Chapter 3928 life is difficult
A lonely man and a widow are in the same room, but they are talking about each other's perfect love and perfect lover.
There was uncontrollable admiration and envy on Doudou's face, as if she was about to become Yu Fei's little crush.
Of course, maybe she had some unreasonable thoughts before coming here, but as she chatted more and more with Yu Fei, she really just wanted to chat with Yu Fei. Because of this holy love, she certainly couldn't bear it.
To destroy, how could she bear to break up such a perfect lover.
Of course, another premise is that she has no ability to destroy this love, nor can she break up Yu Fei and Ding Taotao.
"If the boy I once loved so deeply had treated me the same way, I might have married him and had children now, and were working together to build our little family."
Doudou looked at the ground in a daze and murmured to herself that she was not a woman who worshiped money very much, but the reality made her have nothing to trust except making money and believing in money!
"You have to think about it this way. In fact, a person like him is not worthy of you at all. You have to thank him for letting you go. Otherwise, once you are dragged into the quagmire of marriage by such a person, it may be difficult for you to climb out in your life. Every day
She sheds tears and has to swallow her anger for the sake of her children."
"Now that you are still single, you have countless opportunities. You can meet many, many different people every day. Maybe one day you will meet an ideal partner in the sea of people. This partner is caring and warm-hearted.
He is responsible and loyal, and it is worthy of you to entrust your life to him!"
Yu Fei poured a glass of water for each of them. It was obviously a very ordinary glass of boiled water, but in Yu Fei's hand, it was as if he was holding a glass of mellow wine.
Of course, the reason why Doudou felt like this was because Yu Fei's words touched her heart. Every word made her feel comfortable and filled her with longing for life again, which made her no longer
Just like before, I lived in a daze every day. I didn’t know what to do, so I just thought about how to make more money, and then there was nothing more to think about.
The same life, with different ideas, makes people feel as if it is completely different. This is the change brought about by the ideological realm and way of thinking. If a person's thoughts remain unchanged, then life will remain unchanged.
If thoughts are always changing, then it is obviously the original life, but it also makes people feel colorful.
"If I have a child, how should I educate him?"
"If I educate my children to be honest, generous, trustworthy and follow the rules, then they may be bullied everywhere. People who are comfortable in society are often unruly people. People who can make a lot of money are often unruly people.
People, the moral character we have always insisted on has become a burden to a person's development."
"But if I educate my children to use any means before achieving the goal, teach them how to always walk on the edge of the rules, and how to walk on the edge of the law in the future, then the children may really be able to make a lot of money, which is very consistent with the rules of this society, but
In the end, something often happens, and at the critical moment someone abandons the car to save the boss, or he is dragged out to take the blame."
Doudou said worriedly that there were so many things that she couldn't think about and couldn't understand. Today, she met Yu Fei and she wished she could get all the answers at once.
Doudou's question really made Yu Fei think deeply, because this question is difficult to answer. Education is something that has been difficult to do for thousands of years, especially education at different stages must adapt to different stages.
social situation.
There was nothing wrong with Doudou's doubts. Yu Fei didn't have any children yet, so he had no experience. Doudou raised the question and he started to think about it.
"It's really hard to answer this question. People nowadays become officials for the sake of getting rich, and they want to get a solid job.
Stability, in fact, fewer and fewer people actually work with the original intention!"
"Before entering society, children's dreams have changed from being a scientist and other great careers to becoming an anchor, a mistress, and a salted fish!"
"After entering society and the workplace, everyone wants to take shortcuts. Various gloomy incidents in the workplace eventually lead every newcomer astray."
"The changes in society have made how to educate children to behave and do things really become a worrying matter!"
Yu Fei also said with great worry that he now feels very powerless about the current social situation and wants to change it, but this cannot be changed by one or two people.
If we educate our children according to traditional virtues, they will be unable to move forward in this society. They will be bullied and targeted everywhere.
But if we don’t teach traditional virtues, then what should we teach? Teach children to be mercenary? Teach children to do whatever it takes to achieve the goal? Teach children to focus on money?
But in the end, parents will also suffer retaliation. If you teach someone who is worse than a beast, will you be able to live a peaceful and happy life in your later years?
Yu Fei, who had been able to give quick answers to Doudou's questions before, was really stumped at this time. He looked thoughtful, lit up a cigarette, and took a long time to put it to his mouth to smoke.
After one sip, most of it actually blends into the air of the room.
"I didn't expect that there are problems in life that can stump you. If you don't think of it, you don't have to answer it. This is a huge social problem that cannot be solved by one person, so you don't have to take it to heart."
Seeing that Yu Fei was in trouble, Doudou gave Yu Fei a step down, because she felt that this question was really out of line for a single person to ask. This question should be asked to those who have the right to manage these things.
