If they don't accept it, the relationship between them will only end here.

She could only express with great regret that they could not become close friends.

If she accepts it, then she will be happy that she has two more good friends.

As a friend, she does not need them to be the same as herself. Her request is simple - to accept her differences.

After hearing this, Xu Yujin said: "As long as you know what you are like, no matter what you look like in the eyes of others, you are still my good eighth sister. Although I can't live like you, I like you very much because you are different.

"

just like……

She herself could not live like that, but if someone lived like that, it would be like her living like that.

If you have never seen such scenery, you won't think anything of it.

But after marrying into the Zhu family and experiencing such scenery, Xu Yujin couldn't help but become greedy - could her daughter one day live like that?

Yes, that's right.

She doesn't have a daughter yet, but Xu Yujin believes that she will have one in the future.

A smile appeared on Zhu Bamei's face. She understood what the third sister-in-law's unfinished words meant. She stretched out her hand and took the third sister-in-law's hand, without saying anything.

When Ye Yuran saw it, a smile appeared on his face.

look!

This is the fire she planted.

It began to take root and sprout.

…

As Zhu San, who was raised by Ye Yuran, he was stunned for a moment when he heard the female family members discussing so solemnly about whether they could read the script.

Because in his philosophy, what can’t be read in scripts?

Men can see it, and so can women.

It's just that you need to pay attention to the method when reading, otherwise you may be affected by the script and change your temper.

He really didn't expect that there were things in this world that men could see but women couldn't?

He was stunned for a moment and said: "This... the Haoying family still has such rules?"

Xu Yujin glanced at him and said, "Yes, why not? Some of my sisters were punished by adults for reading this kind of letter, and were punished by kneeling in the ancestral hall and copying the "Women's Ring"."

As soon as he heard "Nv Ring", Zhu San touched his nose awkwardly.

He had seen that thing before, and it was really not a good thing. It was like "obey your father at home, obey your husband when you get married, and obey your son after your husband dies." Shit, if his mother really obeyed like that, their whole family would starve to death.

After witnessing Ye Yuran's process of raising a family and making a fortune with it, and seeing the role of Ye Yuran's women's work, Zhu San no longer dared to look down on women.

Who says women can only rely on men to survive?

Who says a woman can't survive without a man?

Nonsense.

It’s the man who really can’t live without the other person.

As long as women are given the opportunity to make money, as long as they are given the opportunity to make the decision, they will definitely be able to take care of themselves and their entire family.

Women are no better than men, they are more empathetic and more obedient to management.

They are not as impulsive as men, nor are they more competitive than men who insist on fighting to the death. Probably because they have been caught in the rain, women are more understanding of other people's difficulties and more willing to help others.

What the women's factory provides them is not only a job, but also an opportunity to survive, so they cherish it very much.

Therefore, when giving time to Emperor Qin and others, Zhu San strongly encouraged the use of women's power.

"Third brother, haven't you carefully studied the current court laws?" Zhu Bamei also said beside her, "The current court laws basically violate the interests of men, and women are not protected at all."

"Where is it?"

"Where is it not? Let me ask you, when it comes to the division of parents' property, is it the man or the woman who inherits?"

Uh...Zhu San suddenly got stuck.

If Zhu Bamei didn't mention it, he really didn't think there was any problem with it.

After all, according to the laws of Dayan, the eldest son can get the majority of the property, followed by a number of other legitimate sons, and the last remaining ones are the bastards.

As for the girls…

Zhu San said: "But girls have dowries. Every girl has a dowry when she gets married."

"Third brother, I never knew you were so... innocent." Zhu Bamei had a strange expression.

She settled an account with Zhu San. Although it is true that a girl needs to prepare a dowry when she gets married, this is not a law, but a custom.

Therefore, whether to prepare more or less depends not only on the family background, but also on the character of the parents.

Those parents who love their daughters are okay, and may prepare more generously. For example, when her third sister-in-law and fourth sister-in-law come in, they prepare generously according to their own conditions. But other families in the village are the kind of families who "sell their daughters"

, have they prepared a dowry?

Zhu San: "..."

Not only were they unprepared, they would also withhold the betrothal gift from their married daughters.

For this reason, after a daughter gets married, she cannot hold her head high in her husband's family and often talks about her.

"Really? This is just the first one. The second one is that even for a wealthy family, it is common for a black-hearted stepmother to deduct the dowry from the girl born to her previous wife." Zhu Bamei said, "Even when dividing the inheritance,

Only men can share the property, whether they are legitimate or concubine, married or not, but girls can't, as long as she is married... because the water poured out by a married daughter is the husband's property.

It’s home.”

Zhu San originally wanted to say, isn't this normal?

But when he thought that in Ye Yuran's eyes, his daughter was more important than his son, and Zhu Bamei was the first to give everything in the family, he couldn't refute it.

Did his natal family also take this into consideration, so she encouraged the girls in the family to save their own money and get it in their own hands so that they can take it to their husband's family in the future?

As for the dowry that Ye Yuran helped, that is another matter.

There is a difference between men and women after all. No, it was exposed again this time.

Zhu Bamei took some details that Zhu San would never notice seriously: "Third brother, let me ask you, your son is yours, but your daughter is not yours? Can you watch others 'calculate' you in the future?

Daughter, 'bully' your daughter?"

When Xu Yujin heard this, she glared at Zhu San.

If he dared to say "yes", she wouldn't let him go to bed at night.

Zhu San naturally did not disappoint Xu Yujin. He said: "Of course not. Since they are my children, I have to protect them, whether they are sons or daughters."

"But she got married and was bullied by her husband's family. Can you come and make the decision? Don't forget the daughter you married and the water you threw away..."

"He dares! If he dares to bully your future niece, their whole family will never even think about having a peaceful life." Zhu San said, "And I'm not so blind that I would choose such a person for your niece. Don't worry, I'm sure

I’ll pick a good one.”

"Third brother, don't talk too much. After all, people's hearts are separated from each other. It's been a long time. The people you look at now who are good may change in the future. No one is the same. I remember when I was young, I couldn't stand it.

People are disgusted, look at me now...who would have thought that I would become like this?" Even Zhu Bamei herself couldn't deny that she was really unlovable when she was a child.

That sarcastic and mean look makes people not want to even look at him.

It’s simply black history!

Zhu San: "..."
Chapter completed!