1482, the rivers and lakes have you (54) three in one(1/3)
Jianghu has you (54)
To be honest, Huang Rong didn't know this mother-in-law very well.
I left with Guo Jing, and when I came back, the child was already two years old. When I came back, I didn’t stay much, and then I took my child and Guo Jing to the sea. After this trip, I came back every three years. Every time I came back, I was in the capital.
The days lasted only ten days and a half. It could be said that she had little chance to get to know her mother-in-law.
Maybe subconsciously, I feel that it would be nice to have Brother Jing. Brother Jing is the most important, and others can be ignored.
This neglect included the mother-in-law in front of me and her biological father.
Every year she would ask people to bring gifts back. She was very generous, giving gifts to the palace, Wan Yankang, and of course Li Ping and Huang Laoxie. But none of these things were carefully prepared. Pearl
Onyx, coral, etc., just give them away. When it comes to this matter, I have to say that Wan Yankang is actually really good. The things he sent back were exchanged for silver, and the silver was used to help buy decent gifts.
Send it in the name of the Guo family. You said that Wanyankang helped with the four o'clock festival. But on weekdays, among these officials, one is celebrating my mother's birthday, another is getting married to his son, and this one is getting married.
You are a daughter, and you have to give birth to your baby again. These things happen almost every day. You can’t ask Wan Yankang to help you take care of things after that. Then who has to come forward? Li Ping is not at home, watching the couple.
There were a lot of things sent back, but those things were converted into money and flowed out day by day. This is not a small amount.
Huang Rong didn't know if she hadn't considered these things. But she asked Li Ping to say, don't give gifts to your family. Even if you bring a cart full of imported goods and send back some fabrics dyed and weaved by the Tujia people from the south, when giving gifts,
At least you can let people know your feelings. It's better than giving away a car full of valuable things every year, and no matter how hard you see people or show no courtesy, then everyone will know that this is what I, an old woman, prepared. Of course, these are all
It's a trivial matter. Li Ping saw people giving gifts to her father like this, or did they send them to her and ask her to pass them to her father through the hands of the princess? So what can her mother-in-law say?
But if she didn't say anything, the wife here would definitely think that she was right in everything, and that she, the mother-in-law, was very satisfied with her.
Socializing with people and giving them things are actually secondary.
"The main thing is sincerity." Li Ping said, "Apart from Jing'er, who else are you sincere to? Fu'er is your biological daughter, you protect her, but compared with Jing'er, you spend so much on Jing'er
You think much more than you spend on Zaifu'er. If you were willing to teach your child well, wouldn't she have the same temperament she has now if she didn't let her grow up? If your child is unhappy, coax her, as long as it doesn't delay your
That's fine. When the child gets into trouble, you help hide it. It's best to hide it even from Jing'er, the father. In your opinion, these things are all yours, and Jing'er doesn't have to worry about them. But for the child
Generally speaking, in addition to mother, there should be a father. Jing'er was born without a father, but from the Mongolian Master Zhebie, to the Seven Heroes of Jiangnan that you don't like to see, and even the Mongolian Temujin Khan, when Jing'er was a child, there were all
He can be regarded as a father figure. The child has a role model in his heart! Seeing the Great Khan, he understood that a man should stand upright and be a hero that everyone respects. Seeing Zhebie being subdued by the Great Khan, he
I admire Zhebie for his martial arts skills, but he also understands that he is as broad-minded as a man. Following several masters of the Jiangnan Seven Heroes, I have learned what loyalty is? What is righteousness? But what about you? You have lived with Jing'er for more than ten years now.
It’s been 20 years now, and even the children are grown up. But tell me, how much has Jing’er changed? You take care of everything for him, and even when socializing with colleagues, he has to take care of you. Daughter-in-law, Jing’er is a little more stupid.
, but he is a sincere person. Even if he suffers some losses when he goes out, what will happen? Don't think that without you in the world, Jing'er will be bullied to death. This kind of perception is wrong! Don't think about it, the official family is in the Navy
Here, there are not only you, but also others. These others will not watch Jing'er suffer. On the contrary, if Jing'er suffers, it may be a blessing. If you lose here, you will make up for it there. As a human being, it is not
You have to be strong in everything.”
