Long years (147)

Qingning somewhat admired her aunt, who had to worry about everything from household appliances to strings for picking out ears and tying up sundries.

She said, "Tell my sister to prepare slowly."

"Is she ready?" Yingzi said worriedly, "She will make do with whatever she can. If you don't think about her, she will always be left behind."

That's okay.

In the past few years in the capital, it was her who took care of the family.

She also always feels that her sister is very reliable and she doesn't have to worry about anything at home.

It turned out that my aunt called this "losing things", so what should I call it when I live my life in the future?

When she went back and asked her mother, her mother said that her daughter would never understand how a mother feels at this time.

Qingping took a small notebook and prepared to interview her mother seriously: "How are you feeling now?"

"What mood are you in?" She was so upset! She snorted softly, "I feel like I want to send you out of the house!"

The Qingping pen was all ready, and then Duotou said to herself, "As soon as she closed the notebook, is there any way to speak?"

Xu Qiang saw that his mother-in-law was not in a bright mood and was relatively docile. When she came back, she did housework and bought vegetables and fruits. Anyway, she was busy at home and outside. Then Yingzi had a different attitude towards Xu Qiang. She didn't ask Xu Qiang to do this.

Ask Xu Qiang to do that, and there will always be Xu Qiang’s favorite dishes when cooking.

Qingping felt that who was the dearest one.

When no one was around, her mother filmed her: "If I don't treat others well, how can they treat you well?"

Whether he treats me well or not has nothing to do with whether you treat him well or not?

Who said it doesn't matter?

This is the most childish thing to say!

Yingzi explained her reasoning to her two daughters at home, and even called Qingning down to tell her to listen.

She gave an example, saying that so-and-so’s family was not good to her son-in-law, and what happened next. She also said that so-and-so’s family was good to her son-in-law, and what happened to her son-in-law. “I know, you are young people now.

, they all think the same as what is shown on TV. He must love you to death, and he can’t live without you... My child! You have to remember! Anyone can live without you. If you insist on asking others to divorce,

If you can't live without someone else, then you won't be able to live this life. Life is not like that. Likewise, I'm even more afraid that if you can't live without someone else, then you are asking for your own fault."

Yingzi sighed, "This is why everyone is willing to raise sons but not daughters. You have to marry your daughter to someone else's family. Whether it is good or bad, you can't see at all. When young people fall in love, two people are good with each other.

Like a person? But after this force has passed, you still want you, he is still him. You look at some people, why do you say that you are not willing to marry your daughter to a family that you don’t know about? I’m afraid it’s inconvenient to not understand the situation.

Well, it is true that acquaintances have a benefit that no one else has, and that is affection. The couple is really stumbling a bit. Whoever wants to talk about breaking up can easily not open their mouths. There is no day that they can't live with.

Not all days are made easy.”

Qingping and Qingning looked at each other. They didn't agree very much with this theory.

Qing Ping said: "You always compare us with that time. There is really no comparison. Let's not talk about the age, but the geographical limitations. Most of the girls who stayed in the city have financial ability.

No one is born dependent on the other. He makes money, and I make money. When we go out to socialize, men and women are equal. It's not like you and my dad, who are in charge of the home, and everything outside the home is my dad's business.

Now...can you go to the tax bureau to pay taxes? Can you go to the health bureau to apply for a health license? Look! You can't! You always feel that that's where men go, and that's where men can talk. Then take a look

If you say that, how can my aunt be an official?"

Yingzi slapped her daughter angrily: "Is this what I'm talking about? What I'm saying is that in this life, you can't just focus on love and love..."

But what’s life without this kind of love?

This time Qingping didn't refute her, he roughly understood what she wanted to express, and just nodded and said: "I understand, understand!"

Yingzi then returned to the topic, "Just talk about Han Cai'er, your Aunt Cai'er..."

It's a woman who lives in an alley and is divorced from her husband Qiu Cheng, who works in a supply and marketing cooperative.

Both of them knew this person, and Qingping had more dealings with him.

Therefore, Yingzi said: "...some time ago, Qiu Cheng's father died..."

Qingping immediately realized who he was talking about and exclaimed: "The old man's body looks really good..."

Yingzi nodded, "The illness was serious. I sent him to the hospital and called him back. No one could wake him up and he couldn't even open his eyes. The Qiu family is such a big family. There are hundreds of filial sons and grandsons, from the house to the yard.

I can’t even kneel down. This old man won’t even open his eyes no matter who asks. In these years, didn’t the old man often take care of your Aunt Cai’er’s two children..."

Two sons were born that year, and the older one was given to Qiu Cheng. The child could not live without his mother and lived mostly with her. The younger one only recognized his mother. Later, he became a grandfather and lived alone, just to take care of his two grandchildren.

