Chapter 4341 Thoughts on Life
If you want to help, you must help those who know how to change and know how to be grateful, so that your efforts will not beat the dog.
Yu Fei saw these precious qualities in Wu Gan. Although Wu Bin never said it, Yu Fei didn't think that Wu Bin didn't have these thoughts. It's just that some people can say these things out loud, while others hide them deep in their hearts.
From Wu Bin's words, we can see his affirmation of his help, so it is inevitable to be grateful to himself.
"Not bad, continue!"
Yu Fei nodded to Wu Gan, indicating that he could continue to talk about the key points.
"During this period, my brother and I have made great changes in certain aspects, such as the improvement of physical fitness, personal self-care ability, living habits, etc., and I will not repeat them."
"After leaving your business, I worked in restaurants, so there are some other different insights."
"The backend of the restaurant seems simple, but in fact the work is divided into many types. Everyone has a module that everyone is responsible for."
"But inside, I also saw a lot of the brilliance of human nature, and of course I also saw the darkness of human nature."
"When I first joined the hotel's kitchen, the first thing I encountered was being constantly blamed. I found that many people had problems and were not responsible enough, but they did not change well, so I always thought about how to put the blame on others.
Go up."
"I have observed the operation of the hotel. In fact, if these problems can be solved, the hotel will definitely be able to continue to expand. If many small problems can be improved, the reputation of the guests will be much better."
"And because I persisted in my persistence, even though I only worked for half a month, when I resigned, my boss still tried to keep me, thinking that I felt too hard and tired, so he promised me to work for a while longer and then gave me the job.
Leave the kitchen to me!"
"So my sentiment is that no matter how hard the environment is, people still have to stick to the right behavior and don't just join in others' misdeeds. Otherwise, you may gain temporary stability, but you will give up better possibilities in the future!"
"There is also the issue of trust. The two things I encountered were that one person borrowed money and refused to repay it, and the other person always lied."
"This person who borrowed money and refused to repay it later owed almost all the money. Before I resigned, he could no longer work. After work one day, he never came again and his mobile phone was turned off."
"This is equivalent to giving up one's own personality and credibility. These are very precious for a person, and life is not very long. For some ordinary people, it is also very important to accumulate connections and make friends. The result of this is that in the end there will be no more
My friend, I am living more and more lonely, and if I owe too much, I will one day be jailed for it!"
"There is also that person who always likes to lie. A problem has arisen behind him. No one believes anything he says. A person's integrity is also a wealth and a business card for himself."
"He doesn't think there's anything wrong with him. He thinks he's just being humorous. He doesn't have a clear idea of his own position, and he doesn't observe changes in other people's attitudes towards him."
"Such people are like the story of the boy who cried wolf. One day the wolf will really come, but no one will believe in him anymore, so much so that he will pay the price for his actions with his own life!"
"So this business card must be made well. At least after I have been in the kitchen for half a month, no one will doubt me. If I borrow money, no one will be willing to lend it to me if I have money, because
They are all willing to earn a favor from someone like me!"
"Also, human beings have different joys and sorrows. Sometimes you can get the same results as others without working hard. Platforms are very important."
"In our kitchen, there is a bachelor's degree graduate who could have a better and more respectable job, but he ended up in the kitchen."
"Because his family weighed him down. Both his parents fell ill just after graduating from college, and he had to go home to take care of them. Later, his parents were bedridden, and he could only find a job close to home to take care of him, so no matter how good a job he had outside, he couldn't go out.
Work, this also caused him to miss a lot of good opportunities. Now there is no possibility of turning around, and his age has exceeded the recruitment standards of some companies."
"To be honest, every step he took was correct, but God's will was to pull him back, making his journey very difficult."
"If his family has millions, and he can hire two bodyguards to take care of his parents, he can concentrate on hard work and hard work outside, and there will definitely be a good result. In the end, he can earn several dozen dollars by relying on his own ability.
Millions back!"
"But he didn't have this foundation, and my father gave me this opportunity, so that I could block too many strong winds and waves."
"So although these conditions around us seemed to limit us before, as long as we use them reasonably, they will indeed make our ASXs higher and we can directly overcome many obstacles and go directly to success."
"In front of our meal, there was a waitress. She actually had a very good future. Although she only had a high school education, she was pretty and had a boyfriend in high school."
"Later, the girl did not go to college and went out to work. However, she got in touch with the outside world and could make money on her own, while the boy went to college and worked hard to improve himself."
