After entering the room, Lan reached out and pulled Shuhui's hand and shook it for a while. Shuhui smiled sweetly at her, "I'm not angry with you, just angry, why do she always do unhappy things?

If I don’t go, you should bring you the word “you”. My mother has taken care of her a lot. Why did I deliberately leave me behind again and again when I got there? You said how embarrassed I was.”

Shuhui pouted in anger so much that she didn't blame Zi Lan.

"I don't understand why she did this, and it made me feel so embarrassed. I don't know how to deal with it. I'm afraid that I will hurt her self-esteem if I say too much.

If you don’t say it, she always puts me in an awkward position. My father said that after a long time, we can’t get along with each other anymore, so we will be centrifuged sooner or later.”

Zilan deliberately moved his father out as a shield.

"No, I know your heart. My mother told me that she was not right and deliberately we were here."

Shuhui took her hand and sat down, directing Mudan to bring water to wash them.

The old lady changed her clothes and laughed and said, "Lan'er has something wrong with this matter. She shouldn't have been so thoughtful at the beginning. You are too thoughtful and make people think you are easy to bully, so they block you every time.

She knew that Huier was so powerful that she would not forgive her, so she would definitely not look for her. But you are different. She is willing to let go and talk. She would definitely not be wrong if she blocked your mouth."

Zilan scratched his head, "No wonder my father told us today that he must refuse, and if he should stick to the principle, he must separate his relationship. What about the relationship?

Shuhui covered her mouth and laughed loudly.

"I remember it. It seems that it was my fault. I will reject her in the future. I will reject her today."

Zilan stalked her neck proudly, feeling that she had done something very interesting.

I am still very grateful to my father. You should know that few parents will teach their children to say no, but in the relationship between people, learning to say no to others and not doing things they don’t want is actually very important.

We often encounter embarrassing things. We are obviously unwilling to help, or we cannot help, but we cannot withstand the repeated beggings and even debts of favors, and we have to do things we don’t like.

Some people are soft-hearted and often cannot refuse other people's requests, but instead make themselves embarrassed and their lives are messy. There is something like this.

Zilan thought she had this problem. Her parents had never mentioned these problems before, and no one taught her to say no to something she didn't like.

It seems that rejecting others is an impolite thing. You don’t help at all. You are too selfish, etc. There are a lot of comments like this. Over time, we are all in an embarrassing and difficult social interaction.

Later, after entering society and being tempered, I learned how to politely reject others.

The old lady touched her head and said earnestly: "Awesome people are not easy to bully. This is the first impression. When you encounter trouble, you will subconsciously separate her and don't look for her for many things because she is not easy to deal with and is very difficult to deal with, and no one dares to mess with.

The reason why soft-hearted people are more troublesome and have more bullshits is that they are not aware of the fact that people pick up soft persimmons, which can be fully reflected in you and Huier."

Zi Lan thought about it and did not do well, and looked at Xuan'er with sympathy. In fact, this is not right. People don't necessarily need to sympathy for themselves.

"It's my fault for grandmother. I remember that I will slowly correct it. I shouldn't always look at her with sympathy. Respect is just a right attitude."

"By the way, this is the smart good guy."

The old lady showed a joyful smile in her eyes. What's the point of whether the seed is good or not? Don't take my granddaughter badly.

"Sister, I'll go to my grandfather's house in two days. Do you want to go there? Go and play with me. I'll introduce my cousin to you."

Shuhui came over and spoke intimately against her.

"Is it appropriate for me to go?"

Zilan looked at the old lady and asked if she could come to visit her house and if she would be abrupt.

"It doesn't matter, go and let your second aunt take you to play, meet a few more sisters, and see how they accept people. Over time, you will understand that you still have too few guests."

The old lady responded with a smile. This child is easily exploited by others. It would be better if he went out and saw more.

Zilan happily agreed, "Okay, then I'll go with my sister. Do I want to bring some small gifts? It's hard to go empty-handed for the first time when I come to the door. Is it my intention to give it to my sisters?"

"Then you make Hexiang. The Hexiang you make is very good. Last time I took the Hexiang you gave me to play with for my cousins, and my cousins ​​all praised it."

Shuhui thought about it and said.

"Okay, then let's wake up in the afternoon and go do it."

Zi Lan thought about it and agreed, asking Hongxia to help her complete the dangerous parts such as using fire, and she could do the remaining simple parts herself.

The two sisters took a shower and took a nap for a while. The old lady settled down and lay down for a while.

Zhao Xuan'er didn't come in the afternoon. It is said that Aunt Xu taught her the rules. Because her rules were very poor, she couldn't go out. Aunt Xu had to teach more alone to keep up with their sisters' progress.

The two sisters woke up, and Zilan took Shuhui to the perfume room. They were in a house next door, and all kinds of utensils were very complete.

However, because they were young, they could not touch fire, nor could they use a knife, and they could not touch boiling water. Hongxia guided them to complete some dangerous parts throughout the process.

Today, Zilan plans to make two different scents and give them to the girls of the Ma family as small gifts to the door.

Shuhui saw her busy and asked curiously: "Sister, what are you planning to make?"

"The fragrance of flowers is one of the fragrance of plum blossoms, and they are all in the fragrance of the scented clothes. The other is the fragrance of the scented clothes of the lord of Shu."

Zilan asked Hongxia to take sweet pine, fennel, wood fragrance, dragon head each, half a liang of clove, and musk. Mash the stone mortar into a coarse powder and burn it as usual.

Another Shu Master's fumigation fragrance requires one or two liang of cloves, stack fragrance, agarwood, sandalwood, musk, and three liang of yaki (made). Powder the honey and let it cool and make it even. It is like a cellar for more than a month.

The Master of Shu was made with Hongxia before, and it was enough to take out the ready-made pieces and pack them. Today, it is enough to make the fragrance of plum blossoms.

Shuhui helped to pound the synthesis powder together. The sisters were very happy to play. Zilan was the most confident and confident when making fragrant.

Because Hongxia has been with Yang for many years, she can make a lot of incense, so Yang asked her to accompany Zilan to tutor her incense so that her daughter would not be injured.

Because of the simplicity, this scent was prepared in a short while. Zilan smelled it and found a beautiful porcelain box to put it in.

"Miss's nose is very smart, and her adjustment is getting better and better."

Hongxia praised her endlessly, this is really a talent.

"When I can get the fire, I can make incense alone."
Chapter completed!