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The 4061st chapter how to teach children

The embarrassment of these people was their business. Liu Chuanzhi's family had a great time venting their anger. They fought back hard against these snobbish relatives. When they walked out of the door, Liu Chuanzhi felt really proud.

Although he has some relatives, he rarely moves around because others look down on them and he never bothers others.

But this time Liu Chuanhong took the initiative to invite. He thought this might be a good opportunity for everyone to get acquainted with each other again, but he didn't expect that it would turn out like this.

Sure enough, as the old saying goes, a dog can't change its habit of eating shit, and those snobbery will always be snobbery.

"Chuan Wen, I didn't expect it to turn out like this. If I had known it, I wouldn't have asked you to come over. I would have made you suffer with me!"

While walking out, Liu Chuanzhi said to Yu Fei apologetically.

"It's okay. I haven't experienced such relatives personally. This is all life experience. Moreover, I punished them so severely today and released all the grievances you had before. We didn't have anything to eat.

Damn, who knows who is embarrassed and uncomfortable!"

Yu Fei waved his hand and said, but he found it quite interesting. He could clearly see the ugliness of human nature. After today's experiences, when relatives come together in the future, Yu Fei will know whether they are humans or ghosts, and he will be able to make quick and decisive decisions.

Made an idea.

"Dad, why do those older brothers, sisters, and younger brothers and sisters all gang up to bully me?"

Xiao Yun'er's little head still couldn't figure out why she was being bullied. She felt that she was doing much better than those people. She didn't fight or grab. When other people's toys stopped playing, she couldn't help but curiously picked them up and took a look.

When the other party asked for it, she immediately returned it, but the children still beat and scolded her.

Liu Chuanzhi and Wang Xiumei looked at each other in embarrassment, not knowing how to answer Xiao Yun'er's question. If the answer was not good, it might lead Xiao Yun'er's thoughts in the wrong direction.

"Xiao Yun'er, teacher, let me tell you, the reason why they ganged up to target you is not your fault, it's their fault!"

"You did a good job. You didn't fight, you didn't grab, and you didn't fight back casually. They used swear words and even beat people. They are a negative example!"

"Not everyone has a reasonable parent, so the children they raise may not be as well-behaved and sensible as you. So we insist on being ourselves, and if we encounter children like that in the future, we will stay away from them!"

"Our Xiaoyun'er is the most well-behaved child, right?"

Ding Taotao saw the dilemma between Liu Chuanzhi and his wife, so she took Xiao Yun'er and held her in her arms, educating Xiao Yun'er.

"Well, Xiao Yun'er is the most well-behaved! Xiao Yun'er must be obedient and stay away from misbehaving children in the future!"

Xiao Yun'er nodded. Ding Taotao spoke in a gentle tone and in an organized manner. She praised her children when they needed to be praised and affirmed her children immediately when they needed to be affirmed. This would make the children feel respected, so they were very willing to listen to Ding Taotao.

if.

"Taotao deserves to be a teacher! This is so well said!"

Wang Xiumei immediately happily said to Ding Taotao. In fact, she was thinking the same thing as Ding Taotao, but she just felt that she couldn't say such nice sentences. Ding Taotao's education of Xiaoyunren was so effective, Wang Xiumei was happy from the bottom of her heart.

"Sister-in-law, I just have some skills in language. Sister-in-law, you are not bad either. You have made most of the credit for teaching Xiao Yun'er to be so well-behaved and cute! Xiao Yun'er is the most well-behaved child I have ever seen!"

Ding Taotao immediately praised Wang Xiumei and affirmed her contribution and achievements.

To be honest, Yu Fei has always felt that this sister-in-law is really outstanding. Although she is a rural woman, she has not read many books, and has not seen much of the world, but some of the characteristics of people actually come from their bones and their family since childhood.

Regarding education, Wang Xiumei's simple values ​​and way of doing things really make many people who consider themselves highly educated feel guilty.

However, Yu Fei also feels that this woman is a little too weak when raising children. She always lets her children suffer, always tolerates others, and always does not let her children learn to fight back. This is not necessarily a good thing.

Among people who really live in this world and live well, who is not constantly competing for resources with others? Isn’t that person always in various struggles?

Therefore, teaching children to be well-behaved from an early age seems to be easy to take care of, and it is also very worry-free, but this is really detrimental to the child's future development. The child's wildness and temper have been wiped out, so how can he do big things?

"I think Xiao Yun'er is really good. As long as she doesn't take the initiative to bully others, she will be fine. If she is bullied, she should learn to fight back appropriately!"

"This is also a skill that an adult must learn, otherwise adults will not be able to gain a foothold in society!"

"Nowadays, children are taught to be too honest and too cowardly. It seems to be well-behaved and it seems to save us some trouble. But once a child develops such a character, it may be difficult to change it in his life. How will he work hard in society in the future?

How will you be able to work in the future?"

"When I have time in the future, I will teach Xiaoyun'er some simple and basic martial arts moves. On the one hand, it will help her strengthen her body. On the other hand, if she encounters a situation like today again, don't be polite, fight back one by one, and kill those bears.

The children were beaten violently, and I will be responsible for anything that happens, and I can afford any medical expenses!"

Yu Fei expressed his opinions and thoughts, which were somewhat different from others.

This is the law of mixed society that Yu Fei realized. Blind tolerance will only make people push for the next step, and cowardice will only make people think that you are the softest persimmon. Only if you dare to fight back will the other party be afraid of you. Only if you dare to show your sword, others will know.

I won't get anything good from you. There is an old saying that goes well, if you hit with one punch, you will avoid hundreds of punches. This is what it means.

