smart they are, it is difficult to teach them. We also often

Discuss these."

The old lady made Chu Qing put down his guard and open up to chat.

Chu Qing was not a pretentious person, but he had to control himself. The "home-school co-education" just now was just a mouthful.

You can't follow the same formula as in elementary school parent-teacher conferences. It will make people feel that they are "not of my kind". It's dangerous!

Let’s talk about what’s right in front of you.

"I think we have been fighting for many years, but the scientific examinations have not stopped. This shows that our Emperor has a long-term vision and believes that cultivating talents cannot be delayed. Our villages are also good. No matter how hard it is, we must cultivate scholars.

No matter how poor you are, you can’t afford education.”

Emma, ​​I'm going bald again.

"I mean, the children in the school must also have learned the idea of ​​loyalty to the emperor and patriotism. Then they can be taught in concrete terms how to be loyal to the emperor and patriotism. Big ones can't do it, but small ones can always do it. For example, pay attention to whether anyone suspicious comes in.

The village, for example, how to prevent strangers from telling you what to do, what kind of things you cannot do, and when you are in danger..." Chu Qing gave examples.

"Concerning loyalty to the emperor and patriotism, what kind of things do you think students cannot do, since they are still children?" Mr. Xie asked to be more specific.

"Well, we are a border town, very close to the Dong Lun Kingdom. When the two countries are at war, it is inevitable for spies from each country to spy on each other," Chu Qing thought of people like Bai Hua.

"Then it is possible to detect the children. Do they have enough to eat? How many people are in your family? Where is your village? Do you know anyone? Can you take me somewhere...etc.

Wait, aren't these all places where news can be leaked?" Chu Qing gave another example.

"If you can't deal with others, then you can always do it by not talking to strangers. You can always do it by not running away and worrying your family." Chu Qing took a breath.

Thinking of Meng Donglai, he ran away after being slapped by the ruler, not knowing whether he would go home or not. A half-year-old child is at his most extreme and self-righteous.

Don't meet bad people! Chu Qing is distracted.

Mr. Xie was deep in thought, thinking carefully about what he just said. Indeed, if you live in a border town, you may encounter what kind of things. If ignorance affects your family and villagers, it is really...

Mrs. Xie poured tea for Chu Qing. The sound of pouring water brought Chu Qing back to her senses. She quickly stood up and thanked her.

Mrs. Xie said seriously: "Ms. Yuan, what you just said has taught me a lot. In raising children, in addition to feeding them and keeping them warm, you also need to teach them how to behave. When children are young,

You cannot serve the imperial court, but you should take good care of yourself so as not to cause any trouble to the imperial court or bring disaster to the family, and you should also be educated well."

"Yeah, I don't understand the truth. I just figured it out from what the villagers said. You see, some women will ask other people's children, have you eaten? If not, come to your aunt's house for something to eat. If the child says

After eating, he asked again, "What does your family eat?" If the child answered, the woman could turn around and tell others, "Look at that so-and-so family, they have to eat whatever they want, how rich they are!"

"

Chu Qing was just making nonsense. She had never wandered around the village and listened to other people chatting.

"Adults can trick children, but bad guys can't trick good people. Can't you trick some useful information out of people's mouths? If something goes wrong, it will bring trouble to the family."

Please contact Chu Qingxian.

"We can tell the students about the current situation in the school." This is what Chu Qing wants to know. "Tell the students who we are fighting, how close our home is to the war, what we should do, and what we should not do."

What to do, the students can also convey what the teacher said to their families, so that all villages can also strengthen their awareness of prevention." Chu Qing added.

Mr. Xie raised his head at this time and said solemnly: "I have learned a lesson." Chu Qing was so frightened that she quickly got up and said she didn't dare.

This is just a simple chat, talking about whatever comes to mind, why do you do it so seriously?

"I didn't expect Miss Yuan to be so far-sighted. I will think carefully about what you say today. Knowledge cannot be limited to words in books. Knowing how to look at problems and how to behave correctly are also knowledge."

Mr. Xie is really a good teacher who loves his job and is dedicated to his work!

After saying goodbye to Mr. Xie and Mrs. Xie, Chu Qing and Xiaobao returned to their utility room.

Counting on his fingers, there are only two days until the school holiday. Chu Qing plans to take Xiaobao to the city to buy some daily necessities that day. Everything is lacking now, but he can't buy too many things. The utility room

It's only so big, so there's no room to put a lot of things.

Buy some clothes that are multi-purpose, economical and affordable. It is best to buy some books to read.
Chapter completed!