This is the problem of high emotional intelligence.

Only veterans have it.

Du Xiaoyin definitely didn't.

And when Zhang Haidong heard that Jiumei said that Du Xiaoyin came back to talk about him every day, he couldn't help but feel secretly happy.

It turns out that she has been paying attention to herself!

No wonder he wants to get so close to himself.

Although his sense of family responsibility made him deliberately avoid Du Xiaoyin's enthusiasm, deep down in his heart, he still felt a small sense of satisfaction.

That sense of satisfaction made Zhang Haidong feel comfortable.

Of course, he didn't show it on his face, but said seriously: "How can I be so awesome! I am just an ordinary high school graduate, and I have failed in society for many years. If Xiaoyin's cousin hadn't vigorously promoted me,

If you had trained me, I wouldn't have been able to achieve what I have today. It's because of my good fortune."

"Look...look..."

Jiumei pointed at Zhang Haidong and said.

"What is a successful person? This is what a successful person is! He has excellent abilities, but he never greeds for credit and gives all the credit to his leaders. With such a humble character, if you don't achieve results, who can? How can there be so many so-called

If you are lucky, only good people can have good friends around them."

Jiumei gave a thumbs up and said.

Du Xiaoyin also smiled and nodded.

Zhang Haidong felt comfortable again and smiled sheepishly.

Girls with short hair are really not simple.

There is a sense of exhilaration in my nature.

"Just kidding."

Zhang Haidong was at a loss for words and gently scratched his head.

"Okay. Didn't you have a cocktail party at the company just now? You should have drank a lot. When Xiaoyin called me and said you were coming, I had already prepared milk tea for you in advance. You can drink some of this quickly.

It’s very effective in relieving hangover.”

Jiumei said as she picked up a cup of brewed milk tea and handed it over.

Zhang Haidong quickly said thank you and then started drinking.

It's cherry flavored.

tastes good.

Very soft.

Zhang Haidong has gradually started to like this taste recently.

Just like when you slowly get used to something, you will choose to accept it and look for the advantages in it to tolerate it.

This is how I feel about cherry flavor now.

It tastes good instinctively.

People who drink liquor will be very thirsty.

Zhang Haidong drank the entire cup of milk tea in one breath, which quenched his thirst.

When he was looking for the trash can, Jiumei took it and threw it into the trash can at his feet.

"I'll just throw it away."

"Thanks."

Zhang Haidong picked up a tissue and wiped the corners of his mouth.

He was very comfortable with Jiumei's enthusiasm and was full of good impressions.

Jiumei casually opened a can of potato chips and ate it, then said, "Would you like to eat some? Have a can? This one is not cherry-flavored, but it is delicious."

"No, no, I just ate a lot of cakes at the reception and I'm full."

Zhang Haidong waved his hand quickly and said.

"If I eat so many sweets, I'll turn you into a pig."

Du Xiaoyin said with a smile.

Zhang Haidong smiled but said nothing.

"There's no need to be so reserved. I feel like you can't let go at all. Xiaoyin and I are very easy-going people! Besides, you are still in the marketing planning business, and you usually have to go deep into the ranks of the people to find their hearts.

Is it a resonance point? If we don’t communicate more with the people and learn more about their needs, how can we make the best marketing plan?”

Jiumei smiled and stuffed a piece of potato chips into her mouth, and then said: "We can be considered friends. Since we are friends, there is no problem in talking about what is on your mind. Let me think about it..."

She raised her head and stared at the ceiling, wiped the potato chip crumbs from the corner of her mouth, and then said: "Let's just talk about emotional things, okay? This should be a common topic for adults, right? I'm confused,

But I rarely tell anyone."

"OK."

Looking at Jiu Mei who was looking at her inquiringly, Zhang Haidong nodded.

"Okay. Let's talk about me first. I have been hurt. I have been severely emotionally hurt.

How should I put it? This boyfriend is now my seventh boyfriend.

From the very beginning of our enthusiasm, now we have almost nothing in common except sex, and we live like water.

All he knows is that I am his girlfriend and he is my boyfriend.

That's all.

Tell me, can a love like ours endure to the end?

I feel that when the love I long for loses its freshness, everything becomes boring. It’s like boiled chicken breasts, and I don’t want to take another bite.”

Jiumei said carefully.

"Well……"

"Do you think you can't hold on emotionally?"

"right!"

Zhang Haidong pondered for a moment after hearing this affirmative answer.

This problem seems to be the same as Liu Shanbai Yourong's marriage failure.

There was a lot of enthusiasm at the beginning, then there was a glue-like atmosphere in the middle, and then there was separation and separation at the end...

Feelings are like a circle, everything is back to where it started.

That starting point is singleness.

If you only rely on passion and certain sexual impulses to maintain your marriage, it will not last long.

People like the new and hate the old.

Men and women are no exception.

Only when you are independent and have your own small world and goals can you truly usher in your own independent love.

Of course, no matter how independent love is, it can only walk on one leg.

When love and family affection come together, tolerance and consideration, those things that cannot be separated, can evolve into true love.

Because by that time, you will be an inseparable part of him.

What you do is all he cares about.

If you are cold, he will add clothes to you...

When you get hot, he will blow the air conditioner on you...

When you cry, he will wipe your tears...

If you are wronged, he will rush to the front to protect you, and then say to the person who wronged you: "I'm here to vent her anger! I'm not here to uphold justice!"

They are not related by blood, but they protect each other.

Because he knows that you are the one who will accompany him throughout his life.

Of course, if Jiumei were told so many great truths, she would definitely not listen.

Zhang Haidong carefully organized the words in his mind, and then said softly: "I think you should first understand why the two of you want to be together?

Was it a momentary impulse?

Or does your face determine everything?

In other words, you are truly determined to find someone who loves you and spend the rest of your life together.

If it's just the above conditions, then you can just talk about it as you like.
To be continued...