Let them discover problems, let them bring things right, and let them find ways to get the world back on track.
"It's not that I can't answer, it's that I feel like I can't go against my own conscience. I want to be an upright, kind-hearted person with high moral character, but I don't dare to educate my children like this. That would not give them a way to survive. If they go out outside, they will just wander around.
Being targeted, isolated everywhere, and unhappy everywhere!”
Yu Fei sighed and said that he was also in a dilemma. Sometimes it was easy to make decisions about his own problems, because he would not blame himself. If he regretted it, it was his own business. But for educating children, waiting for children
When you have a sense of autonomy, if you make a mistake in educating your child, the child will already be determined and it will be difficult to make changes.
Yu Fei fell into the same dilemma as Doudou. This problem is a problem for hundreds of millions of people. It is not a problem that one or two people can contend with. What people have to face is the choice between their heart and reality.
"Hey! What's wrong with this world? If you don't dare to be a good person, can you only be a bad person?"
Doudou sighed, it was really difficult to understand and accept the current situation.
"Perhaps we are narrow-minded and the situation is not that bad yet!"
Yu Fei could only comfort himself.
But of course the effect of this comfort was very pitiful. Even he himself didn't believe it. To be honest, it was not that there were no good people in the world, but there were very few pure good people. Everyone seemed to be polluted, but the degree of pollution was different.
"What would you do if you had a lot of money?"
Doudou felt that the topic was too heavy, so she simply changed the topic.
"I don't know how much money you are talking about. Anyway, the money I have now, as long as there is no accident, I should not be able to spend it all in this life. After all, I am not a person who is good at spending money. I am satisfied with a normal life.
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"There is a saying that goes well, if you are poor, you can take care of yourself, but if you are rich, you can help the world. I want to make more contributions to this world, my nation and country. I just donated a building to our town a few days ago.
I will donate some to the dormitory building in the future depending on what the children need. My girlfriend and I plan to travel to various places after we don’t have to worry about our business at all and the manpower we have trained can ensure normal operation.
By the way, do your part to protect various endangered animals and plants!"
Yu Fei did not hide it from Doudou, and told his actual situation. Doudou was not really clear about the fact that he had money before, but he later told what he would use the extra money for in the future.
, Doudou was in awe of him again!
In reality, many wealthy people only want to make more money after becoming rich. They use their huge capital power to take away the jobs of ordinary people. They also do charity to avoid taxes and use a small part of their money to earn money for themselves.
A good reputation serves as a talisman.
And after Yu Fei gets rich, he really wants to make some contributions to the world and his motherland.
Yu Fei can't change the current situation of society. Even if he is rich, there will be people who will stop him from destroying the current balance. Yu Fei has no choice but to settle for the second best and contribute some efforts to education. He hopes that starting from cultivating the next generation, he can prepare for the future.
Make some changes.
Then, if you contribute some efforts to those endangered wild animals and plants, this will be regarded as an inexhaustible treasure left to future generations of mankind.
"It's great! Look at the scenery, and you can do meaningful things to make your limited life more exciting. When you get older, you will definitely be very happy when you recall it. I feel that I have not been let down in this life.
What a waste of the good fortune God allowed me to have in this world!”
Doudou immediately said with infinite admiration that she had obviously thought about such a life, but her ability should not be enough to support her to do this.
"Everyone's situation is different. In fact, the pursuit of satisfaction in life does not necessarily have to be the same. People with strong abilities can do things that sound dreamy to others, but not everyone can imitate them.
For ordinary people, taking good care of their families and making them healthy and safe is also happiness. People should be flexible and make different plans based on their different situations!"
Yu Fei saw that Dou Dou had been led astray by him, and hurriedly helped her correct it, so that she would not be obsessed with her own plans for the future, because she would never be able to achieve them, and would be depressed and dissatisfied with the status quo.
"Yes! I'm just an ordinary woman. I shouldn't expect so much. I just want to live a simple life and take good care of my family!"
Doudou nodded. She listened carefully to every word Yu Fei said, and she would accept anything that made sense.
"This time we cooperated with each other. You helped us, and you should have gained a lot. The video has been very popular. You have attracted a lot of fans, right?"
Yu Fei felt it was time to talk about business.
"I feel ashamed when I talk about this. I gained millions of followers in one day. That Mozi was scolded and banned because his true identity was exposed. As for helping the elderly find relatives, I haven't received any valuable advice yet."
clues, but as long as my account is still there, I will continue to upload it repeatedly until I help the old man find his son!"
Doudou nodded. To be honest, the number of fans Yu Fei brought to her could not be achieved without hundreds of thousands of money. This was only one day. As time went by, she, as the only one who could contact the old man,
Chapter completed!