The Leaves of Han Yi Biography (4) Mu Xueqing (Part 2)
Later, Ye Zi started her own clothing industry, and I don’t know who gave her advice. In the past two years of economic downturn, Ye Zi started her own clothing store. I was not optimistic at the beginning, but she still invested all her savings over the years.?
As expected, it only took half a year to close the door.
I may not want to comment too much on this matter, after all, this is also her sore point.
However, during her hard six months, I also spent the most embarrassing half a year.
In the past six months, most of the time we are talking, whether it is video, voice or text, we are communicating almost most of the time we are awake, telling each other's boring lives every day.
Or, it was the two of us who accompanied each other through this very difficult time.
The most difficult time may be just a stage, and there may be more difficult times in the future, but I firmly believe that even in the future, we will smile when we recall it.
During the time when I met Ye Zi, Ye Zi had two boyfriends in total. If I were to add me, it would be three, but I had never held her hand before!
When I first met her, she had just broken up. Now I think about why I could enter her life so quickly and become a close friend at the first time. That was why she broke up.
When a person is injured, no matter who he is good to her, she will treat whoever he is good to, because in this way, you can forget the hurt that person has done to him.
This is the so-called spare tire, and I have also become Ye Zi's spare tire.
However, it is said that Ye Zi's virginity was broken by that scumbag! Of course, I won't say much about these words. After all, this is Ye Zi's secret. I believe that she will not tell anyone else about this matter except me.
I heard that the scumbag went to find Ye Zi again later, and Ye Zi almost got back with him, and I almost blocked Ye Zi black.
The inexplicable love that Ye Zi talked about was after she bid farewell to the anchor industry, but she was inexplicably together and broke up inexplicably. I still don’t understand what kind of relationship this is, and Ye Zi has never explained it to me.
I don’t know about this boyfriend at this time, because during this period, we seem to be drifting away.
When someone has a boyfriend, I should hide behind the scenes, after all, it cannot affect their normal life.
I began to look for new goals, looking for someone who can play and watch each other's lives in daily life, but I really can't find them.
The ability to meet a leaf in a person's life may be God's greatest gift to you.
Perhaps, one day in the future, I will meet the person I like, and we will have each other's lives in the future, but in our life, such a person, who always thinks of happiness, is already very happy.
Excerpts of some stories about leaves:
(1) "Every girl has a princess dream, but that's not a dream"
Every girl has a princess dream since she was a child, just like the Snow White in the fairy tale, and Cinderella who finally found the prince. Because they are all happy princesses, no girl has no princesses since she was a child, but in fact, we girls are not princesses since she was a child? Which one did not grow up under the care of parents? Holding them in your hands is afraid of falling, holding them in your mouth is afraid of melting, and eating, clothing and use, isn’t it all spent on your daughter. You must pick up and drop them every day at school, accompanying parents in evening classes, and there are even many girls who have not done housework until they are 18 years old, and there are many people who have washed clothes. Isn’t this a princess-like treatment?
When working outside, parents are concerned about their well-being, and often think about giving them some more when they don’t have enough money. This is how parents care for their princess until they get married. At least 18 years have passed away on the day of marriage. Because there is an extra responsibility on their shoulders, they have to support their families, raise children, take care of the elderly, wash clothes and cook, and become the one who cares for their princesses. At that time, they may still think about their previous princess dreams, and think that it is a dream that cannot be realized. Isn’t it a princess before getting married?
It's not just a dream, but also our first wonderful memories.
The princess' dream is realized when a girl is born. It is not far away, but it is also awake like a dream. It will change some forms or another life in the life of food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. This is reality, everyone can't change it.
So, I want to say, boys think about the person they love now. Before they get married, she was a princess, and now you are her knight. Shouldn’t you also protect it well?
In fact, this is not what boys must do, but I want everyone to cherish her who is regarded as a princess by her parents. She will grow old and become ugly, but the princess' dream is still there.
Please be sure to cherish your princess. She gave up her dream of a princess and your down-to-earth life, as well as your unrepentant efforts and infinite tolerance for her. I believe that the reason for all this comes from love.
