Hearing what Xiang Nan said, Nan Li and Xia Junshan became interested.

"Junior brother, what do you think of cultivating children's self-control?" Xia Junshan quickly asked for advice.

"Children are naturally lively and active. Even the most honest children can't help but move their hands and feet when they see something they are interested in. This is determined by hormones and is not based on human will." Xiang Nan laughed.

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"So in order to cultivate children's self-control, it is difficult for them to do it alone. At this time, parents must take responsibility and set clear goals for them. When and what to do, they must plan.

If you fail to reach the goal, you will be punished, and if you reach the goal, you will be rewarded. Only by persevering in this way can you cultivate your child's self-control. Just like washing your face, brushing your teeth, and washing your feet, you will teach them over and over again in the beginning. Later, if you don't let her wash, she won't do it herself.

promise."

"Yes, that makes sense." Nan Li and Xia Junshan looked at each other and both felt that Xiang Nan was right.

Just like Chaochao, he didn't like bathing very much when he was a child, and every time he took a bath, it was like a war. Now he is addicted to bathing, and when the time comes every day, he rushes to the bathroom.

"Brother and sister-in-law, you have to remember one thing. Cultivating self-control is not a matter of just a few words. You must be ruthless and perseverant." Xiang Nan smiled and said, "I know you are both slaves to your daughter, and you have always been supportive.

She is doting on Huanhuan, but her heart softens when her daughter is unhappy.

But I advise you to persevere. Otherwise, as long as you relax once, there will be a second, third, and fourth time, and all your previous efforts will be in vain.

Those who follow the rules will be immortal. To practice amazing skills, you must work hard. Learning has never been an easy task. The four of you and I all came from the school days. Who has never gotten up early and gone to bed late, and who has never forgotten to eat and sleep.

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It is precisely because of our efforts back then that we are now able to sit and eat in such a high-end restaurant. Otherwise, we would not even dare to enter."

"Yes." Nanli and Xia Junshan both nodded.

The two of them had worked hard to get into prestigious universities. So Xiang Nan's words were very much in line with their wishes.

Even Zhang Xueer thinks Xiang Nan is right.

Although she doesn't agree with chicken babies, she still agrees with cultivating children's self-control.

After all, how can a person who cannot control himself be able to hold important positions in the future?

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When Xiang Nan saw Nan Li, Xia Junshan and his wife listened and couldn't help but smile and nod.

He knew that Xia Huanhuan's self-control was very poor.

As long as there are no parents watching, she will indulge herself. She will read novels, read comics, and even break erasers into pieces. The homework that can be done in half an hour cannot be completed even if it takes three hours.

Xia Junshan and Nan Li should also be blamed for this.

He always advocates happy education and does not impose any restrictions on her. As the saying goes, a small tree will not flow if it is not cultivated, and a person will not cultivate it. Xia Huanhuan has not been restrained since she was a child, so it is easy for her to develop bad study habits.

From kindergarten to now, it has been at least six years, and it has already formed a habit. It is easy to change the situation, but hard to change the temperament. Once a habit is formed, it is difficult to change even if you want to.

Just like once a person gets used to smoking, his mouth will feel empty even if he doesn't hold one in his mouth.

What's even more troublesome is that Xia Huanhuan's ability to withstand stress is extremely fragile. She cries constantly and even vomits when she gets excited.

So this makes it difficult for Xia Junshan and Nan Li to restrain her cruelly.

This creates a difficult situation.

Bad habits have been formed, and if left alone, the children's academic performance will not improve, and parents will become anxious.

If you manage well, the children won't listen at all. If you control them too much, the children will get sick.

After tossing and tossing like this, the final result is a lose-lose situation.

Although the play has a seemingly bright ending, Nanli is no longer a chicken baby, Huanhuan is relieved, and the family is happy again.

But as Nan Li said, can you avoid being promoted from primary school to junior high school, can you avoid passing the high school entrance examination, and the college entrance examination? When the time comes, you will still be anxious when you should be anxious, and you will still be painful when you should be painful.

If you are reluctant to discipline your children, society will help you make up for it.

Xiang Nan also grew up as a child, so he still doesn’t understand this truth.

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After chatting for a while, everyone dispersed.

When Xia Junshan called the waiter to settle the bill, he realized that Xiang Nan had already settled the bill.

This made Xia Junshan and Nan Li very embarrassed.

We agreed to treat Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer to dinner, but in the end, they settled the bill.

"Junior brother, you..." Xia Junshan was a little embarrassed.

"Brother, eating is for communicating feelings. Whoever spends money is not spending it." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Don't argue with me about this."

"Yes, it's good if everyone is happy." Zhang Xueer also smiled.

Xia Junshan and Nan Li looked at each other and felt very sorry.

However, seeing Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer insisting so much, they both had no choice but to smile and nod.

"Okay, you get to invite me this time, and I will definitely invite you next time." Xia Junshan thought for a moment and said.

"Okay, there's a chance." Xiang Nan nodded.

…

Afterwards, the four of them called for a driver and left separately.

"Zhong Yi, I think Huanhuan's parents are pretty good." Zhang Xueer said with a smile on the way.

Xia Junshan and Nan Li are well-educated, well-educated, and well-spoken people. It's actually quite fun to chat with them.

"They are both good." Xiang Nan nodded, "Otherwise, Huanhuan's character would not be so lively, cheerful, and enthusiastic. This is obviously a character that can only be developed by being born in a happy family.

On the contrary, look at Yan Ziyou. Compared to Huanhuan, he is much duller. Moreover, have you noticed that he likes to pick his fingers and often has wounds on his hands. This is a sign of excessive stress and self-abuse.

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Zhang Xueer was stunned and said in surprise, "Really or not?! I really didn't notice this."

"If you don't believe me, you can go back and take a closer look." Xiang Nan nodded, "In my opinion, this is not surprising. His mother is so weird. She didn't understand the situation before she said evil words. If she offended someone, she would

If you can't bear the consequences, give me a bottle of red wine.

From these two things, it can be seen that she is short-sighted, impulsive and irritable, and has a fierce temperament. With a mother like her, no matter how good a child is, she can't learn from it. Just watch if you don't believe it, Yan Ziyou has greatly regressed in her studies.

, that is, within this half year.”

"No way?!" Zhang Xueer couldn't believe it.

"From the last math test, it can be seen that Yan Ziyou's learning ability is average." Xiang Nan explained, "He has been taking tutoring classes since the first grade to compete for the Mathematical Olympiad. It stands to reason that he is better than his classmates.

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But the last test was just a little over the top and the questions were a little weird, so he couldn't do it. This means that all his Mathematical Olympiad studies were in vain and he didn't build up any mathematical thinking ability. If he continues to study, it will be the same.

It’s all in vain.”

Zhang Xueer nodded after hearing this.

Yan Ziyou has been taking tutoring since the first grade, and it stands to reason that his learning progress is faster than that of his classmates. This has also made his grades consistently among the best over the years.

In the last test, although the math questions were over the syllabus, they were not too much. He should have learned them in a cram school. But she couldn't answer them, which shows that his math foundation is not solid enough.
Chapter completed!