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If Zhang Ziqiang had just returned, it might be unnatural to hear Chen Xiaojun's "Three Things to Do for Successful Men", but now he is not at all uncomfortable. He just smiles and goes into the private room with him. A few classmates have already come first, and when he sees him, he is having fun again.

After Zhang Ziqiang and Ding Xiangni entered the private room, several students in the class focused on them. It was not that they knew Zhang Ziqiang's identity and no one recognized Ding Xiangni, but that Zhang Ziqiang was the only old classmate who had not changed much. Some of them had not changed much in general, but that everyone was in their forty-six or seven years after all, and their generation was under great pressure, and their faces were all left with traces of time.

Classmates who had not seen each other for more than 20 years were talking about the past and sighing to each other. Only then did Zhang Ziqiang learn that two classmates had passed away, one died of an accident, and the other NV classmate had a terminal illness, which made him feel a little lost and sighed that his life was short.

At the same time, this also gave him a sense of urgency and had to seize the time to build a space city. Only by setting up a spirit gathering array in his own space city would not cause any trouble. I dare not come on the ground. At that time, it would be simple to take care of these old classmates. If you practice hard for a few years, you can go back to your youth, and it would be better for the classmates to have a fight back.

The classmates who came as scheduled arrived one after another. Zhang Ziqiang was not a person who was so arrogant. He didn't say much when there were more classmates. Whenever new classmates came in, everyone would like to praise him. First, he was well maintained and did not grow old. Second, he was very blessed. Li Wenhao, who had the best relationship with him, did not come, and no one of the classmates who came knew his contact information.

But Chen Xiaojun told him that Mr. Yang should have Li Wenhao's phone number, and asked Zhang Ziqiang to ask after Mr. Yang came. It seems that over the years, Yang Lei has become the contact center for his classmates.

When he said Cao cào Cao cào arrived, Yang Lei took Teacher Li Xiujie and personally helped him into the private room. Teacher Li was over 70 years old and was quite good at speaking. He said he had to drink some wine every meal. Not much, he could just vent his menstruation and promote blood circulation. This is his way to maintain health.

When Zhang Ziqiang led Ding Xiangni to greet him, Teacher Li obviously had no impression of him. He talked about the past again and again before Teacher Li remembered it. He was originally the kind of person who would be ignored immediately after being left in the crowd. He respected Teacher Li because Teacher Li was kind to him at the beginning. No matter whether the teacher remembered it or not, whether he was the teacher's proud student or not, he should have a grateful heart.

Yang Lei may have always been pampered and did not look old. He became thin and thin, wearing a pair of gold-rimmed glasses. When Zhang Ziqiang checked, he was a flat mirror. He spoke softly and politely, gentle and elegantly, and had a Confucian business style. His previous style of being flamboyant and flirtatious was gone. Time not only urges people to grow old, but also makes people mature. Yang Lei has such a big change. At least on the surface, Zhang Ziqiang's impression of him is much better than when he was in school.

Tongbao set up four large tables, most of the classmates took their families, and Yang Lei also brought a young and beautiful NV, but he did not take the initiative to introduce them. The handsome NV also called her Mr. Yang. Everyone knew their relationship, but no one joked with them, and only pointed the finger at Zhang Ziqiang and Ding Xiangni. Who told the whole room to count the youngest and most beautiful families brought by Yang Lei and Zhang Ziqiang.

Yang Lei may have known that Zhang Ziqiang had donated two million yuan and invited him and Ding Xiangni to the first table to accompany Teacher Li. Of course he was happy. After chatting with Teacher Li for a few words, he turned to Yang Lei and asked about Li Wenhao, but unexpectedly the news he received surprised him.

I heard Yang Lei's complicated introduction: "It's not me who brags. I am a person who is willing to take care of my classmates. I value my classmates' feelings and can remember the good things of others. I was young and ignorant at school. I rely on your help in every exam. I lost contact with you within a few years after graduation, otherwise we will definitely become good friends."

"Li Wenhao was a strong man when he was studying, but he changed a few years after entering society. His family was poor, and when he was in school, he gave up poverty subsidies to others. He never asked to borrow money from others. But about four or five years after graduation, he found me and said he wanted to borrow money to do a career. I still don't understand what the matter is. He probably boasted about a scam that made a fortune. After careful design, he couldn't find any of the leaks. At that time, I didn't have much money, but when he opened his mouth, I lent him 200,000 without saying a word."

"After he took the money, I didn't see anyone else for about a year. It's not that he was missing. He often spoke to me on the phone and would mention that he had borrowed me 200,000. What he remembered, he would make money soon. If he made money, he would definitely pay me back. I told him not to worry and wait until he had enough money."

"The next year, he came to Mén again and said that his career was still a little short of a hit. That time, I realized that he might have encountered a high IQ liar, so I advised him to let go and work with me. At that time, Xiaojun was already doing business in my company. I wanted Xiaojun to take him with him, so he should be able to get up soon, but he refused and pestered me for two days, saying that this time it would be successful."