"What if we can't beat him?"

Wang Xiumei said worriedly.

"If you can't beat her, run away! Run back first and tell me, and I'll help her beat her!"

Yu Fei said very forcefully that although Xiao Yun'er had no blood relationship with him, Yu Fei really treated Xiao Yun'er as his own daughter.

Yu Fei knew that it was Xiao Yun'er who brought him home out of kindness, and then he was taken in by Liu Chuanzhi, so Xiao Yun'er is his biggest benefactor today!

It's just that Yu Fei rarely mentions this matter, and Xiao Yun'er is still too young to talk about it often, otherwise it will be detrimental to Xiao Yun'er's growth and the relationship between the two of them.

But Yu Fei knew that his destiny had changed since Xiaoyunren took him home, just like the first domino was knocked down, and then there was a follow-up. Without this first step, the rest

All are zero.

"Yes, I also think what uncle said makes sense. In the past, the little fat man in our village always bullied me because of his good health. He tore the new skirt my mother bought for me. I once again took advantage of him to go to the toilet.

I caught a little snake and threw it in, scaring it so much that it screamed, and he never dared to bully me again!"

Xiao Yun'er actually started to support Yu Fei and told her own success stories.

Everyone was stunned when they heard this. They could understand that Xiao Yun'er dared to fight back, but he dared to catch a snake and throw it into the toilet while others were going to the toilet. Isn't this a bit too brave?

To be honest, no one expected that Xiao Yun'er actually had such a side, and no one saw it.

"Actually, my father taught me how to identify snake species before. I knew it was a non-venomous grass snake, and it was just a small snake. I just happened to encounter it!"

Xiaoyunren noticed that everyone's eyes were wrong and hurriedly explained.

"I was just wondering why Little Fatty doesn't want to play with you anymore. He can't be seen where you are. It turns out it's because of this!"

Liu Chuanzhi finally figured out some things that he didn't understand before, or that he never thought of going there before.

"Then I will be responsible for teaching her to be knowledgeable and sensible, not to actively bully others, and how to avoid danger as a girl!"

"You will teach her how to protect herself, how to fight back, and how to protect her own safety and interests when there is no way to avoid it!"

Ding Taotao thought for a while and felt that what Yu Fei said made sense, so she divided the labor between herself and Yu Fei. Simply teaching one aspect would not work, so they mixed it up. Anyway, their three views were fine, so

There is no need to worry about any contradictions in what they teach, or even disagreements with each other.

Yu Fei and Ding Taotao made this happy decision. They did not regard themselves as outsiders, nor did they regard Xiao Yun'er as an outsider. Liu Chuanzhi was also happy that Xiao Yun had such relatives who truly cared about her, so neither Liu Chuanzhi nor his wife expressed any objection.

They knew that they had been too honest all their lives and could not go out in the village. Now that they have Yu Fei, their lives have become better and better step by step. They live in villas, have motorcycles to travel when they go out, and can go to work.

, but they feel that they are still far away from Yu Fei and Ding Taotao.

Even though they are brother and sister-in-law, in fact they still somewhat admire Yu Fei and Ding Taotao, so when Yu Fei and Ding Taotao teach their children, they feel that what they teach must be better than what they teach!

"Brother, are you still used to living in the villa?"

As everyone walked to the parking lot, Yu Fei asked curiously.

"I'm used to it. It's just too big. Your sister-in-law and I can't live here with a child. There are too many rooms. You and Taotao will come back to stay for a few days when you have time. It will be lively with the extra people among us!"

Liu Chuanzhi said hurriedly, to be honest, just their villa, who in the whole village wouldn't envy it?

But that villa is really not something that ordinary people can build, and after it is built, it needs to be renovated. Yu Fei spent almost the same amount of money to decorate the villa as to build the villa. All kinds of electrical appliances are basically complete, and all kinds of things are included.

New ones. Liu Chuanzhi and the others were reluctant to part with their old belongings before. Finally, they thought about it and left them all in the old house. They could go back and take a look at them when they had time, just as a souvenir.

"It's getting late, why don't you stop riding the motorcycle and let's go back together by car?"

Walking to the parking lot, Yu Fei said to his brother again.

"It's okay! For your sister-in-law and I, having a motorcycle is great. I haven't had enough of riding a motorcycle yet!"

Liu Chuanzhi immediately refused.

In the end, Liu Chuanzhi's family rode motorcycles, and Yu Fei and Ding Taotao drove, just as when they arrived.

However, Yu Fei drove behind his brother and was not in a hurry to leave. He could use his own car lights to illuminate his brother, otherwise it would be really dangerous to ride a motorcycle at night. The speed of the car is slightly faster, but the car lights are dim and bright.

Not far away, it would be very dangerous if you encounter any obstacles.

Liu Chuanzhi knew what Yu Fei was thinking, and he could see the road conditions far away, so he rode the motorcycle very fast. The first car he owned in so many years was still a 90%-new old motorcycle that Yu Fei had ridden before.

, but he is still very satisfied. Before, he thought that he would never have the chance to own a motorcycle of his own in this life.

However, Yu Fei and Ding Taotao, who were following behind, began to discuss buying him a car.

"Zhuanwen, you see my brother has a child at home. The weather is nice. But in rainy and snowy weather, traveling on a motorcycle is definitely not possible. It would be too painful for the child. I don't want to spend money. Let's buy it for him.

A car, right?”

Ding Taotao stared at Xiao Yuner huddled in her mother's arms and said to Yu Fei.

"Okay, no problem! I'll buy it tomorrow!"
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