"... When the old man got his job, everyone in the village advised Cai'er to go and see the old man for the last time. Then Han Cai'er went. Marrying this old man again after these years is not a thing, Han Cai'er had to say

Shun Xin, that's really not the case. The old man helped her take care of her two sons, and she felt grateful in her heart. She couldn't stop crying when she called her dad. The old man didn't even open his eyes when anyone called him, so Cai'er yelled and struggled to open his eyes.

She opened her eyes, crying, and talking anxiously... Cai'er helped the old man up again and asked the old man to spit, and then served him. What did the old man say before that? He said that the Qiu family owed Cai'er,

He said that they did something wrong when they became parents, which led to the couple's divorce. He also said that he couldn't worry about the two grandsons, and said that everyone in the yard cried. Finally, he left a message, don't call the man Qiu Cheng later married wearing sackcloth and wearing filial piety.

, she is not allowed to visit her ancestral graves in the future... In fact, in the past few years, the one she married later always went to Qiu Cheng's brother's house when she came back, and she was not allowed to enter the old house. Until her death, the old man only recognized Cai'er as his daughter-in-law...

…”

These two sisters cannot understand the logic of being recognized and then being fulfilled for the rest of their lives.

What’s wrong if you don’t let people in? What’s wrong if you don’t ask people to come in?

The two of them are living outside, and their good life is over. If you don’t ask me to come back, I won’t come back, right?

Okay! The two sisters probably understood what she wanted to say, that is, when you get married, you must do your duty as a wife. If you are good to other people's families, you will not be treated badly sooner or later. If you really wait for the day when the man is unreliable, he

None of his family members would watch him act recklessly.

Use the power of moral clan, etc. to restrain him.

Qingping wanted to refute again, but Qingning held him down and whispered: "If you refute again, you'll get into an argument again."

This seems to be the case between the two mothers.

I can't think of it anymore when I see it. I can't get better after seeing it for two days and I feel choked.

As for Yingzi, after she married her daughter, she wished she could instill in her daughter all the life experiences and lessons she had accumulated over the past half of her life that she had not given to her children.

But as for Qingping, did you have any phobias before marriage? She must have had some. However, her life experience told her that what she longed for was short-lived. The more she became more frightened and nervous, the more nervous she became.

Qing Ning said to Qing Ping in private: "That's not necessarily the case. Really! Look at my father and my mother, it's been half a lifetime. They are so tired when they are alone together."

Then he talked about a few things about his parents, such as sitting on the lawn in the park with one pillow on the other's lap. At home, the father was carrying the mother on his back to play up and down the stairs. Not to mention that the two of them were locked up.

The lights are dancing at home.

"Look!" Qingning said after giving examples: "No matter how life goes by, experience is not always correct."

Okay! Qingping accepted this statement and tried not to refute it despite her mother's nagging.

But she could endure anything, but she couldn't help but refute the comments she made after the house was renovated and cleaned.

why?

Yingzi said: "This house is well decorated, but it's just... is this a place where people live?"

ah?

What do you mean?!

Yingzi felt that there was no place to sit when she came in. She felt that it was wrong to sit anywhere.

As soon as people sit in, they feel that it doesn't match the mood.

The key point is: "There must be someone dedicated to cleaning this. In such a big house, just cleaning the room, you can't even think about doing anything else after doing this alone. Look, the shoes we changed were not put in the entrance hall."

, I suddenly felt very messy. The bag was not placed in the right place, and it felt wrong.”

This needs to be lived in by someone with good living habits, or the house needs to hire a nanny to take care of it at any time.

Xu Qiang quickly said: "Don't worry, I will definitely invite aunty at home."

Yingzi glared at Qingping, "Then you don't go to work now, and I still have to take care of you at home?"

Just because I don't go to work doesn't mean I don't work, okay?

When Xu Qiang was gone, she said to Qingping: "Xu Qiang's father hasn't used a nanny yet. Do you think it's appropriate for you to use a nanny first? It would have been okay to hire a nanny for his father first. But he

Dad’s situation...the old bachelor hires a nanny and they gossip."

Without so much talk, she just said, "If I don't hire a nanny, I'll find an hourly worker who will come and clean the house regularly."

This works!

The mother-in-law didn't want her daughter to do housework, so her mother-in-law narrowed her eyes when she saw her son-in-law.

She stayed there for more than a month. In September, the orchard at home was really busy, so she went home.

Restaurants have been closed for such a long time before.

When they returned home, the phone call came three days later. The wedding date was set, and it was set on the 28th of the twelfth lunar month.

Then Qingping felt that getting married was really tiring.

Wedding photos must be taken.
To be continued...