Yang Lei lit a cigarette, took a deep breath and said, "To be honest, I didn't want to lend him at that time, but he talked about you. I think Brother Zhang, you have a good relationship with him at school. Without your help when you were in school, I might not even get a diploma with my grades at that time. If I don't care about anything, it will be difficult for me to meet Brother Zhang at that time, so I gritted my teeth and believed him again. This time he borrowed 300,000."

"This time he went there, he stayed in touch with me for half a year and disappeared. Later, I asked a friend to find out that he was using the method he was cheating others again! At that time, I was busy with business and the company was big, so borrowing him 500,000 was not a big deal. I thought that even if I found him, he would not be able to pay it back, so I didn't think about it anymore."

"It was not until two years passed, and I remember that it was the end of 2015, and he found me again in a ragged suit. This time, he was a liar and went to my place to hide from the limelight. There was no way, my classmates could not stop me from saving me in a fight, so I asked him to surrender. In the end, he was sentenced to two years, and I spent another 200,000 yuan to settle the relationship for him. I finally got him a medical parole, but I finally didn't let him stay in jail for long."

"After he came out, I asked him to work with me, but Brother Zhang, you know, when the company is big, there is a system to manage it. Even if he is my classmate, he has to work from the grassroots level. At that time, the first classmate in our class in the north was invited to the company by me, and everyone's level is much higher than him. He may have a strong sense of self-esteem, and he gritted his teeth and left again. Before leaving, he said to me: 'I will never thank you for your kindness'."

The classmates in the room were silent. Chen Xiaojun didn't expect that Li Wenhao would have such a secret story. Yang Lei sighed and said, "Later he went back to his hometown to farm. I have a client whose ancestral home is from his village. Every Qingming Festival, he goes back to visit the grave every year. The client said that in the second year of Li Wenhao's return home, his father was sick and had no money to treat him. The old man wanted to eat some wild game a few days before his death. He ran to the mountain to catch rabbits, but was bitten by a snake. He fell in the mountain again. He was fine and his legs were broken."

"Later, he became a lame with his left leg and depended on his mother at home. It seemed that he had never been married and never came to see me again. To be honest, I had a opinion on him. I helped him so many times, but he did not make a personal appearance in the end. If he really had the courage to come to me again, I would still look down on him, but he still held his pitiful self-esteem. This person is not worth my rescue!"

After hearing Li Wenhao's experience, Zhang Ziqiang sighed and said, "The pitiful person must be hateful. Yang Lei, you can do this for him. It is because he is not good at competing for love and righteousness, he cannot recognize the reality, and cannot blame others."

Teacher Li Xiujie's loud voice also sounded: "I have taught and educated all my life and discovered a fact that children who grew up in rural areas have a lower psychological endurance than children who grew up in cities, and their adaptability to society is also worse. It is true that they have strong self-esteem and can endure hardships, but when encountering setbacks, I have led more than a dozen classes and pay special attention to the poor peasant children in each class. I often talk to them, hoping to teach them my understanding of society and my view on life. Unfortunately, I have achieved little success."

"It's not okay to have no self-esteem, but being too strong is not a good thing. It's not that I'm prejudice. There is a big reason in this. In China, since ancient times, we have been talking about being in harmony with people. This is our traditional culture and cannot be changed by someone. If someone has too strong self-esteem, they have to be careful when they get along with him. They have to consider whether it will hurt their self-esteem. Over time, people will stay away from him and they will not tolerate society."

"Often people with too strong self-esteem have a low social status. After being excluded by society, they will resent the society. They will not think about it. They only have their own self-esteem. Why do people respect them and make themselves boring in front of them? This phenomenon is everywhere now."

"In my understanding, people with too strong self-esteem have mostly narrow minds! Generally speaking, those who are in high positions pay attention to "can carry a boat in the belly of the prime minister" pay attention to "spitting themselves." Do people have no self-esteem? There are also some, their self-esteem has a degree, and after this degree, they become petty."

"Looking back, Yang Lei's academic performance in school was not good, but he succeeded. There are many such phenomena. Why is this? Some people say that they have more social resources than others, and some people say that they are higher than others. I don't deny that there is such a reason, but it is mainly determined by their style. They have strong ability to withstand setbacks and failures, are optimistic and cheerful, and have high emotional intelligence. Others are very relaxed when they get along with them. They are willing to have friends with him. If there are too many friends, they are easy to walk on. Isn't this how the circle is established?"

After hearing Teacher Li Xiujie's words, Ding Xiangni couldn't help but look at Zhang Ziqiang sideways, but saw that he was still in a state of mind. She thought that the original Zhang Ziqiang of China was born in a farmer family. I wonder if his self-esteem is so strong now? However, Teacher Li may not be right. The gap brought about by social resources cannot be compensated by weaker self-esteem. If I had no uncle, could I climb to the position of county magistrate so quickly? It would be impossible to throw away all of my self-esteem!
Chapter completed!