Chapter 1181
"No, one of them is this year..." Xu Yujin looked helpless, saying that the two sisters were almost the same age and it was time to see each other, but it was a pity that they had been staying in their hometown and there was no suitable person.
No, taking advantage of the fact that the old lady was accompanying her husband to take the exam, the old lady took the two sisters to Pushou City to see if their fate was here.
Otherwise, I can only watch it slowly, and I don’t know when I can get married.
"Oh, we can't wait for this. The flowering period of the girl's family is very short, so we have to wait. If the flowering period is over, we will be in trouble..."
"My mother-in-law also knows about it, but who can tell me clearly about this fate? Fortunately, there are still some days before I turn eighteen, so I still have time to see each other, so I won't be too worried."
"No, it's really hard to talk about fate. Let me tell you, my brother from my mother's side is eighteen years old this year. I have always wanted to propose marriage to him, but he is obsessed with the imperial examination and just can't.
I'm happy. No, I finally passed the scholar examination this year, so I was relieved and willing to see each other..."
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You say something, I say something, Xu Yujin exchanged information with this lady.
Seeing that the other party was very sincere and pointed out to her the younger brother from her mother's family who had passed the examination to be a scholar, Xu Yujin did not hide it and told Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei not to be named Zhu. Because there was no one in her mother's family, she came to Zhu's house with her husband's.
The younger sisters grew up together and share the same love as brothers and sisters.
When Xu Yujin saw that the other party was not her biological child, she frowned and said with a smile: "Don't get me wrong, although these two girls are not named Zhu, the reason why they are favored by my mother-in-law is not their sister who married into the Zhu family.
, but they both deserve that pampering."
"My husband's family has many brothers, but the youngest is a sister, who is two years younger than these two. My mother-in-law has always preferred daughters. She treated these two as her own daughters and raised them with the eighth sister in the family. If not,
The neighbors on the left and right couldn't see the difference and thought they were biological sisters."
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The lady didn't let go and said: "No matter how close we are to each other as sisters, there is only the word 'ru', not 'yes'."
"It depends on the specific situation. My mother-in-law has many sons, and there are also many daughters-in-law here, and there are also many daughters-in-law's daughters-in-law's sisters. But in the end, my mother-in-law raised them with her own daughter, and she was the only one who taught her hand-in-hand.
"Two." Xu Yujin looked helpless. Seeing that there were other ladies listening attentively, she said, "If it weren't for the fact that she had to get married when she was old enough, my mother-in-law would not necessarily be willing to marry her two off. This is a long trip, even her own child
I didn’t take my daughter with me, so I made this trip just for them. Isn’t it painful to my heart?”
At this point, the lady didn't say anything, and Xu Yujin actually felt a little unhappy.
She knew that these ladies were short-sighted and liked to find fault. They always thought that their sons were the best in the world, but she still felt a little angry.
She had to tell her that Lin Simei's talent and temperament were not that good either because she was born in a poor family or because she was the wife of a wealthy family.
It's just a pity.
A lady next to her intervened and said: "Mrs. Zhu San, there is a difference between a biological person and a non-biological person. After all, when we marry a virtuous wife, we also marry with the help of the other person's natal family. If you marry someone who is a drag,
When you come back, it’s better not to marry.”
How could these people tell that Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei were holding back? Xu Yujin knew that if she told her that she was not her biological child, it would definitely affect the market of Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei. She didn't expect the impact to be so big.
well……
What a mistake!
She shouldn't rush to tell the other party about the fact that Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei are not named Zhu because of the sincerity of the other party. She should already know each other well and wait until the other party gets to know them better.
While regretting it, Xu Yujin said: "It also depends on what kind of person the wife is. No matter how helpful the mother's family is, if the wife is careless, she will not be able to live that life. The two of my husband's family
My sister's upbringing is definitely a thumbs up. Not only is she proficient in chess, piano, calligraphy and painting, but it is also taught by my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law can teach two handsome masters, and her ability is absolute.
Even the upbringing of my grandchildren is directly handled by my mother-in-law. In addition to the enlightenment of my nephews who are studying, my mother-in-law personally enlightened them, and these two sisters also contributed a lot."
Xu Yujin's words are not a lie. Aren't Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei helping to take care of the Zhu's elementary education that Sanbao, Sibao and Wubao read?
Don't always focus on the help from your daughter-in-law's natal family, but also pay more attention to the character and ability of the daughter-in-law here.
There was also a lady who was moved, thinking about her terrible son who was unwilling to study, and she also wanted to marry a daughter-in-law who could study. However, she asked: "Really? Are those two girls from your husband's family so powerful?"
Then if your two girls don't start their enlightenment well, would your husband be willing to help?"
Just tell me directly, if Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei can't raise a son who can study, can the Zhu family take care of it?
Xu Yujin was not happy and said: "Even if we are from a scholarly family, it doesn't mean that none of our descendants can't read, right? I don't dare to give you a guarantee. If my wife wants to find a grandson who is guaranteed to give birth to a grandson who can read, right?"
Daughter-in-law, you’d better make a good choice.”
As the daughter of the Xu family in Luanzhou, Xu Yujin still has a bit of a temper.
Sure enough, as soon as these words came out, the ladies sitting around laughed: "Isn't it true? Who marries a daughter-in-law and doesn't want her to promise to give him a grandson who can read? It's just that everyone will fight against it.
If you can’t guarantee the ticket, whoever has that person will be robbed by many people, and you don’t know who will end up.”
The lady had a smug look on her face. Seeing that there were steps to go down, she hurriedly said: "Don't I just want to find someone like that? I also know that it's hard to find someone like this, but who makes the one at home useless? He likes everything, just
I don’t like reading, but it makes me mad.”
I turned around and asked the wife whose son had passed the exam to be a scholar. How did she raise a son who was a scholar? It was really enviable to me.
As soon as this was said, those who had sons at home started discussing it and stopped getting up.
Although their son's lifelong events are important, his future is also very important. If someone can teach their son a few tricks to make him succeed, they are afraid that they will have to surrender him.
Xu Yujin couldn't get in the middle of this kind of topic, and didn't bother to steal the excitement, so she just listened quietly from the side, taking this opportunity to learn more about the character of each young master.
To be honest, Xu Yujin prefers those who have fame and are praised for their abilities.
It's a pity that the wife who just came from a good family and was a scholar backed down when she heard that Lin Sanmei and Lin Fourth sister were not the Zhu family's biological children. It was a pity.
There was nothing gained today. When Xu Yujin went back to tell Ye Yuran, she had a look of regret on her face.
"What's the point? Isn't this a good thing? It's better than the third sister and the fourth sister marrying in, and then being regretted and returned, okay?" Ye Yuran didn't care.
In her opinion, Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei were not worried about marrying at all, but they just wanted to choose someone with a higher family background, which might be difficult.
Chapter completed!