Years (126)

The Lin family's funeral almost started to fight.

Lin Yujian was responsible for the funeral of the blind father, and no other brothers gave up anything from beginning to end.

Just put a gift of 1,000 yuan on the gift book.

When Yingzi called Lin Yutong, she said, "Don't mention the matter in the gift book... At that time, my second brother's house paid a gift of 1,000 yuan, but in fact she only wrote one sum and didn't give it at all."

Lin Yutong was stunned and then she understood after thinking about it.

I wrote a thousand to ask Lin Yujian to go home to fool his wife. But I didn’t give the money, and the money that I couldn’t match in the account must have been added later by the elder brother.

There are also such things that fool people in rural affairs, but they all have a tacit understanding with the master. I know you can't take it out, and I don't want to make you lose face, so I squeaked the house and just said that the money was given directly to him. This must be a very close relationship to go through this procedure. But if it weren't for no way, who could do this? Besides, Lin Yukang is not the kind of person who can't take out money! If he doesn't give money, he thinks he can't pay. What should I say about this? My father's funeral is not a scattered person, so your elder brother will take the initiative to hold the funeral, and you won't even pay a thousand gifts. This matter is quite unpretentious.

Yingzi sighed: "It's too late for the elder brother to hide it, and I'm afraid of people making jokes. If it weren't for helping with the accounting, we wouldn't know about it if we were familiar with your second brother."

Then it doesn't matter if you talk about this now. After the funeral, it will be over. Lin Yujian doesn't say it, and the others talk about it privately.

But knowing what Lin Yukang did, I feel that this funeral is not peaceful. As expected, my mother is gone and the problem arises.

When the boss buried the father, then the remaining mother should not be the boss no matter how she turns to him.

Where is the funeral stop? What should I do with the funeral? What are the rules? As a result, the deacons in the ceremony room came in. When everyone asked about these things, everyone spoke. After looking at Lin Yujian for a long time, they felt that the atmosphere was wrong, so they quickly asked: Who is the victim?

That is to say, who will be buried and who will be the funeral?

No one answered.

It’s all about Lin Yujian.

It seems to be saying, if you have money, you are the boss, and you have spent too much money on your father. Don’t you pay for your own mother’s funeral money?

Lin Yujian was so angry that he said to Lin Yukang: "You are all grandpas. You have to do something that can be done in your life..."

The implication is: I buried my father, I found your eldest son’s job, I paid for my wife, and I prepared the betrothal gifts and houses, which are all prepared by your daughter-in-law, and the medical expenses paid by the hospital I contacted. You said that this has been spent for half your life, and you told me what you did to do? I will sell you whatever farming is produced, and I will help build the house at home. In the end, in the end, you won’t take the lead in taking the last thing?

When Lin Yukang heard this, he said, "That parents didn't just give birth to us brothers."

In addition to one sister, there are two younger brothers.

These two younger brothers are from all over the world. One bought a house in Pengcheng and settled down, while the other worked in another place but bought a house and shop in the provincial capital of the province. They should have plans to come back.

Anyway, Lin Yukang and Lin Yuye are only working at home to farm.

But it cannot be said that Lin Yujian is sorry for Lin Yukang. Didn’t his son find a job? Including his daughter-in-law’s job.

In fact, I really don’t want anyone to be sorry, it’s Lin Yuye’s family. If Xiao Xiao is well-off, it will be considered a place.

Therefore, Lin Yujian sat there and didn't say anything. He was sorry for anyone, only these younger brothers and sisters were sorry for him.

Lin Yushun works in Pengcheng, who is the youngest and is also a bachelor: "I bought a house... I got married and had children... The cost of living there is high... I really don't have much money... Otherwise, I'll pay for my mother's coffin..."

After all, he drove for his leader after joining the army, and his work was relatively stable.

Lin Yufu is honest and saves everything outside. Most of the time he can buy a house in the provincial capital is subsidized by his elder brother. The child is only in elementary school and has to pay the loan fee, rent a house, and pay the mortgage. He feels that he has to live in a hard time, so he says, "I will buy the clothes that my mother has dressed... and then pay another thousand yuan..."

Lin Ersan said, "Then you have to make it clear that this thousand yuan is the money for funerals, and the money for your gift book is another."

Lin Yufu had no words at that time, so he was the default.