Although parents used to take care of us like their own slaves, this description may be inappropriate, but what parents did was almost the same as this term. They gave us life. We are destined to take care of them after they are old. The princess' knights protect the princess and will also protect the great ones that can tolerate our parents like heaven and earth. Therefore, everyone should cherish the people around them, whether they are parents, princess, or knights. In Ma Yili's words: cherish them as much as possible.
(II) "We Post-90s"
I am a post-90s generation, not favored by the post-90s generation, because now it is a post-80s generation world. They are struggling, and most of them are husbands, fathers, wives, and mothers. For them, we are just starting out, we are young and crazy.
For us, it is like connecting the past and the future, shouldering the expectations of the previous generation, and opening up a new chapter. There are old people and young people, and working hard on the road of struggle. As for us, after 90, we are regarded as relying on our parents, not enduring hardships, not struggling, living a life with our parents' support, or continuing our studies. I do not defend ourselves, because such things are born around us, and it is a fact that we see them.
As a post-90s generation, I have a deep understanding that I am really not favored by everyone. The unified evaluation is that I am young and energetic, not responsible, and still too young, and all my experiences are not enough. Yes, we have not endured much hardship. It can be said that we have been living a superior life. Yes, everything comes from parents, those post-7O who we can never compare with, the microcosm of that era, the spirit of that era will always make us feel inferior. Like "old cannons", we can't learn and do not do that "rules". So what? No one can stop the changes of the times, and no era can become the world forever dominating the world. The world of the post-7O has changed. Now, the post-8O has been young, willful, and not favored. The youngest post-9O has grown up, and there is no lack of post-9O behind us. Every generation is chased like this, and one day we will also die of our youth.
Do you miss it? The taste and life of childhood may be too early to talk about childhood. The oldest person after 90s is only 28 years old. But people have memories. When you slowly enter society, you will feel the ups and downs. The more you miss us so innocent at that time, we go to school together, babble and learn words, learn arithmetic, do labor, and play together.
What are we missing? It is the emotions and feelings that we can never forget and cannot be erased. Do you still remember that we once walked together and pulled the branches on the roadside to make straw hats. We used to fetch water and wipe the glass together and sweep the floor together. We once played with the teacher together, passed small notes together, and played on the playground together.
In fact, everyone will experience these things, but now we have our own world and our own lives. Maybe we no longer contacted our regular playmates at that time. Are we unfamiliar? Looking at each other's spatial dynamics, we no longer comment or reply, we only know that we are doing well or not, or there is no news at all. Every time we get together, we become so valuable. I miss everything we talked about at that time, miss the simple unity at that time, miss the playground we walked together, and the textbooks we read together, are you okay?
Youth is short, have you cherish it? Are you struggling? Are you still confused and what to do? Are you sad because of a broken heart? Or like me, I miss our past for a moment. After all, nostalgia is nostalgia, and maybe it is not a nostalgia at all, because all of that, just yesterday, we were in our youth and in our prime, and everything had just begun.
Do whatever you want, don’t let memories become empty, love whoever you want, don’t let your heart be sad. Because youth will eventually pass away, passing away is not just about disappearing, but we will definitely mature. One day we will live a peaceful life like people born after 7o and 8o, and then watch the beginning after oo.
(III) "My Ugly Duckling Story"
Disgust Chapter------Because the white swan is destined
We have heard of the story of "Ugly Duckling" when we were young. After a swan egg was hatched by the duck mother, its companions laughed at him for being big and ugly. Finally, they were forced to leave their companions and duck mothers and walk away alone. After experiencing many things, they turned into a beautiful white swan in spring.
This story has always been a story that encourages us to overcome difficulties, allowing us to be self-reliant, work hard, and be brave enough to overcome suffering, and one day it will become a white swan. This is a pursuit and yearning for a beautiful ideal. I admit that this story did play a great role when we were young and always encouraged us to work hard. At that time, we always believed that even if we were an "ugly duckling", we would definitely be a beautiful white swan one day through hard work. At least everyone should have thought of this during those days.
