Chapter 436 Being a Husband(3/4)
"Well, you do know me very well."
Li Xuewu nodded with a smile and said, "Are you able to read minds, or have advanced psychological skills?"
"What nonsense~"
Jing Yunong glanced at him and said, "Even if I can read minds, I can't read or penetrate your heart that is covered by dark clouds."
"besides!"
She squinted at Li Xuewu and said, "Aren't you an expert in psychology?"
"It's fake. Do you believe this?"
Li Xuewu said with a smile: "Isn't it just to improve my competitiveness, find someone to help me publish this book, and show that I have some specialties that others can't compare with?"
After saying that, he motioned to Jing Yunong and said, "Isn't your reputation as an expert in economics and management the same..."
"What did you say?!"
Jing Yunong was like a cat whose tail had been stepped on, and his hair suddenly exploded. He glared at Li Xuewu, ready to scratch him at any time.
"Tell me again, what are my professional skills?"
"Oh, yours is not fake!"
Li Xuewu seemed to have just found out, and apologized repeatedly: "I'm sorry for my blindness, I didn't see it. I'm sorry."
"I really want to tear your mouth out!"
Jing Yunong was furious. This bad guy can always dig a hole in front of you when you appreciate and admire him the most, kick you down, and throw a handful of sand over your head.
"No need, you just need to know that my psychology expert is fake"
Li Xuewu joked to himself: "Why don't you talk about me too, so that it can be more balanced."
"I won't tell! I'm annoying you!"
Jing Yunong glared at him and said, "Why are you always like this? I think you did it on purpose!"
"On the one hand, you can show your extraordinary management talents, but also have a keen vision, so that people can see your excellence at a glance."
"On the other hand, they highlight their age and weakness, retreat in order to advance, and do the opposite."
She looked at Li Xuewu and said: "You have positioned yourself as a capable, ambitious, revengeful and visionary representative of young cadres."
“It will not cause fear and threat from existing resource controllers, nor will it overly bury one’s talents and shining points.”
"You have to win at every critical point, and at the same time remind others that you are in the future, not now. Do you enjoy this process?"
Jing Yunong frowned and said: "Since you have this mental strength and the ambition to exact revenge, why don't you manage yourself well, get out of your current comfort zone, and go out for a walk?"
She gestured to the dilapidated factory area and said: "It looks like this when you stand at the steel rolling mill, and it looks like this when you look at the steel rolling mill from a higher place."
"A real man, if you have a baby, good men will be everywhere"
Jing Yunong said earnestly: "I am very optimistic about your ability and vision. You should go to a larger platform to express your revenge."
"and!"
She looked at Li Xuewu and said seriously: "You don't lack the ability and opportunity to jump out. Even if you go to the Third Guards Regiment full-time, you will definitely be a leader when you come out."
"So, you are trying to persuade me to transfer?"
Li Xuewu looked at her funny and said: "The personnel changes were proposed by me. The most dangerous and helpless self-relocation is going to happen to me?"
"The workers who have been transferred to other positions must be crazy. What's going on? The steel rolling mill is going to close down?"
"Hehehe~"
Jing Yunong couldn't help but laugh when he heard his story, but he still stressed: "It's a matter of family, whether you like it or not."
"Of course, of course I thought about going out."
Li Xuewu became more serious and nodded: "I have been thinking about this issue since I entered the deputy director-level position, including the position in the branch."
“The branch is not suitable”
Jing Yunong glanced at him and said: "The upper limit of the powerful department is too low. If you choose a branch like this, you might as well stay in the steel rolling mill."
"I know, I know where you want me to go, I have thought about it carefully."
Li Xuewu nodded and agreed: "Including what you mentioned, my father-in-law or my resources are capable of helping me do this."
"But have you ever thought about the risks involved, especially if I am a corporate cadre, will I be acclimatized when I transition to a local place?"
"Of course, I am confident that I can adapt to everything."
He patted Jing Yunong's knee, agreed with her suggestion, and said: "But sometimes the situation is beyond your control. You may only see the limitations and disadvantages of the enterprise."
Li Xuewu narrowed his eyes slightly and said: "Have you ever thought that the problems I encountered in the company are actually the same problems I encountered in the local area."