But when it was time to receive the gift, his wife handed over fifty.

That's not enough to take one thousand with the funeral clothes, but it's always arbitrary. I'm happy to give these, what can you do?

Lin Ersan leaned against the door and watched the gifts one by one. The boss gave one thousand, and she curled her lips. She was so embarrassed to give this to him with his wealth. But she didn't say anything. Lin Yuye also came, half-dead, and took a thousand yuan. She curled her lips again. If it weren't for this sister-in-law and mother-in-law who couldn't die, she wouldn't be afraid of retribution. Lin Yushun took one thousand, and she laughed at her, and made a thin coffin to fool things, and took a big advantage. Only one thousand was this? Yingzi gave one thousand, well, this was OK, it was a kind of courtesy exchange. She gave one thousand for Tong, and she hummed again, and she didn't come back.

, I didn't give me more gifts, but I recognized them later. The two sisters didn't bring the offerings, which made her feel uncomfortable the most. Are they planning to break up with her family or what? I have to write down this matter. Yuling didn't come, and her son-in-law came, which was also one thousand, which was almost the same. Lin Yuqi gave another thousand, and she curled her lips. How much did the father spend on his elder brother? If the elder brother's mother is gone, you will only take one thousand. What about the face? But Rongrong put it at the end, and the mourning man in the veil and mourning also gave one thousand yuan, and her face eased suddenly. Look! Yulong is gone, and the wife does not shrink back in the main business.

When she turned her face and saw the Yufu family pulling and pulling, she came in and took out fifty dollars. She immediately exploded: "... When you got married, I sewed the quilt and the mattress, and bought the sheet and the quilt cover. Your family has two children, and I will prepare the single-coat cotton coat. Now you have to take fifty dollars... Who are you embarrassed..."

There was a quarrel at that time.

The second brother said to Yingzi: "Your ancestors of the Lin family have lost people!"

One really took fifty, and the other shouted on the spot, not knowing how to write the word "shamed".

Just hold the funeral of the elderly, be safe and lively. You can’t yell at the big things and make people laugh at them, or let the deceased go and leave in peace.

No one is the one who can’t live, but he cares a lot, and no one is willing to be the one who suffers losses.

Yingzi didn't say that the second child was really ugly. There was no fixed constitution for doing funerals. If the conditions at home allow, we will do it more lively. If the conditions at home do not allow, people will have to be buried, right? If you can't afford a large meal, and the cabbage and tofu will be served, it will also make the old man feel embarrassed.

What are you trying to say that you are so noisy?

The wife of Yufu family said to Mrs. Lin: "Your family pays the banquet, but how much money can you spend even the Manhan banquet? The gifts are collected by your family. You don't want to pay a penny, and you plan to make a fortune through your mother's funeral?"

Can Sister Lin be afraid of her? There is no one in this family who can't understand what she can't control and her men. She kneels in front of the mourning hall and crys her? J went to the panic. When she passed by, her brother-in-law and sister-in-law were all children crying, crying for her hard work to help her take care of her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, and cries about the difficulty of helping her brother-in-law and sister-in-law get married and start a career... "...You always say something... What did you say at that time... I said that I am good to my younger brother and sister... They will never lose their conscience... Now it's not a loss of conscience... Mom... Why did you leave... Leave me? Who should I tell you..."

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As a result, Li Xian'er refused to go, and did not ask to bring gifts, and told them: "My parents died and didn't point to others..."

OK! If you don’t go, don’t go.

This kind of thing should be reported to the in-laws, and every household must report it.

He also reported the demise to Laowu's family. Ma Xiaoting sat at the door, and the alley was full of people. Then the person who reported the demise came over and parked in the alley and asked, "Which family is Jin Laowu's family?"

Before anyone could tell, Ma Xiaoting knew that she was the one who reported the funeral when she saw the white cloth strips tied on the motorcycle. She didn't care about the funeral, so she went straight to: "The fifth family went out to work, and the people were not here." She had to take the gifts after reporting the funeral, and she didn't want to pay that amount of money.

The person who reported the death was not true or false, so he turned around and left. If the person was not there, who would he report it to?

The people in the alley scolded Ma Xiaoting so badly that they were not particular about how much they did.

The person who likes to speak justice said: "I don't believe that your parents will never die in the future..."

"My parents die and my brother, what's the matter with me a married daughter?" Ma Xiaoting laughed, as if she was no big deal.

