Chapter 3899 The essence has no choice
Yu Fei's words made Kang Li freeze on the spot. She looked at Yu Fei blankly, because at this moment she discovered that her and Yu Fei's understanding of love and life were actually very different.
Kang Li savored Yu Fei's words carefully. It was true that when she was impulsive, she didn't listen to what others said at all, but she would still think about Yu Fei's words for a while.
Yu Fei was obviously tactfully accusing her of only caring about herself and not caring about her family's feelings.
Kang Li was not stupid and understood instantly. Fortunately, Yu Fei said it tactfully and she could still pretend not to understand. If Yu Fei had said it too bluntly, she might have been embarrassed on the spot.
"I don't want to be so willful, but I really like you so much that I feel like I will never fall in love with anyone else in my life."
"I'm really afraid of losing you. I feel like you are the love of my life. I'm like a drowning person. I can only hold on to you, the only big tree floating in front of me, otherwise I will die.
!”
Kang Li said in great pain and confusion.
Kangli really likes Yu Feiwei so much. Everyone will always encounter something they like in their life and feel that only if they get it, they will not regret it for the rest of their lives. Yufei is Kangli who feels that if she doesn’t get it, she will
The lifelong regret is that I will never love that person again in my life.
"Don't think like this. I have researched that when they meet their first love, many people think that they will only love this person in their life, and blindly regard their liking and admiration as love. In the end, most people often
I can’t go to the end with my first love.”
"When I look back many years later, I realize how naive and immature I was back then. I find that I am more moved and anesthetized by myself. In fact, more things are just my own actions and wishful thinking!"
"So don't really think about how much you love me, or how painful it would be to lose me. You can't live a good life when I don't show up."
"I said, we can't. Don't waste time on me. It will only add trouble to yourself. You still have family and friends, and you still have so many people who love and love you. Life does not revolve around one person.
Turning in circles is a group of people turning in circles to keep each other warm!”
"So don't do this again! Your parents are old and you are still so willful. If you let them worry about you and worry about you, they will age faster, and even be in a bad mood for a long time, and your body will be damaged.
The secreted hormones can damage the body’s organs and shorten people’s lifespan!”
This time, Yu Fei gave advice based on experience and the life span and health of his parents. These were issues that Kang Li could not refute or avoid.
After Yu Fei finished speaking, Kang Li lowered her head in embarrassment, because she really had to listen to what Yu Fei said, because Yu Fei was not just making it up, these words were all well-founded.
"I am not saying these things to accuse you. This problem is not very serious now, but if you keep persisting, you will find that the facts will develop as I said, and it is not too late for you to change now!"
"It's not a mistake to like someone, it's your right, but if you insist on it like this, it's a mistake, and it will affect everyone's lives!"
Yu Fei saw that Kang Li had listened and hurriedly struck while the iron was hot.
After Yu Fei finished speaking this time, he took the initiative to pass an apple to Kang Li.
Kang Li reached out to take it, but she didn't eat it while she was still staring at the ground.
Yu Fei sighed, lit a cigarette, and asked Kang Li to think carefully about what he said.
Kang Li really lowered her head and thought about Yu Fei's words. People can't talk too much at one time. These words Yu Fei said are enough for her to ponder for a long time now. After all, she has a love brain now and can
It's good to calm down and think.
And Kangli didn't realize that what Yu Fei said before was actually exaggerated to scare her. After all, Kangli had only been troubled about her relationship for a day or two. Her parents could bear it, as long as she followed up
Once you have adjusted your state and thinking, the problem is actually not big.
So in fact, Kang Li's mistake was not that big, but Yu Fei secretly changed the concept. It seemed that Kang Li would not understand this problem. After all, Yu Fei had read so many books, and the things in his head were far away.
Super cool.
And Yu Fei can be sure that Kang Li's nature is not bad, so Kang Li can definitely listen to what he said, even if she is a bit harsh, she will definitely remember it in her heart, and then think about it slowly in private.
If Kang Li was the kind of woman who was unreasonable, even unreasonable, and did things regardless of the consequences, Yu Fei would not talk nonsense to her, because it would be all in vain. If some people have no conscience at all, no matter how reasonable you say, it will not matter to them.
It's just fart.
"But I really can't give in. I like you so much. I really want to be with you every day, every moment. Being close to you, even if I know that you don't belong to me, I feel happy from the bottom of my heart.
, it’s like being able to get warm sunshine in winter.”
After Kang Li thought for a long time, she opened her mouth and said to Yu Fei, after all, when it comes to feelings, who said that cutting them off with a knife can really cut them off? This is the complexity of feelings. Even if reason knows mistakes, people can't.
Still can't let go.
"I'll make a conclusion for you, that is, if you insist on developing a relationship with me as boyfriend and girlfriend, you will only push me further away, and I will avoid you even more!"
"This is an impossible dead end. The harder you work, the deeper you will dig. If this is the case, you should give up early."