Let us return to reality together. N years have passed. Perhaps the story of the ugly duckling has been forgotten. Or perhaps one day I will recall my simple thoughts at that time. At that time, it was really simple, very simple.
Now we have entered society and are no longer little kids in school. Now let’s look back and think about our beautiful story “Ugly Duckling”. When we were young, we were ugly and no one liked it and was willing to make friends with it. It was lonely, but we did not give up. We kept working hard and finally became a swan. Have you ever thought that the egg was actually a swan egg?
The duck egg cannot hatch a white swan. The reason why it can eventually become a swan is because it grows naturally. She is a swan. Even if she has not experienced these, she will become a swan. A swan that has experienced more than other swans. This is the ending that it is destined as soon as it is born, a ending without suspense. As long as it survives, it is destined to be a swan. Have you been deceived before???
New chapter------It turns out that we should cherish life
But then again, this swan did experience cynicism that was not the same kind. It survived and did not give up its own life.
So what if the ugly duckling is destined to be a white swan? Without life, there will be no future. After so many years, the first time I read the story of "Ugly Duckling" was to learn inspiration. Now I have another idea to read "Ugly Duckling" and that is to let myself live.
To survive, this word is simple and simple, but complex and complicated. What remains is good or bad life. Of course, the ugly duckling is the type of bitter first and sweet. If it gives up on itself before it becomes a white swan, there will be no swan that will come later.
It persisted, so it succeeded. In connection with reality, many people gave up on themselves and gave up survival without knowing the future. So what future can there be? Some people may say, isn’t it said that white swans are destined?
However, just like our human origins determine many things, don’t forget that the original and most fundamental source of these are survival. If you lose your life, what are you talking about? What are you talking about? Mediocrity and hard work?
I have said so much nonsense. In fact, in addition to reading "Ugly Duckling", what I read is not to give up on yourself. Whether you have a good background or a mediocre background, you cannot give up on yourself.
Only with life can we dream of "ugly duckling" turning into a white swan. Although the "ugly duckling" in the story is originally a white swan, the world is full of miracles. Maybe one day it will really change?
Only by living can you know whether you live well or not, what do you think?
How can you know the future until the end? It feels really different when you read "Ugly Duckling" again. Hahahaha, the most important thing is to persevere, persevere, persist again, hahahahaha.
(IV) "Things to Yourself"
I wrote this article to myself. Today, the sudden emergence of birth conditions can really solve many problems.
People of different levels come into contact with really different people, just like I have a lot of friends around me, they treat me really well, and I have a very good relationship with them, but I will always be beyond the reach of some luxury people like me and my friends.
When dealing with them, we should not get too close or dare to get too close. We must keep a distance. It’s not that people are doing, but that I am already inferior. We are all children in small families. We spend money every day thinking about whether we can spend it and whether we can spend it indiscriminately.
At first I complained, why I was not born in a wealthy family, but now I think about it the other way around, why did my parents give birth to us? When I was born, I had to always miss and take care of us in my lifetime. What are they doing for?
I may have been a little timid when introducing myself in the past, but now I seem to understand it better. Only by letting it go and being grateful can I get the best happiness, even if it is a simple food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
Life is like this. It’s not that we choose life, but that they choose us to see how we treat it.
You can't complain or you can't always feel bad, because it's all fair, and sometimes you may be more stable if you work hard.
I relaxed my mindset because I also admitted that I had complained about why it was so unfair at first. But as I grew up and experienced more, I gradually understood and thought about another aspect, how difficult is it for parents, why do they have to give so much for us?
My parents have grown a lot in the past two years, and they are 22 years old, but they rarely help me. They have never complained, so why should I complain?
My mother has always been in poor health, but she has always been sticking to our home for us. My father never likes to talk and gives silently. Just like that, my father's love is deep. Thinking of this, what qualifications do I have to complain that my parents can't give me the best? They worked hard to let us live the best life within their abilities.