Huang Rong didn't speak, she just stood there and listened quietly. With her IQ, she wouldn't be able to understand the meaning, but understanding it doesn't mean she wants to change it. This is her attitude.
A trace of disappointment flashed in Li Ping's eyes, and she shook her head slightly: "Just like Fu'er's matter, if you just insist on not bowing your head, will the matter be solved? Your child is a child, but other people's children are not children? You have to understand
The principle of 'taking a step back'..." Then he broke it into pieces and kneaded it into pieces, and talked about it for a while, then tears came down: "...Madam is my granddaughter, I can't help but feel bad. But you can't put her behind her.
The relationship between the Yang family was cut off abruptly..."
"If it's broken, it's broken." Huang Rong said: "How can the Yang family not bear grudge against Fu'er's treatment of her child? She looks good on the surface, but in her heart she may not be able to hate her!"
Li Ping wiped her tears: "It's better if someone is willing to be nice to you than to fall out at the time. Have you ever thought about how difficult the situation will be for you and Jing'er after you fall out? Why do you always do so when you can obviously take a step back?
You have to overwhelm others. You have to be strong when you are being treated with justice, and you are still stronger when things are being ignored. How can you get the advantage of the world by yourself?"
Huang Rong's face was a little ugly, and she didn't talk back, which was her greatest patience. When she was middle-aged, no one had ever given her such a slap in the face. It seemed that whatever she did was wrong. She had been doing it all these years.
I have never done anything right.
When Li Ping saw her like this, she knew that she hadn't heard a word. She waved her hand: "Okay, you can go out."
Huang Rong didn't hesitate, slammed the door and went out.
Li Ping looked at the direction of the door in a daze, and suddenly felt very aggrieved. After thinking about it for a whole night, she felt that she was wrong. Her mother and son had nothing to begin with, but they were able to make it this far, thanks to God's blessing. At least.
Jing'er has a daughter-in-law who protects him. As a person, you can't be too pushy. You want someone else's daughter-in-law to be good in everything, but how can your own son be good enough for her?
She didn't sleep all night, but she got up early and cooked something delicious for the couple. After the food was on the table, she didn't see anyone else. She got up and asked the girl at home, and then she found out: her daughter-in-law ran away by herself last night.
, Jing'er chased her, but she hasn't come back yet.
Li Ping: "..." She looked in the direction of the door, confused for a while, and sighed: "Sure enough, old people are annoying."
From that day on, when Huang Rong and Guo Jing came back, Li Ping stopped eating with them. She ate alone in the room and didn't say a word. Even when Guo Jing took the initiative to talk, she just said she was tired.
After three days, Guo Jing felt something was wrong and scratched his head anxiously: "Mom, please tell me if you feel uncomfortable... I'll call the doctor right now..."
The doctor invited one after another, and even Wanyankang couldn't pretend not to know and came. As a result, Li Ping was very nice when she met Wanyankang, talking and laughing. She didn't hide anything, and she followed her
She told Wanyankang about her daughter-in-law. She also took advantage of the situation and said to Wanyankang: "... your wife is a good one. When you were young, if you were in love, you would not marry anyone who was not your wife, and you would not marry anyone who was not your king.
Like a gust of wind, it's time to disperse. But for your sake, if you are still in love with your brother and sister all day long, then it won't work. As a person, you should do things at your age...
If your wife has some shortcomings, you have to be patient and tell her properly. You have to remember that she is always by your side, the one closest to you..."
The words 'accompany you' made Wanyankang's nose sore, and he nodded: "Everything you said was good for me, I remember it."
When they were leaving, Guo Jing asked Wanyan Kang: "What happened?"
Wan Yankang thought about the good things about the old man, so he finally said it: "Old man, you have to listen to her words. Otherwise, she will feel that her life is worthless!"
After saying that, they left. Guo Jing understood what Wan Yankang had understood, but Wan Yankang didn't know. Anyway, the couple had a quarrel, and Huang Rong was the one who finally compromised. She didn't compromise with her mother-in-law, but she still compromised with Guo Jing.
