Chapter 1600
The word "almost" is broad.
The mistakes Liu made can be big or small. Over the years, they have accumulated a lot, but none of them fall within the "seven rules".
Today Ye Yuran can divorce Ms. Liu because of these problems, but tomorrow she may divorce others because of other similar problems.
Divorcing a wife is a very serious matter.
It will generally not be used unless absolutely necessary.
If someone divorces someone based on the "Seven Out Rules", either the woman has really done something, or the husband's family has bad moral character and is not an honest man, and they specifically found a reason to want to change his wife, but they just divorced him.
It's just under the banner of "Seven Outs".
Ye Yuran explained to Zhu Bamei that when she was in Zhujia Village, she asked her second aunt, Big Mouth and the others to reconcile because it was her territory and she had the final say.
Even if they get divorced, she can ensure that the two women live a good life, and no one will have the guts to take advantage of them.
But outside, it's completely different.
"When your third brother took office in Qingyuan County, my mother built a women's factory there, do you still remember?"
Zhu Bamei nodded.
"My mother also told you about those women. Please recall carefully. Under what circumstances were those women forced into despair?"
Women in the women's factory were divorced for various reasons, most of whom were unable to give birth to sons.
There are also those who are disliked by her husband's family and accuse her of stealing.
There were also cases where the man died without giving birth to a son, and was devoured and deprived of his family.
There are also cases where the man was sold to his husband's family by his mother's family, and was sold to another person by his mother-in-law after the man's death, and then ran away due to domestic violence.
"Looking at their situations, they seem to be different, but most of them are related to men, and they are either divorced or dead. This is a normal phenomenon. It is like this in most places in the world. Zhujiacun is an accident."
Ye Yuran said, "This is why, in the beginning, I actually didn't want you to marry out of Zhujia Village. Because there, as long as you have the foundation laid by your mother, even if your mother is gone one day, you can still live in your mother's care."
I lived well in the shade. But when I got outside, I couldn’t stop my mother."
After all, her power is too small to stop everyone in the world.
For a moment, Zhu Bamei was silent.
Ye Yuran held her hand and patted the back of her hand gently: "You haven't experienced this, so you can't empathize with it. Even if mother tells you over and over again, you will forget it as time goes by. Mother repeated
I am telling you, not because I am afraid that you will forget, but I just want to remind you, because I am afraid that you will regard the things in Zhujiacun as belonging to the world and become the enemy of the whole world. No matter what the world is like, mother hopes that you can be in this world.
Understand it clearly, use its rules and regulations, and live your life well."
"Mother..." Zhu Bamei was moved.
Hearing these similar words again, the feeling is completely different from before.
What I heard before was that Ye Yuran helped her open a new door and let her see another world - it turns out that women can have another way of living.
But this time, she saw the "truth" of the world and the "cruelty" of the world - it turned out that even as powerful as her mother, she could not resist the entire world.
"We know these things, not to show off or resist anything, but to use them to protect ourselves and the people we want to protect. When we were in Zhujiacun, my mother wanted to protect you, your brother, and your sisters-in-law.
In Qingyuan County, my mother wanted to do something within her power to protect more women who were ill-fated. When I arrived in the capital, my mother felt more and more insignificant and worried that my mother had not taught you enough and made you take detours.
"I feel wronged..." Ye Yuran said, "Sometimes, I even wonder, is it right or wrong for me to teach you another way of living as a woman? What if I hurt you?"
Zhu Bamei quickly shook her head: "No, mother, I am very happy that you can tell me this. I don't want to live in a daze all my life. I want to live soberly. Even if I take a detour, I will not regret it. On the contrary, I will not regret it."
I will be very happy, because no one is more lucky than me to have a mother as open-minded and wise as me."
"Can
Mom can't bear it... Mom can't bear the slightest grievance for you." Ye Yuran's eyes were a little moist.
This girl came out of the belly of the original owner. When she came, Zhu Bamei was already quite old.
But in Ye Yuran's eyes, this daughter is no different from her own daughter, and she can't wait to bring the best things in the world to Zhu Bamei.
How could she be willing to let Zhu Bamei suffer a little injustice?
She was picky and regretful over and over again. She had never been as embarrassed as she was now.
Sometimes, she wished she could take away all the grievances and sufferings Zhu Bamei would endure in the future.
"Mother..." Zhu Bamei held Ye Yuran's hand tightly, "My daughter has never been wronged if she is not wronged. As long as my mother is here, my daughter is the happiest daughter in the world, and no one can compare with her.
Daughter. Really, my daughter won’t lie to you.”
Not far away, Gan Yixian wanted to touch his forehead.
Zhu Bamei hasn't gotten married yet, but Ye Yuran is already so "capricious". If she gets married, what's the point?
Could this be what the master said, some kind of pre-marital syndrome?
Gan Yixian didn't quite understand either.
Anyway, when he saw Zhu Bamei, he felt that Zhu Bamei's reaction was normal, but when it happened to Ye Yuran...
This isn't the first time, and I'm afraid it won't be the last.
Gan Yixian had thought about having a good chat with her to resolve the entanglements in her heart, but the problem was that when they first chatted, it was fine and she spoke eloquently, but when she turned around, the things in her mind were like turning against each other.
It seems like it has completely changed its appearance.
I don’t know if other people in the Zhu family noticed it.
I must be aware of it, but there are too many things going on in the Zhu family recently, and everyone is too busy to take care of it. ap.
Now that Zhujiacun's group has been sent away, the Zhu Mansion is finally empty, and the things to be busy in the next phase are still waiting in line. Xu Yujin can't help but worry about what Zhu San asked about.
She arranged her servants, turned around and came in, just in time to see Gan Yixian peeking not far away. She was about to speak when Gan Yixian stopped her.
Xu Yujin was confused. She followed Gan Yixian's finger and saw the mother and daughter with a strange atmosphere.
"What's going on here?"
Gan Yixian waved to her to stay away from him, and then whispered: "It's nothing, I just can't bear to marry my daughter and I'm in a mood."
Xu Yujin’s question mark face:?????
Gan Yixian spread his hands and looked helpless: "This is not the first time. At first, I wanted my eighth sister to live alone and raise a wife, but I married her. Later, I also wanted to find a married woman for my eighth sister, both of her parents were dead and the family was rich.
Bo Chan still has the ability to swear that he will only treat Bamei well... After we made an engagement with the Rong family, she got up in the middle of the night and told me that she wanted to regret the engagement and choose a new one for Bamei. One day, suddenly
Tell me, otherwise, you should let Eight Sisters go back to Zhujia Village to find one... Another day, I thought that Young Master Li is quite good. Even if I can't choose Young Master Li, I can still choose someone with similar looks..."
As Gan Yixian told each story one by one, Xu Yujin's eyes widened and she felt like she was listening to some story.
Chapter completed!