Madam Qi pointed out their standing posture, sitting posture, and even eating and picking up spoons one by one.

The Cui family has taught me since childhood and can basically get through it. The posture is a little bit relaxed, just restrain it, and there is no big problem.

But Li Ling had a big problem. I don’t know why I learned some strange things from somewhere, and my eyes were taught to be like a concubine when walking and eating.

In the end, Madam Qi could only teach her alone and correct her seriously. Even Zilan personally went on stage to demonstrate, including some more difficult dishes, such as filling soup, which could easily cause the soup to be sparse.

The actions Zi Lan made are elegant, beautiful and beautiful. Every move is full of noble and elegant demeanor. This is a qualitative change that will only occur if you have worked hard to restrain yourself for many years and soak the elegance of etiquette into your bones, making people's temperament significantly change and improve.

"Did you see it? Is there a big gap between you? This is a hard work and a reward for self-restraint and perseverance."

Madam Qi sighed, her eyes showing a look of memories, "I remember when I went to teach the county lord, she was less than four years old, and she started to learn how to walk, eat and sit. The old lady of the Yang family asked to be strict with the girl.

I said that my children should look like they go out, and she also wants to go back to the Song family to study. If they are worse than their sisters, they will be ridiculed. If I don’t strictly restrain her, I will only harm her.

I started to teach her how to learn the rules. At the beginning, I learned very hard. The beauties and beloved girl had swollen arms and couldn't pick up her chopsticks. She still had to go to school to study and study, and she couldn't leave her homework.

When I was not here, the girl cried secretly in the quilt. She couldn't sleep at night because of my legs hurt, but she never called me a bitter word. She is the one who can endure hardship among so many daughters I have taught so many daughters, the smartest and most persevering one."

Madam Qi paused for a moment before continuing, "The Song family, like the Cui family, had to learn a lot of things. At that time, the county lord was the youngest, and the sisters were older than her. Not only did they have to catch up on their homework, but they also had to learn etiquette and rules well. She put in a lot of energy.

I said this not to flatter you, but just to tell you that the county lord is like you, with one head and two eyes. She is today due to her own hard work.

Such a good marriage was achieved through my own efforts, which made the old man of the Cui family think about her, and he was even unwilling to see other girls and stayed idle.

The future is earned by yourself. Even if you are the daughter of Queen Mother, you have to be outstanding to have more opportunities to choose.”

The girls of the Cui family are all extremely smart girls. When they hear these flowers, they fall into deep thoughts. Only when people compare them will they see the shortcomings.

Madam Qi's words were very pertinent and impressive, and it was also for their own good.

"There are also daughters of the Song family, daughters of the Qi family, daughters of the Li family, daughters of the Wang family. These are all outstanding families and girls in the capital. Are you so confident that you can compare with others? I don't think so."

Madam Qi turned around Li Ling, showing her disdain and disdainful look without any concealment.

Li Ling was repeatedly hit and humiliated, and her tears fell down uncontrollably. This time she really felt embarrassed and sad.

Zi Lan sighed and warned earnestly, "Miss Li, if you don't correct your problems and behavior, even if you enter the high-gate compound, you will be ridiculed by others for the rest of your life, and may even implicate your man.

No wife will be regarded as being the same as you, and she will lose face of her husband’s family and family. This problem is really serious.”

It was not Zilan who deliberately retaliated against him. Li Ling and others were clearly divided in ancient times, and the feudal system was rigorous and cruel.

The eldest woman only communicates with her wives, but doesn't have much contact with her second wife.

You will never have any relationships with bad character or concubines. Even the royal concubine has no choice but to socialize with you, but you will still have to listen to the man and will not become real friends with you.

Li Ling learned to be a concubine, and her wife would never get close to her. This would make her lose face in the family and she would play with you if she was crazy. You are not a royal wife, so they had to bow their heads.

"Why are you from the Cui family? You are considering all parties. I think I should have a serious talk with you, leaving out the matter of Yuyan. After all, I don't understand what happened at that time, and I have no position to speak.

Let’s just say that your style and etiquette are really bad. You are not young anymore. Do you really plan to meet guests like this?

Then I tell you, no girl from the Cui family will compete with you, and serious people will not let you in, you have learned the wrong way."

Zi Lan once again advised gently and sincerely. After all, she was a little girl, less than fifteen years old, and she was really too young, and she had to persuade her if she should persuade her.

Li Ling suddenly squatted down and hugged her head and howled and cried, crying very sadly.

"I really didn't do this on purpose, it's not the one I wanted to steal her, it's not.

My brother was held in her hand by her. It was her niece who wanted to rob her, not me.

I took all the charges, and her niece found a good marriage. My brother was still in her hand, and I had no choice.

I want to find a good marriage, maybe it can turn the situation around now, I have no choice... wuwuwu!"

Li Ling roared in pain with her head in her arms. She was not sad. Yuyan even wrote a letter to her without complaining, and comforted her and even gave her some advice.

The more this happens, the sadder she feels, but she can't say anything, and no one believes it.

Zi Lan looked at Yuanying with a look of inquiry.

This shocked Yuanying, and then murmured: "Mrs. Li is the second wife... I heard that she has a very good reputation and has lost a child, but she never complains about being particularly good to her ex-wife's son."

Zi Lan sighed, which means Li Ling was not lying.

"Who did that family finally marry?" she asked again.

Yuanying's face turned pale, "It was the niece of Mrs. Li's parents' family."

Zilan finally understood why Li Ling did such a thing and the Cui family did not let her leave the school, but instead left her and punished her own girl. This is the reason.

Squat down and raised Li Ling's face, "Do you know why the Cui family left you? Do you know what your father exchanged with the Cui family? Do you know your father's intention to let you stay?

I thought my fate was up to me, and even if it was still a failure in the end, I would never compromise, and would never give up, for myself, for your brother, and for your lost mother.

Be brave to be honest with the elders who love you and explain your hidden worries. I believe that the Li family is not the one who is in charge of the family."

Li Ling looked at her and she burst into tears, and she was sobbing hard that she could not speak.
Chapter completed!