"But there are other ways. If you can adjust your mentality, let go of this persistence and entanglement, and are willing to be friends with me normally, we can contact you occasionally. If you have a chance, you can go to our place and talk to me.
Let’s play with my girlfriend, and you can be a good best friend, so that we can still meet or contact you occasionally!”
"This is the only possibility, so think about it carefully. If you don't seize this opportunity, you may never have another chance. I may disappear at any time. After I go back, I can also change your contact information from
Delete it from my girlfriend’s phone and ask her to change her phone number so you can never find me again!”
"So we don't need to compete with each other to be more ruthless, but we need to understand each other and make concessions to each other, so that we can achieve a good balance in getting along!"
Yu Fei then spoke again. After shaking the other party's confidence, Yu Fei began to push forward step by step. This step was to make the other party give up the obsession of making Yu Fei and her boyfriend and girlfriend, and let her straighten things out.
Mentality, take the initiative to take a step back.
In fact, what Yu Fei just said was to go back and delete the other party's contact information and ask Ding Taotao to change her mobile phone number. It was just a desperate method. Yu Fei would not use it unless it was a last resort. After all, in this case, Ding Taotao would make random guesses and think that he
I incurred a romantic debt outside and couldn't deal with it anymore, so I became a heartless person and lost contact.
After listening to Yu Fei's sincere words, Kang Li suddenly felt a little depressed, because Yu Fei had blocked her path to love growth. Although she had said this before, she said it especially seriously today, and Kang Li also
It could be heard that Yu Fei was giving himself an ultimatum.
Fortunately, Yu Fei gave her another way to choose, that is, to take the road of friends. In addition, she contacted Ding Taotao, but by contacting Ding Taotao and continuing to maintain this relationship, it was equivalent to a two-way binding.
But if she chooses this, she can only stay friends with Yu Fei. Now her relationship with Ding Taotao is getting better and better. Naturally, she is embarrassed to hurt Ding Taotao.
If Ding Taotao's boyfriend is not snatched away, then this relationship will either be suppressed in the bottom of my heart forever, or it will be aborted and the idea will be completely given up.
But at least she still had a way to choose that would prevent her from losing Yu Fei's information forever. This way could make up for some regrets and give her some comfort.
In fact, Yu Fei never mentioned this possibility before, which was a helpless move. Now that Kang Li and Ding Taotao have contact information, this development has become inevitable. But Yu Fei said it early, as if Yu Fei gave it to Kang Li
A possibility and a choice.
"Can you let me think calmly?"
Kang Li knew in her heart that she had only one choice, and this was the only choice, but she still didn't want to agree directly because it was too cruel. If she agreed, she would have to make a decision and break up with her budding love.
She even strangled her budding love to death. This was really cruel, and she needed to do some mental construction.
"Well, don't rush to agree, because in fact there is only one choice. You can calmly adapt to it first!"
Yu Fei nodded, stood up and left Kang Li's room. Kang Li did not stop him, because Kang Li really needed to be alone with herself and think about the matter thoroughly.
After Yu Fei walked out and saw the blue sky and white clouds, he immediately felt much better, because he knew that Kang Li was trying to build herself up mentally. When she walked out of this yurt again, she would have adjusted by then.
Mentality, I won’t bother myself like this anymore. If we can be friends, it’s actually not bad.
When Yu Fei was about to return to his yurt, he looked up and saw this guy Conte driving his 300 tank.
Yu Fei immediately understood that this guy had gone back to his ranch.
Kante quickly followed Yu Fei into the yurt, his face full of excitement.
"Brother, I've got the money. Please help me contact your friends and help me buy a car exactly like yours!"
Conte said excitedly as soon as he walked into the tent.
"So fast? It turns out you went back to sell sheep early in the morning!"
Yu Fei was speechless. This guy really did whatever he was told, and his efficiency was really high.
"That's right! Don't save me money. I still have some unspent money. How much is it from your friend's side? Don't give me a discount, don't waste your favor and ask him to give me the green light. And I still have
You can give him and you a hard-earned fee, so that no one owes the other!"
Kangte nodded, he was really rich and arrogant, and he also knew a little about the ways of the world, so he didn't let Yu Fei help in vain.
"OK!"
Yu Fei nodded. This was something he had promised to Conte a long time ago. Anyway, as long as the money is in place, other problems should not be big.
Yu Fei thought about the words, then called Shuang Junda, and turned on the speakerphone, so that Conte could listen on the side, lest he think that the middleman made a profit, or that there was some other misunderstanding.
"Hey, Brother Liu, you finally remembered that I'm here. When I saw you calling, I was so excited that I almost cried!"
Shuang Junda is a bit more flashy, and he puts on a show as soon as he picks up the phone.
"Don't talk nonsense, it makes you and I seem to have a homosexual relationship. If your anus is itchy, ask Bu Qiang to relieve it for you!"
Yu Fei scolded him back with a smile.
"Hey, Brother Liu, you must have something to do with me, right?"
Shuang Junda stopped joking and immediately got to the point.
Chapter completed!