Lin Yutong sighed when he heard this. Long Er thought this idea was terrible: "...Is this too dependent on one person?"
If you rely too much on one person, this is a sign of insecurity.
Saying this, she turned around and hugged her mother and then her father: "Fortunately, I have parents, otherwise what should I do?"
In her opinion, Huang Rong's current appearance is related to her growth experience, which cannot be easily changed. Fortunately, she did not!
Lin Yutong doesn't like this, but obviously the fourth master does. He is a more emotional person. When it comes to sensibility, Lin Yutong will be defeated. Look at how tired he and his daughter are. Being recognized by his children seems to have found the value of life.
Same.
In the evening she said to him: "You are getting tired of being with me now."
The fourth master laughed so hard that he fell asleep under the quilt with his feet rubbing against me. How could he get tired of it? With a smile, he stood up with his clothes on and pulled something out from under the desk: "This is for you.
of."
Birthday gift?
Wrapped in silk, it opens into a photo album, which is not too small.
This is of course not a photo album, but a picture album.
She looked at him uncertainly: "Given it to me?" Picture album?
I don’t have a hobby of painting. I can do ink, wash, and oil paints, but that’s limited to painting. In the words of the fourth master, the craftsmanship is too strong. I don’t have any artistic bacteria! Sketching is the best because it is realistic.
I never expected that what he gave me as a gift would be a picture album.
The Fourth Master nodded: "Look!" He took a lamp and placed it on the Kang table in the corner of the Kang, then put down the curtain so that Tongtong could see more clearly.
The picture album has a black background and a red edge with a silk cover. It feels soft, but in fact it is the same material as the soles of shoes. It is very hard, at least much harder than that kind of cardboard.
It's not easy to tear or get wet.
After opening it, there was not a word on the title page.
After turning another page, Lin Yutong's eye circles turned red. The first picture showed a pair of riding clothes and a bright red cloak, with a seven or eight-year-old child in his arms. The child screamed excitedly, as if that
The scream is still lingering in my ears. This was the scene when the fourth master returned home, when she took Honghui to ride a horse in the martial arts arena. It was probably from this scene that it really fell into the fourth master's heart.
She blinked and turned to the second page. On the second page was a drunken-eyed woman. She was standing in a pavilion. There were many men and women in the pavilion. They all had the appearance of men, and the features on their noses, eyes, and faces were all obvious.
The other women either had their faces profiled or had their faces blocked by something. Lin Yutong suddenly laughed. This must be the scene when the brothers were beaten in the eighth master's house. He remembered all his brothers.
It's very accurate, but the Fujins couldn't remember the appearance long ago, so they did it like this. But the self in the painting is vivid. The drunkenness in the eyes, the evil smile on the corner of the mouth, and the suppressed eagerness to try.
, "Do I really think that's the case?" She didn't think so.
The Fourth Master just laughed. Now that he thinks about it, every scene is vivid.
Turning through the pages, there are all kinds of things. There are those who were educated youths, waving sickles, hair sticking to their faces, working in the drizzle, and there were gunfire flying, bullets grazing their cheeks, and rescuers on the battlefield.
Pictures of people, one after another, passed before my eyes, and by the time I finished watching them, the sky was bright.
She looked at the fourth master who was already asleep beside her, looked at his face and stretched brows, and couldn't help but stretched out her hand: Have we been together for so many years?
Yes! We have gone through so many years and will continue to go.
Maybe because it had been so long, she had never had a birthday in a serious way, and her original birthday...thinking about it, she seemed to have a hard time remembering it.
For people who don't have birthdays for a long time, such a sudden and grand birthday is really not used to it.
You have to dress up, so I prepared one outfit after another, and finally chose the most gorgeous outfit according to Long Er's wishes. This outfit was really not worthy of an ordinary face. So, I really took off the makeup on my face.
Now, show your true colors.
A very unfamiliar face that shows no signs of time.
Even Heng'er saw it as a novelty. Lin Yutong said: "Isn't it a bit bad?" The queen's sudden change of face easily aroused speculation.
To be continued...