The man said, "Okay! Don't bother, your parents-in-law are dead, and your family has no major issues to do for the time being. I saw that your daughter will get married in the future, what should you do when your son gets married? Everyone is the same, and you go out to work and are not at home!"

Everyone around him nodded, saying this, and laughed and said, "I don't believe that you and Lao Wu will not die in the future... They will not accept your family's death..."

"I'll talk about the future." Ma Xiaoting got up and turned back: "You want to worry about this."

Then they slammed the door of their house.

If others say this kind of thing, they won’t listen to it. After cursing for a few words, they will ask each other about which relative of the Jin family is holding a funeral.

I don’t know who said that the second child didn’t go to the orchard, whether it was the mother-in-law or who had lost it.

These people directly called Ma Xiaoting a fool.

If you don’t go to the Lin family’s funeral, it’s not only Yingzi’s parents’ home, but also Tong’s parents’ home. You are stupid enough to save that 5100 pieces of money, are you stupid?

Anything leaked from Tong's hands was not a small number.

Is Tong the person who makes people suffer?

What a kind person.

So before the person who reported the death was back, someone called the second child on his phone and told him everything about Ma Xiaoting's behavior. The second child was so angry that he did not hide it from Yingzi, and only said: "... Lao Wu doesn't know about this..."

Just know what will be different?

It is impossible to hide the incident of reporting the death. The person who reported the death must reply to the Lin family when he came back. Of course, Lin Ersao asked Yingzi, "That's just that there are not many people in the Jin family, right?"

The third family must have come.

Others, love comes or not.

Yingzi nodded: "Don't reserve more seats for the Jin family..." He did not explain that Lao Wu was not at home.

As a result, the next day, not only the three-member family came, but also Zhao Aihua and Zhao Aihua's two sons. They also received gifts from each other, both of which were 200 yuan.

Very proud of face.

After the funeral was over, Yingzi called Lin Yutong and said, "...Si Liu doesn't understand things..." It means Li Xian'er and Ma Xiaoting, "It's a blessing that we don't have a relationship with our parents, otherwise we will have to make enemies..."

That's the truth.

He talked about Zhao Aihua again: "Don't worry, the family affairs are done openly."

Lin Yutong nodded and wrote down this. Zhao Aihua's two sons naturally have some help, so we can't really stand by. In addition, Wu Shuang is not married yet, "When you get married, remember to tell me..." He has to give me some gifts.

Reciting etiquette is a basic respect for people.

Yingzi felt relieved of this and talked about Aunt Lin’s funeral: “…I haven’t seen such a shameful thing for many years…the thin-skinned coffin…the unfitting shroud…especially the shoes on her feet…there are a whole size…it is a whole size…to pull up with a shoe tong to be considered put on…”

Shoes are the most suitable, especially those that cannot be worn in smaller sizes. This is called wearing small shoes. When you get there, you have to wear small shoes. How miserable this is!

"Brother doesn't know?" Lin Yutong felt that if this was the case, Lin Yujian had not yet helped him, it would be a little strange.

Yingzi laughed: "Who goes to say it? Wearing is all about the daughter-in-law and daughter, and the son is not in front of him. Whoever talks too much? When I see it, I just pretend that I didn't see it. The daughter and daughter-in-law are all kissing, so it's my turn to talk too much."

It was impossible for Mrs. Lin to know that she didn't go. Even though she knew, Lin Yutong felt that whether she was talking or not was still between the two.

Speaking to Lin Yutong, Yingzi had nothing to cover up, and she said whatever she wanted, "...the table was a table of 50 yuan for a table...the soup was thin and watery...the chicken, fish, elbows, no big dish...the wine was loose wine...the wine was bought for dozens of dollars...the four-piece mourning class..."

After counting carefully, the whole funeral was filled with shabby feeling.

Nowadays, there are very few tables of 51 tables, all of which are up to 100. Most families are between 100 and 120. The tables of 18 to 200 are more decent. The food and drink are not particular, but at least they should be more lively. The music class for the funeral of four people... Lin Yutong shook her head. The coldest ones are all six, usually eight, ten people are considered lively, and twelve people are considered lively. If you want to be more lively, sixteen people were more lively. Back then, the blind father had twenty people playing and beating.

This comparison is not shabby.
To be continued...