"Girls think that making money is the right thing to do, while boys can only study hard. The girl asked the boys to give up their studies and work with her. The boys all agreed, but the boys' parents stopped them."
"The girl decisively broke up with the boy, found a boss and became his mistress, and lived a good life for a few years."
"Later, the girl was discovered by the boss's wife. After a beating, the boss disappeared, leaving a scar on the girl's face that could not be healed."
"She could no longer rely on her appearance to live outside, so she came back to her hometown to work as a waitress. She always wore a mask to cover her scars when she went to work."
"But boys are different. They have graduated from college several years ago and have become executives of a company. Their annual salary is about to exceed one million."
"And boys are no longer people that girls can look up to. The two of them have become people in different worlds."
"This girl always likes to tell others her own stories, either to ask for her past achievements, or to warn those who come after her, or to constantly sting and punish herself with her mistakes!"
"But if she had made the right mistake at the beginning, that boy might have married her by now. Now she is raising her husband and raising her son. The boy is working outside. She is so happy and proud. Why would she have to work in a hotel and occasionally be made trouble by guests?
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"So from her, I can see the chain reaction of a wrong choice!"
"Of course, she also represents the current situation of many girls today. They always blindly pursue money and give up the most beautiful things. In the end, they find that others only use their pocket money to buy her most precious things, and finally get tired of it.
Kick it away, and you have lost everything!"
"Even many girls in our hotel have a lot of stories, and they also tell a lot of stories about their female friends."
"Later I discovered that girls are definitely not as simple as we thought. Girls are naturally better at performing." "So you must keep your eyes open in the future. There are many girls who want to catch a rich husband, and there are many who don't.
I believe in love, and I have so many boyfriends that I can’t even count them all.”
"I even discovered a problem in the end. It is said that people flock together and birds of a feather flock together. If you find that a person's friends have some garbage people, then you should stay away from this person as soon as possible!"
"If we can be friends, the premise must be that the three views are not very different! The person you know is definitely not much better!"
"There is also a realization that people should not use their own three views and requirements to demand others, because not only is everyone's environment different, but also their previous growth environment is different, so they have completely different views on the world!"
"A chef once said that I was handsome and asked me to date the waitress in front of me. I didn't do it, but he never tired of it, and he succeeded in two of them in half a month."
"I was disgusted at first. I thought he was insulting love. He was a scumbag and a scumbag!"
"But later it was discovered that he also discovered the true nature of a scumbag after being hurt by the girl he loved deeply."
"So all the girls he can win are scumbags. He never uses any affectionate methods, and those girls don't care. They just care about who is willing to spend money to take her out, and who is willing to have dinner tonight.
Pay for yourself!"
"Even though both of them slept with the chef in a short period of time, all of them felt it didn't matter, because in their eyes, this was just a deal, as long as you and I agreed!"
"It is even said that the two girls even exchanged some information about things in bed together. The male chef felt that he had got so many girls to show off, and some girls were also proud of how many boyfriends they had made and how many people they had slept with.
Show off your pride, thinking it’s because you are young and beautiful!”
"There is even a trend in the end, that is, whoever has no one to chase, whoever has no boyfriend or girlfriend, will be looked down upon by everyone! I feel that this person must be lacking in some aspects, either charm or certain abilities!
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"So this is what happened in their circles. They think it's okay. We think there's a problem. That's because everyone's circles are different and their thoughts are different."
"I can't be like Tang Monk and ask them to maintain the same three views as me and end this behavior!"
"So be a good person and be yourself. Regarding other people's problems, as long as they don't hurt or hurt them, they are doing it for you and me. We have to know how to control ourselves. That's enough!"
"These are some different insights between me and my brother, but similar insights to my brother's. I won't waste everyone's time by going into details!"
Wu Gan finally talked about his feelings during this period. He also had some perspectives of his own, so he saw different stories and different human natures, so he had different feelings.
Yu Fei also felt very satisfied. What Wu Gan saw and thought was also very profound, and he was very smart. He would not talk about what his brother had said, otherwise there would be an overlap for his brother.
The feeling made Yu Fei feel that they were plagiarizing each other.
If Wu Gan had the insights of his brother, plus his own, it would be a huge gain!
Looking at these two brothers now, their eyes are much more determined, and they really have more of a manly flavor.
This means that these two men have grown up. The growth of a man can be easily seen from his face and eyes. His face is not something he is born with, but an external appearance accumulated from his own inner heart.
And a person's eyes are the windows to a person's soul. How can a person with evasive eyes and a submissive mind achieve great achievements!
Chapter completed!