"Moreover, the extent of ambition in enterprises only affects economic benefits, and the authority is limited to the small area of the factory, but the location is different."
He pointed at himself and said: "At the deputy director level, when you get to the place, you become a prince. A simple decision can change the lives of thousands of people."
"I can't guarantee that I'm always on the right path, and I can't guarantee that the decisions I make are correct."
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! "I don't dare to spend the lives of millions of people to exercise my management skills, even if you say I am a coward."
Li Xuewu smiled bitterly and said: "Actually, I have already talked about responsibility and responsibility. I have the courage to take on the responsibilities that I think I can shoulder and protect the duties and responsibilities that I should fulfill."
"You said there is no upper limit to a prosperous life, but in my opinion, you just indulge your desire and selfishness for progress and set an infinitely high goal for yourself."
He pointed to the top of his head and said: "Now I can still see the goal of the position I want to take over, but when I get there, how high is considered high?"
"..."
Jing Yunong was silent for a long time when he answered Li Xuewu. He was thinking about Li Xuewu's answer and his own life.
Pursuing higher positions and striving for faster progress seems to have become the primary mentality of cadres as soon as they take office.
We often forget the original intention of taking up a management position, let alone the high-level setting we made when we entered the ranks of cadres.
Li Xuewu's last question was very direct to his heart. How high is considered high?
In turn, let’s understand Li Xuewu’s previous positioning for himself in the ups and downs of history.
In fact, it is not difficult to find that as the situation changes, personal development must go through ups and downs, and one must have the determination to go up and the courage to go down.
Cadres who can only be promoted but cannot be demoted show excessive trust in their own value and despise the work of the organization.
First of all, we must determine a belief, that is, do what you want at what age.
When you are fourteen years old, you should study hard, not be with someone.
When you are twenty-four years old, you should be in good company, not playing games.
You can't wait until you are twenty-four when you are no longer with a partner, fail to learn what you want, and paralyze yourself with the happiness of a child.
Flowers that should bloom in spring are eager to bloom in late winter, and those flowers will inevitably be damaged by wind and snow.
Secondly, you must have a clear understanding of your own abilities and responsibilities.
What kind of responsibilities you have to bear depends on what kind of rights you have. Either give them to me and I will do the work, or take away the responsibilities and I will not bear them.
If you choose neither option, then I can only do it myself and increase my authority to match my responsibilities.
This is the progress of Li Xuewu. He was just a security officer at first. Dong Wenxu gave him the responsibility of security section chief, so he worked hard to fulfill this position.
Later, when Fu Bin needed him to take further responsibilities, he would have to step into the corresponding position.
Which step he takes is not something he actively chooses, but something he passively handles.
At what point do we stop being passive and have the right to choose our own actions?
When he entered the official starting point of his career as deputy director, he had the right to choose and make judgments.
Li Xuewu, just like Jing Yunong said, highlighted his own strengths and weaknesses, choosing safety between doing things and making progress.
Simply put, he is restraining his own progress and suppressing his own progress.
Show abilities and achievements behind the leader, and put the shortcomings of age and qualifications in front of the leader.
Then you said that while the leader is using him, is he also being used by him?
Jing Yunong was sure of this. Li Xuewu was like a slippery monster, interspersed around all the management, he could see it, couldn't catch it, and couldn't control it.
She once thought about restricting or restricting, but it was useless. In the end, she could only compromise.
Not only did he compromise, he also broke away.
On the one hand, Jing Yunong felt unworthy of Li Xuewu, but on the other hand, he also wanted to establish his own influence.
Li Xuewu went somewhere, she helped Li Xuewu, and Li Xuewu would in turn help her.
This is called forming a network, or forming a party.
Li Xuewu would not feel dissatisfied or aggrieved by his own restrictions and suppression. If he were to stand in Li Huaide's position, he would be confident that he could do a good job.
But, what then?
Are you using your 21-year-old age to shoulder the pressure placed on 45-year-old cadres from above?
Stop making trouble, he is already a few steps ahead of others. If he is faster, he will either make people hate him, or he will make people care about him.
To be continued...