Is there anything inappropriate about you? If you are from a more sophisticated family, your maternal family or your natal family, you should be watching the whole process.

There are also special cases, such as three relatives, six old friends and few children, or special cases of death where the clothes are difficult to take off and the shroud is difficult to wear and put on. We will ask the specialized person in the village to do so.

Wear it for those who know how to wear it, and then give them a red seal.

But like in the hospital, there is no one in the village to help except my own family. What's more, this is the person appointed by Jin Mancheng's uncle himself.

Why don't you dare to just shirk someone when you point them out in person?

The original intention of this rule should be good. After such a set of procedures, everyone knows that if the elderly are abused and treated poorly, even if no one finds out when the elderly are alive, they will definitely not be able to hide it after they die. Once it is revealed that this is unfilial, no matter what

In the past or now, as long as you want to be shameless, you really can't stand the criticism. Some old people can't stand the torture of illness and don't dare to commit suicide. Why? They are afraid that during the funeral, people will know that their death is not peaceful. They are afraid of their children.

The younger generation was criticized by others. There was that kind in the village. The mother’s legs hurt and she couldn’t bear the pain. With the conditions in those years, there was nothing that could be done. The old man hanged himself. Then the son was stabbed in the spine. He ran for the village.

He was kicked out. Why? You are not filial to your mother, but you still serve the villagers? Serve your grandma's legs!

Everyone gets old one day, right?

With this rule in place, even if there is someone who is unfilial, he has to think carefully about whether he dares to go too far.

But this rule has been circulating for many years. No one knows when it was passed down. But over the years, there must have been evolution. After all, nothing is static. What's more, the implementation of the rules,

It also varies from person to person. Just looking at the character of the uncle's family or the mother's family, or whether the relationship between the two families is good, this will have a direct impact on the implementation.

Originally, the function of these people was to supervise, but later it evolved into giving advice on funerals.

Whether the prepared shroud is good, whether the coffin is good, and whether it is paved and covered, are all things that can be seen through. If you can't see through, then I'm sorry! If you are not satisfied, these people will not show up at the funeral.

People who don’t know will say, love it or not!

But if you don't come, it won't be done.

In the past, the kind of supervision was whether the death was normal and whether the old man had been abused. If there was something bad, the family would not come. If they didn't come, the matter would be serious. No one in the village would dare to help with the burial.

I'm dead. What if I get involved in a lawsuit? Can I become an accomplice?

Therefore, these people did not show up or say anything. Then no one visited the cemetery and no one dared to carry the coffin. Almost no one from home came to help.

No one is allowed to enter the cemetery!

Who can carry their parents out into the wild on their backs, dig a hole and bury them themselves?

With this kind of restriction, no one dares to be unfilial.

But as it evolves, it seems to have changed a bit. For example, if the coffin is not well prepared, he is picky, and if the shroud does not fit, he is also picky. If you don't follow what he says, he won't come. You won't be able to be buried. No.

People who know about it may think you are unfilial.

Therefore, even if you are so angry that you vomit blood, you still have to do what he said.

But most people are sensible, they don't care about that, and they don't want to offend anyone. People are dead, so why do those things happen?

Of course, some stirring up trouble is reasonable. For example, when Aunt Jin’s coffin was too short, didn’t Fourth Master put a coffin on it? It doesn’t matter which son is causing trouble. As long as they ensure that the Meng family’s aunt is buried decently

Just do it.

There are also people who are troublesome themselves, or people who have a lot of quarrels with relatives. They deliberately try to ruin you and ruin your reputation when doing things.

There is a saying among cousins ​​to threaten people: just wait. Wait until your father dies and we will see. It will be weird if you call me "Father" if I don't take care of you.

This threat is quite a deterrent.

It's not just the reputation that stinks, the key thing is that as children, we can't let our old people stink in their coffins just because of this.

Uncle Meng is not only Jin Mancheng's uncle, but also the uncle of so many brothers in the Jin family. If you offend him, you will offend the Meng family. And what did you say? In the future, the remaining four brothers will be gone and they will be the juniors.

Do we still have to invite the Meng family?

And then wait for the Meng family to come back and disgust these children?

Although this is all a matter for the future, there will indeed be considerations in this regard.

Let alone the far one, isn’t the near one right in front of us?

For example, what happened this time:

Okay! You don’t listen to what I say, right? Then I’ll go back now. What will you do with this funeral?

Fourth Master and Lin Yutong came back because they wanted to get the funeral done as quickly as possible without causing any complications. They were originally worried that Li Xian'er would follow others, carry the body, and cause trouble. Can they be delayed because of this matter?

What's more, local custom believes that the person who is pointed out to wash the old man is a filial person. What is contaminated is not bad luck, but blessing.

This shows great filial piety. Merit will definitely protect future generations.

Therefore, the children of Qingping and Qingning do not need to go to Hui when they are at the entrance of the village!

When people talk about funerals, they will also say: So-and-so from whose family is gone, and so-and-so washed so-and-so. This person has been washed by several old people... She is a blessed person!

Qingjuan said: "...Huahua doesn't understand the rules here, Qingfeng doesn't understand?" He called her by his name.

Qingping explained: "You were injured before you came here... I felt so uncomfortable when I saw it..." She felt that anyone who saw their biological father in such a state would not be able to bear it.

While talking, Ye Zi also came over.

Yao Siyun asked: "How is it going over there? Has a mourning hall been set up?"

Ye Zi nodded: "Okay. Qinghui and Qingyuan went to buy a coffin. They sent it over overnight."

Qingjuan laughed sarcastically: "How much did you pay?"

Ye Zi stretched out two fingers: "Two thousand."

Two thousand is neither too much nor too little in rural areas.

Qingjuan said: "Why didn't his uncle choose Qingfeng and Qingshou? Two thousand yuan, didn't he say that the coffin was cheap?" After that, he asked Yao Siyun: "Mom, my father's uncle is also with me.

Like my mother, I prefer my uncle..."

Where do you prefer your uncle?

It's just that your second uncle and your father offended someone for treating him as an uncle.

"Your fourth uncle and fourth aunt have become such a big official." Yao Siyun laughed, "The Meng family and my uncle's family have not benefited from a dime. I have approached your second uncle and your father and asked them to

Finding a job for this son and sending the grandchildren to college are all blocked by the two of them. How old is his uncle this year? He is relying on his old age to sell his old age! What can you do to him? It was intentional, and you

What can you do? When you were in the provincial capital, your father said that just ask one of his cousins ​​to come over. Who knew he would come? It was inconvenient at that time, but now that he is back, you can't offend him. If that doesn't work, go to the Meng family.

If it doesn't work, just use money to talk. All the juniors below are like this uncle." After that, he said to Qingping, "I was afraid that your temper would bring back your father...
Chapter completed!