Thinking about this, and looking at myself, I just feel that I have done too little. I used to have a temper often. On September 12, 2013, my mother's surgery, and I seemed to understand a lot that day. When my mother had a heart attack after the surgery, I really felt distressed. At that moment, I felt how sad I would be if my parents were gone one day.
I have been out for three or four years. When I got home, I looked at my parents. When did I lose weight and when did my head turn gray? Is it because I have never paid attention to it? I often miss my sister and my granddaughter.
I can't do much, and I can't guarantee that I will work hard in the future. I can only say that I will take good care of my parents with my sister and my future lover. In the future, I will not complain, let it be natural, and find my own happiness. I also hope that my parents will be in good health. I wish you silently.
(V) "Women are like clothes"
It is said that women are like clothes, yes, I think so too, women are like clothes.
But most people may say that if you change clothes, you can change them. Yes, in this world, men will always want to change women, and they are exercising this right. But I prefer another saying that clothes can cover the body, keep warm, and decorate people. It is impossible for everyone to not wear clothes, even a simple T-shirt, so I think women like clothes may not necessarily have to be replaced.
There are many types of clothes, such as celebrity performance costumes and red carpet costumes. They will never wear them in real life because they are inconvenient and uncomfortable. Yes, such clothes will be replaced once, and after these processes, they will change into clothes that make them comfortable.
The same is true for women. At first glance, they may feel the urge to be together, so they chased each other desperately, feeling that such a bright and beautiful thing is always beautiful, and they got it with all their strength. Later, they realized that it was not suitable for them.
At the beginning, I just thought it was beautiful and imagined that it would be beautiful when I put it on, but I didn’t know that it was not suitable for me. No matter how beautiful it was, what should I do? I would never wear inappropriate clothes all the time. Once I put them aside, I would always be placed.
There is another kind of clothes that are not amazing, but you really feel that they are suitable for you when you wear them, and they are very comfortable. Well, very good. It's this one, this is what you want, so I chose a new one, and gradually forgot that there was another piece of clothes in the closet that I bought on a whim. In fact, it was not that bad thing, but it was not suitable, that's all.
Actually, do you still remember the beginning of our clothes? It is only when we cover ourselves in summer and keep warm in winter that comfortable clothes will make you move freely. Others who are suitable for you will also agree more. I think women are the same. The most beautiful one is the best. It is not necessarily the best one. It is not necessarily the best one that others like to be good, and it is the best one that suits you.
She can make you the delicious food you like the most, take care of your parents, and give birth to a cute baby, just like your clothes are comfortable, warm, simple, and generous. This is the beginning when you choose a woman. She may not be the most beautiful, because like the catwalk clothing, it is not that I don’t think it’s fashionable, but that part of it can’t be worn in life. Did you think it’s true after trying it???
Women are like clothes. When it is hot, they are willing to be put aside, and they are soaked in sweat and washed away by the rain. When it is cold, they can protect you from the wind and cold and help you keep warm. This is a woman. That's right, women are like clothes. They give silently and persist silently.
postscript:
"You said, I'm afraid I can't even be friends in the end. It's just for love, so why bother to be friends?"
This is what Mu Xueqing said to Han Yi, and what I said to Ye Zi.
Yes, you are afraid of things, difficulties, and obstacles. How can you achieve love? If you cannot achieve love, you have to be friends in a miserable way? Is it what you want?
Meeting is always beautiful, so many chances and so many beauty that you refuse to forget, and eventually become a miserable friend. Is it happiness or sadness?
Are we happy because we are still friends, are we sad because we have not achieved our ideal love.
I know whether happiness or sadness depends on myself, and my attitude towards things. My friends all say that I am sentimental. In fact, I am soft-hearted, ties, I cannot give up, and I cannot forget too much. So I am sad many times, but I hope everyone is happy.
Life is like a circle, never ending, and you can't find the way to stay. You can go around and go around, and you may still pass through your past, your past, or you may walk around or return to the origin. That's it, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, one by one, and one by one, one
Maybe you are happy today because you are doing happy things, or maybe you are sad tomorrow because you are immersed in the symphony of endless sadness in life, you are still you and will not stay.
Chapter completed!